Child Support or Vengence Money?

[OnyxCougar]

Originally Posted by wolf

To get it out of the way ... if you don't want to make the (bank) withdrawals, don't make the (sperm) deposit.

He's happy to help support his children. That is not even the issue.

Get an attorney. You may need more than one, since there are multiple state jurisdictions involved.

How we're going to afford that I don't know.

Get your documentation together. If it's not in writing, or with evidence of a cancelled check, it didn't happen.

Already started. I was on the phone all morning getting the copies of the cancelled checks that have been written since he moved in with me ($3750) and he will be calling his former banks in MI and NJ to get statements and then check copies from them to prove from 01 through 03. Also, we are getting a full and complete copy of the divorce decree. If she divorced him on a publication basis, which you can only do if you don't know where the spouse is, then she lied, because he was calling the girls every week and she knew damn well where he was.

We're looking into phone records to prove that, too.