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[TheMercenary]

Originally Posted by Perry Winkle

Talk to her about it when she's not feeling completely overwhelmed?

I would have to agree. I think by talking to her when she is not spinning up in her stress and nastiness that most, but obviously not all, people will be reasonable, esp if you have developed a relationship from the past experiences as you described them. Sit her down and tell her your feelings, all of them. You cannot be vague, you must be specific about the things that bothered you by the specific things she said that hurt you. She will understand or she will lose it completely and you will be right back where you started, so nothing really lost. I would find it hard to continue to have a relationship with her after that point if she goes off on you for your honesty. Good luck.