Merry F'in Christmas - I want a divorce.

Damn, Dude - she's using! Or she has a chemical imbalance. Or...

Thinking over the entire time you've known her, not just this recent upset:

Does she seem to have a higher than average need for reassurance, being told that she's pretty, does a great job, etc.? We all like and need to hear these things, but does she need these affirmations more than many people you know?

Is she bad at making plans for the future and carrying them out from beginning to end?

Did she always have a tendency to become easily bored?

Is she generally supportive and understanding when YOU hit a rough spot. In the past could you always count on her to be there for you, come what may?

Does she talk much about special friends from childhood?

Does she talk about the lessons she learned in this life, saying things like, "I see where I went wrong that time and I have learned from my mistakes." Does she do this in detail, not just generalities?

Does she have a rich inner life that she shares with you?

Does she have difficulty accepting criticism or admitting when she's in the wrong about something?

Does she experience difficulty when she has to be alone?

If any of these questions resonate strongly with you, PM me, and I'll send you a link which might possibly be useful to you.