Sigh...
I was hoping to stay outta this one, but I've been "dragged" back in. I know, I can ignore it, but I feel compelled to respond on the two points where I was "attacked".
However, this is my last post on this issue. I usually avoid the whole topic of abortion in RL because, as I have said, everyone has their beliefs and mine is that either side is unwinnable.
I find it funny, however, that although I said something along the lines of "I'm slightly pro-choice" (IOW, that's probably how I'd vote if it came to that), someone is trying to make me see that pro-life is just
dead wrong and that these pople make no sense.... and I just can't feel that way.
If I saw
proof that a 10 cell blathocyst had a "soul" if you will, or a "consciousness" or whatever you wanted to call it, I'd agree that, in most cases, abortion should be illegal.
Unfortunately, I haven't seen such proof. Nor have I seen contractiditory proof. And "common sense" is not a valid argument since both sides (equally reasonably) clain that they are sure they have that...
As an aside, I have not even seen proof that an
infant has consciousness. There have been theories that consciousness is developed post-natally, but I think we'd all agree that a two-month old infant should not be killed -- that that would be murder. So, I am not even sure if that would
truly settle this, apparently, eternal debate.
Anyhow, on to my last reply on this thread:
So we're back to rights, and what decent human rights are...good luck defining that. Of course i could say that your definition of "decent human rights" is still putting your morals on others....
Yup. It is. And that was my whole point. That's what we do when we make theft and murder illegal. IOW, it is a common practice condoned by all to "force" some "morals" on others.
As now proven by someone how fits two of my cirteria of a pro-lifer very snugly that opinion and such extremes as no abortion in cases of rape seem to go hand in hand. I'm sure you'd think it crazy if someone raped you at knifepoint in an alley and then expected you to keep the child.
And, as I have said (in almost every argument I have had) saying that I could be put in some position where I might feel differently does not make my opinion
wrong -- very few people's dedication to their principles are that strong. But even though I am willing to concede that I might feel differently point, I
never said that, if I were pro-life, I might not believe in exceptions. And, I maintain that I don't know what I would think. Hypotheticals are often bad ways to prove anything, becuase no one truly knows what they would do in any given situation.
At any rate, I think this would be a case where I would have a strong difference between feelings and thoughts - a situation, which many here can attest, that I have had several times before. I
believe that while I would probably feel like I had every right to do what I wanted (and again, I am NOT saying that I wouldn't have that right), but at the same time, I believe I would
think, as much as I might hate it, that the other person is still, based on their opinions, fighting for what they believe is right.
I have often respected/understood the opinions of others even though they interfere with my rights and choices and can annoy me to no end.
I have a friend who is VERY pro gun-control and, although we disagree on that point vehamantly, after many conversations, I now understand his position. And, if I had his beliefs, I'd agree with him. That's why he and I seldom discuss the topic any longer -- the disagreement comes down to basic beliefs. Any further conversation will be pointless and just get both of us angry. So, by mutual decision, we avoid the topic.
And it's why I will not discuss this topic any longer other than to re-state my original point: This argument cannot be won either way until we have some clear evidence at what point a "human" life begins. And, I will add, even then, we would have differing opinions as to possible exceptions and the extent of enforcement.
I have never seen this debate change even a single person's mind. So, I will no longer ever waste my time trying to stop it. Anyone who wishes to continue it, Enjoy!
See you on other threads! :)