Need advice on a personal situation

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LJ, thanks for the...um...yeah. Thanks

Stacey, this woman *is* psycho. She has been this way for years. She isn't just acting that way. Her whole family is like this. They are part of a super-religious organization that doesn't believe in cutting hair, wearing makeup or jewelry, watching TV, etc. She actually had to ask a counsel of elders for permission to remarry. Bf married the ex when he was 18, and his family was also part of this religious group (though, not quite so radical).

Perth, thanks! I haven't found much I have wanted to post about lately, but I have found a bit more time on the computer lately. I never considered the cellar your thing, though I know you are out there. It's cool, man.

I know someone else responded too...and yes, usually the courts favor the one with the lawyer. Hopefully, the lawyer we get will be as decent as hers. Though, it doesn't take much since her lawyer is truly a dolt. Unfortunately, bf's family definitely doesn't have the money for the lawyer. It seems we might end up having to sell something (god knows what). I suppose our souls could go up for sale