I know this isn't Oprah but...

[Catwoman]

But I'm after something that will make him see (either way) how he really feels, and take action on it. I think sleeping with someone else would be the ideal way. Plus I could see how I feel about it - maybe I am just caught up in the whole thing and don't really love him at all. Ultimatums just won't work at this stage because he's already given me a reason for not wanting to develop things further. I think the situation just needs a catalyst to instigate change; then at least I'll know for good, either way.

Btw I really appreciate your continued comments guys, I hope I'm not going on too much...