Need advice on a personal situation

[staceyv]

We were friends when he and the ex split up.

Did psycho woman think he was cheating on her?

Even if she did, that's still no excuse for the way she's acting...
I really hope you guys win.

[kerosene]

Thanks Stacey. She had been suspicious since they met. She didn't let him go hang out with friends, or do anything at all alone. She simply didn't trust him. She was extremely insecure.

Thanks for the additional info on lawyers. I have been looking around at Fathers rights sites here and there. I will check out the one on your thread, OC.

[kerosene]

Just wanted to let some of you guys know what is going on in our saga, now:

- Found out earlier this week that psycho ex's fiancee is coming out this weekend for an impromptu visit/wedding. They are getting married. According to bf's daughter, they are "getting married in a few days and moving to Texas".

- Met with a lawyer on Tuesday and we like him. His retainer is 2000.00 which, actually, we are able to come up with through some miraculous sudden sources. (Yay!) He is aggressive, sharp, quick, and insists that he be there for mediation.

- Psycho ex never told us she was getting married (not that she would have to). I think she is using it as part of her scheme. I think it will hurt her chances in court.

- Psycho ex told us mediation is in 2 weeks. We have yet to receive the notice. We have a theory that she thinks since bf doesn't have an attorney, he will back down in mediation and give her what she wants. That will not happen, but she doesn't realize that.

- Things are looking better, since we have a lawyer. He is hopeful about it and feels like we have the ability to make this happen without a psych eval or any of that. Since she is marrying this guy now, she really can't stay, unless she divorces the guy and she will not do that.

- All we have to do is keep her from moving the children to Texas.

Thanks for all who gave support and encouragement...let's hope things go okay, now!