Drama Drama Drama

[Clodfobble]

It may be moot, either way. After such a course of events, are you really going to be able to stay close friends with the husband while the original "best friend" hates you?

It would be nice to have him understand your side of the story, but after that I personally would think that this couple is off-limits anyway, unless you get the best friend to forgive you--or they get divorced, and you're able to maintain a friendship with the husband without her around.

[Queen of the Ryche]

Originally Posted by Clodfobble

It may be moot, either way. After such a course of events, are you really going to be able to stay close friends with the husband while the original "best friend" hates you?

It would be nice to have him understand your side of the story, but after that I personally would think that this couple is off-limits anyway, unless you get the best friend to forgive you--or they get divorced, and you're able to maintain a friendship with the husband without her around.

Husband was my friend before her, and will be long after.
He and I talked - she told him I knew everything, he said he doesn't care what I knew or for how long anymore - as long as he knows I'm on his side now. Phew. My portion of the crisis resolved.
Now we're just trying to figure out why he hasn't left the beeotch.....
Thank you all for listening. I feel so much better now.

[plthijinx]

Originally Posted by Queen of the Ryche

Now we're just trying to figure out why he hasn't left the beeotch.....

maybe he's used to the situation (other than the cheating thing) i remember when my ex-wife left, what i mistook for love and loneliness was only being used to the living situation and being somewhat comfortable in it.....