I need some help
 

I'm looking for some help from fellow cellarites who are familiar with social networking sites. Here's the scoop:

The ex is a regular on several of the sites. I am blocked because I am not a friend (she had over 200 friends last I saw). She is posting photos and videos of my daughter that I would give anything to see. Remember, I have only seen my baby once since Nov.

If anybody could help me get a few pictures, I would be so grateful

Do you know any of the people who she's friends with? Maybe they could help you view the pics and vids?

I really don't know them except for a few local ones that I don't get along with. I'm not very good at it or I would try to create a fake id and become a friend. BTW ya'll, I'm not trying to get any information on her. I am only looking for photos of my daughter.

How do you know she is posting photos and vids of her? What I'm getting at here is can you use the source of that information to get to them?

She will post in her status updates that she has uploaded new pics of my daughter. She even posted a status update on the potty training. LOL.

have you asked her to post them elsewhere or send them to you so you can see them without appearing to stalk her?

A link to the sites would be a great start.

What do the family courts have to say about the situation

Why are you blocked? I don't understand. Is SHE blocking you from joining? Or are you member of the site, but not a "friend" of hers?

I believe SHE is blocking him. Apparently she is using he child as a tool to inflict pain in a breakup.


(I only know what is on here, so that is all assumption)

Well, if SHE is blocking him, then I don't know.

Big Sarge, are you guys on really bad terms or something? Is there no reasoning with her? Can you not appeal to her sense of ethical judgement and fairness, or does she simply have none?

Situation between is very bad and we are embroiled in a heated custody battle. Here's the short story of the situation: Older man falls for pretty younger girl & deploys. We had a beautiful baby born while I was deployed. When I return, the Army sends me to a hospital 8 hours from home. She falls for another soldier, who was married. They run away together (with my baby) to another state after cleaning out my savings to pay for his divorce and "start their new life".

I should not have troubled ya'll with this. I never had any intent on stalking her. Let's just drop it

OK, from my understanding, that is not OK behavior in the military. A soldier running off with another soldier's wife is definitely a no-no, supposedly. Can't you use that resource (the military) in order to get what you want?

And how is it exactly she got to clean out YOUR savings without being penalized? :mad:

lol - what difference does it make if they are in the military or not? whew

The military makes it a point to be involved in the home lives of servicemen. Domestic troubles are taken seriously.