Thank you monster, and you are right. Dad has these discussions with her, and it has been good. This summer seems to be a little better, since she is older, now and able to see what is happening. I think it is a good thing she has someone not part of that group to get a basis in reality at least once a year. The bangs are just one example. Bio-mom does a lot to try to leverage control over her, including trying to convince her that these "meeting" people are the *only* right way and that she should not be coming here in the summers. I am proud of how strong she has become. She sees through this stuff, and still wants to come here.
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