Catwoman's Important and Consequential Personal Drama (don't read if easily bored)

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Originally Posted by Catwoman

I agree with you, btw, if you're 100% into someone, you embrace the 'rules' - in fact they wouldn't be rules at all, more an unspoken coalescence... or knowledge... oh I don't know the word, but I agree with you anyway. But these can only come naturally, they can't be enforced by imposing a relationship where there isn't one. It will come of it's own accord, or it won't. Simple really.

I was totally with you, up until the last two sentences. It will come of its own accord with someone down the line, not with this guy. Deep, emotional love doesn't usually develop after two years of 6-ness. You're both waiting for someone better to come along. Which is fine--enjoying each other's company in the meantime can be reasonably rewarding--as long as you're actually keeping your eyes open for that someone better, and not looking only at this guy to see if the feelings do ever develop.