Loneliness is about twice as dangerous as obesity

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You can be in the best shape of your life, high IQ, command an exorbitant salary, live in the center of popular culture, and

She always admired big apple carts, so you figured she loves apple carts. So you set up a really amazing apple cart... the biggest apple cart you could build, and you filled it to the brim with apples. Now it turns out she admired full apple carts because of how the apples would fly everywhere when she pushed them over. Wow, how the apples fly.


(I don't know anything about your relationship, and whether this analogy applies at all, but I have seen this particular drama play out a few times)