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Old 10-25-2007, 07:23 PM   #1
Aliantha
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Angry at my husband

The night before last, I had a dream where my husband had asked me and the kids (including the extras) to meet him at his office after work so we could all go somewhere for dinner. When we got there, he wasn't there and then he called and was drunk and had forgotten about us. (something he'd never do in real life).

I woke up feeling so pissed off with him that I could barely speak. I stayed pissed off with him all day yesterday and just couldn't stop it. It was really weird. Like gremlins had entered my head and made me totally irrational or something.

Anyway, last night there was a bit of a do at his work and he was home a bit late, but not drunk and definitely not really late. We were all still up. The problem was, that because I was still feeling this crankyness, he thought I was pissed off because he was late, but i was too embarrassed to tell him it was nothing to do with that. lol

Poor bugger. I don't know how he puts up with me sometimes.

Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?
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Old 10-25-2007, 07:26 PM   #2
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Yeah, but mine are usually sexual dreams about men I don't have that sort of relationship with in real life. It usually makes me nervous around them for a few days.
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Old 10-25-2007, 08:17 PM   #3
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Yeah, but mine are usually sexual dreams about men I don't have that sort of relationship with in real life. It usually makes me nervous around them for a few days.
...or a few weeks...
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Old 10-25-2007, 08:28 PM   #4
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Anyway, have you ever had a dream that's affected you like that?
Yes, and I can't wake up.
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Old 10-26-2007, 02:00 PM   #5
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Yes, and I can't wake up.
LOL!!!
Wait that's not funny. Me either.
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Old 10-27-2007, 08:32 AM   #6
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Yes, and I can't wake up.
Shhh, don't worry, the bad dream all over. Al Gore is President, the Middle East is stable, and we're halfway to solving global warming.
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Old 10-25-2007, 08:46 PM   #7
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dreams can totally make you see someone in a new light. it makes you wonder just what the hell your subconscious is trying to tell you about them. makes you second guess yourself.

for instance:

(here's a good example of a time where I was going to make fun of one specific dwellar in a really twisty and unexpected way....by telling you about a dream i had about them that made me realize something about them.....but, because of certain people's (possibly the subject of the aforementioned dream) reaction to that kind of thing, and the row that would certainly ensue.....I am refraining from said activity.) You realize, that now that I've said this much about it, i cannot post the dream (which would have been obviously made up anyway) because you would be expecting it....and it wouldn't be at all entertaining.

Now. which way is better? should I have ripped on the person, and gone for the laugh....or just ....not?
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Old 10-25-2007, 11:08 PM   #8
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telling you about a dream i had about them that made me realize something about them.....
Don't be afraid LJ. Go ahead and talk about the dream you had of me where you were fucking my brains out on a pretty purple cloud. lol!!!
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Old 10-25-2007, 11:19 PM   #9
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Old 10-25-2007, 11:20 PM   #10
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My ex had a dream once that I was cheating on him. He ripped into me the next day as though I was really doing what he had dreamed. I was totally shocked. And furious that he was so mad about something that was totally in his head (and had nothing to do with reality).
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Old 10-25-2007, 08:49 PM   #11
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part of me wants to say that depends on how funny it would have been and part of me wants to shout STOP! my better instincts are leaning towards the latter :P
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Old 10-25-2007, 09:09 PM   #12
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Well there's a big part of me that wants to know all about it now.

Send me a PM Jimbo. I know you want to
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Old 10-25-2007, 09:10 PM   #13
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nope.....sorry...it's the new...kinder gentler lumberjim. hope you're happy, spe..... people.
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Old 10-26-2007, 12:35 AM   #14
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nope.....sorry...it's the new...kinder gentler lumberjim. hope you're happy, spe..... people.
FUCK YOU SPEX YOU FUCKING COCKSUCKER LOOK WHAT YOU DID

YOU HAVE KILLED MY JOY
YOU MADE A LITTLE BOY CRY

ARE YOU HAPPY NOW YOU DICK? LIFE IS NO LONGER FUNNY TO ME

I HOPE YOU DIE LIKE THAT ONE GUY'S BANANACIDED SISTER YOU ASSCOCK


AND YOU SMELL LIKE A FAT CLOWN'S ASSHOLE TOO JERK



...
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Old 10-25-2007, 09:39 PM   #15
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hmmm...very interesting.
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