I need some help

Big Sarge · 05-05-2009, 07:08 PM

I'm looking for some help from fellow cellarites who are familiar with social networking sites. Here's the scoop:

The ex is a regular on several of the sites. I am blocked because I am not a friend (she had over 200 friends last I saw). She is posting photos and videos of my daughter that I would give anything to see. Remember, I have only seen my baby once since Nov.

If anybody could help me get a few pictures, I would be so grateful

Aliantha · 05-05-2009, 07:10 PM

Do you know any of the people who she's friends with? Maybe they could help you view the pics and vids?

Big Sarge · 05-05-2009, 07:25 PM

I really don't know them except for a few local ones that I don't get along with. I'm not very good at it or I would try to create a fake id and become a friend. BTW ya'll, I'm not trying to get any information on her. I am only looking for photos of my daughter.

monster · 05-05-2009, 08:52 PM

How do you know she is posting photos and vids of her? What I'm getting at here is can you use the source of that information to get to them?

Big Sarge · 05-05-2009, 09:35 PM

She will post in her status updates that she has uploaded new pics of my daughter. She even posted a status update on the potty training. LOL.

monster · 05-05-2009, 09:52 PM

have you asked her to post them elsewhere or send them to you so you can see them without appearing to stalk her?

capnhowdy · 05-06-2009, 07:27 AM

A link to the sites would be a great start.

Undertoad · 05-06-2009, 09:35 AM

What do the family courts have to say about the situation

sugarpop · 05-06-2009, 10:21 AM

Why are you blocked? I don't understand. Is SHE blocking you from joining? Or are you member of the site, but not a "friend" of hers?

classicman · 05-06-2009, 10:26 AM

I believe SHE is blocking him. Apparently she is using he child as a tool to inflict pain in a breakup.

(I only know what is on here, so that is all assumption)

sugarpop · 05-06-2009, 03:30 PM

Well, if SHE is blocking him, then I don't know.

Big Sarge, are you guys on really bad terms or something? Is there no reasoning with her? Can you not appeal to her sense of ethical judgement and fairness, or does she simply have none?

Big Sarge · 05-06-2009, 05:10 PM

Situation between is very bad and we are embroiled in a heated custody battle. Here's the short story of the situation: Older man falls for pretty younger girl & deploys. We had a beautiful baby born while I was deployed. When I return, the Army sends me to a hospital 8 hours from home. She falls for another soldier, who was married. They run away together (with my baby) to another state after cleaning out my savings to pay for his divorce and "start their new life".

I should not have troubled ya'll with this. I never had any intent on stalking her. Let's just drop it

sugarpop · 05-06-2009, 05:58 PM

OK, from my understanding, that is not OK behavior in the military. A soldier running off with another soldier's wife is definitely a no-no, supposedly. Can't you use that resource (the military) in order to get what you want?

And how is it exactly she got to clean out YOUR savings without being penalized?

classicman · 05-06-2009, 06:19 PM

lol - what difference does it make if they are in the military or not? whew

Alluvial · 05-06-2009, 06:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by classicman

lol - what difference does it make if they are in the military or not? whew

The military makes it a point to be involved in the home lives of servicemen. Domestic troubles are taken seriously.

05-05-2009, 07:08 PM	#1
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	I need some help I'm looking for some help from fellow cellarites who are familiar with social networking sites. Here's the scoop: The ex is a regular on several of the sites. I am blocked because I am not a friend (she had over 200 friends last I saw). She is posting photos and videos of my daughter that I would give anything to see. Remember, I have only seen my baby once since Nov. If anybody could help me get a few pictures, I would be so grateful __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

05-05-2009, 07:10 PM	#2
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Do you know any of the people who she's friends with? Maybe they could help you view the pics and vids? __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

05-05-2009, 07:25 PM	#3
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	I really don't know them except for a few local ones that I don't get along with. I'm not very good at it or I would try to create a fake id and become a friend. BTW ya'll, I'm not trying to get any information on her. I am only looking for photos of my daughter. __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

05-05-2009, 08:52 PM	#4
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	How do you know she is posting photos and vids of her? What I'm getting at here is can you use the source of that information to get to them? __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

05-05-2009, 09:35 PM	#5
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	She will post in her status updates that she has uploaded new pics of my daughter. She even posted a status update on the potty training. LOL. __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

05-05-2009, 09:52 PM	#6
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	have you asked her to post them elsewhere or send them to you so you can see them without appearing to stalk her? __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

05-06-2009, 07:27 AM	#7
capnhowdy Blatantly Homosapien Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 6,200	A link to the sites would be a great start. __________________ Please type slowly. I can't read very fast............... and no holy water, please.

05-06-2009, 09:35 AM	#8
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	What do the family courts have to say about the situation

05-06-2009, 10:21 AM	#9
sugarpop Professor Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: the edge of the abyss Posts: 1,947	Why are you blocked? I don't understand. Is SHE blocking you from joining? Or are you member of the site, but not a "friend" of hers?

05-06-2009, 10:26 AM	#10
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	I believe SHE is blocking him. Apparently she is using he child as a tool to inflict pain in a breakup. (I only know what is on here, so that is all assumption) __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

05-06-2009, 03:30 PM	#11
sugarpop Professor Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: the edge of the abyss Posts: 1,947	Well, if SHE is blocking him, then I don't know. Big Sarge, are you guys on really bad terms or something? Is there no reasoning with her? Can you not appeal to her sense of ethical judgement and fairness, or does she simply have none?

05-06-2009, 05:10 PM	#12
Big Sarge Werepandas - lurking in your shadows Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: In the Deep South Posts: 3,408	Situation between is very bad and we are embroiled in a heated custody battle. Here's the short story of the situation: Older man falls for pretty younger girl & deploys. We had a beautiful baby born while I was deployed. When I return, the Army sends me to a hospital 8 hours from home. She falls for another soldier, who was married. They run away together (with my baby) to another state after cleaning out my savings to pay for his divorce and "start their new life". I should not have troubled ya'll with this. I never had any intent on stalking her. Let's just drop it __________________ Give a man a match, & he'll be warm for 20 seconds. But toss that man a white phosphorus grenade and he'll be warm for the rest of his life.

05-06-2009, 05:58 PM	#13
sugarpop Professor Join Date: Nov 2008 Location: the edge of the abyss Posts: 1,947	OK, from my understanding, that is not OK behavior in the military. A soldier running off with another soldier's wife is definitely a no-no, supposedly. Can't you use that resource (the military) in order to get what you want? And how is it exactly she got to clean out YOUR savings without being penalized?

05-06-2009, 06:19 PM	#14
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	lol - what difference does it make if they are in the military or not? whew __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

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