Cyber Wolf • Aug 14, 2004 11:46 pm
Well I guess we can toss California into the same smelly pit Missouri went into a couple of weeks ago. :mad2:
Can't catch a break
Can't catch a break
Cyber Wolf wrote:Well I guess we can toss California .........Missouri....
Cyber Wolf wrote:.......not right about doing that to those people.
Cyber Wolf wrote:Regardless of CA's political make up, there's something just not right about doing that to those people. CA can go sit in the corner until its courts can fully explain.
smoothmoniker wrote:The voters approved a referendum that defines marriage as a union between one man and one woman.
smoothmoniker wrote:The voters approved a referendum that defines marriage as a union between one man and one woman.
slang wrote:Look at the bright side Cyber Wolf, there are a considerable number of people that see things as you do. There are most certainly a majority on the board here that do.
That doesn't mean there isn't an opposing viewpoint though.
sycamore wrote:My challenge from November still stands: I challenge anyone who opposes gay marriages to present non-religious amoral reasons as to why they should not be allowed.
sycamore wrote:Okay Slang...I'll bite...how do you figure that gay marriage will lead to marriage between man and beast and polygamy? This oughta be good.
Skunks wrote:Are people who argue for "gay rights" specifically pushing for the term "marriage", or do people mostly want the rights and authenticity associated with marriage, regardless of what term is slapped on it?
Skunks wrote:I ask because I can understand where people who want to keep marriage separate are coming from (isn't it a fairly fundamentally religious institution?) What I don't understand is any opposition to an otherwise identical legal bond. I was going to go on one of my rants-against-an-enemy-who-doesn't-exist, but in rereading it sounded as though I was pushing a 'separate-but-equal' agenda as a middle ground.
Skunks wrote:I'm not sure such a compromise is good, both because it probably doesn't change the fundamental issue of bigotry towards homosexuals and because it starts us down a more probable slippery slope than any that end in marriage between man and dog. "Separate but equal" and such. Would it be justified in this case, because there are more tangible differences between heterosexual and homosexual relationships than there are between blacks and whites, to keep them separate?
Nobody's asking them to have gay marriages themselves. If they want to pretend to live in a world without gays, I see no need to help them do so. Your argument would not look out of place as an argument against racial integration in public schools.slang wrote:Would you agree that there are people that would like to isolate themselves from gay marriage? Would you agree that there are large number of these people? Would you agree that a significant number of these people have kids?
"The study, conducted by Republican pollster Bill McInturff and Democratic pollster Stan Greenberg, found that 56 percent of respondents are opposed to gay marriage, while 30 percent support it."So, what we have here, is a situation where 30 percent support the legalization of something which could help about 10% (or so) and harms none. Sounds like a reason to legalize it.
It is not more a religious term than anything else. Civil marriage is not associated in any way with religion, except that clergy are among those allowed to file the forms in proxy for a couple.
If the term marriage is more a religious term than anything else, why would having two separate but equal terms be so terrible? Because the phrase infers some kind of illegal descrimination? I don't know?
Homosexuality is NOT a choice...well, unless you're bisexual. Think about it...why would anyone CHOOSE to be ostracized or discriminated against?Oh yeah? Explain Goths, then. :biggrin:
slang wrote:Do you really think the two are of the same political makeup? I don't. California is the most liberal state in the union. There must be a reason for the ruling.
sycamore wrote:"A phase"...besides, being a Goth is cool again. :)
Griff wrote:Once we get people to respect each others rights and preferences
Griff wrote:Actually the hills a full of these pathetic Goth types... sad really. :(
Happy Monkey wrote:Your argument would not look out of place as an argument against racial integration in public schools.
Thanks. I also have a tendency to occasionally phrase things in a more accusatory and harsh way than I intend. I hope my post didn't come off as an accusation of bigotry, though I expect it did.slang wrote:Have I ever told you how much I actually like many of the things you post here, Happy Monkey? I mean this quite seriously.You will often add a source to back up your arguments and tend not to come across as being the self appointed Oracle. Whether you care or not, that encourages people to actually read and consider you comments.
"In which of the two situations would tolerance and acceptance be more likely......home schooling, where the kids are basically not dealing with any kids outside of the parent's circle of friends.......or the public school?"I do, however, think it fits. I'm sure that many people changed schools to avoid integrated schools, and I'm sure that many people felt that forcing integration "too soon" would decrease support for the civil rights movement. It hasn't been perfect, but I think it was the right move. Likewise, I think that the best way to decrease homophobia is to have a few gay families in schools, being normal.
If the Christian masses decided to take their kids out of public school to be home schooled or entered them into a private school , it would be their right to do so for whatever reason it might be. They would not be denying anyone's rights by doing so. The same is true of the migration from private school to homeschooling. Having read my entire post, I can't imgaine anyone coming to the conclusion that this would not look out of place as an argument against racial integration in public schools.
I'm going to stop coming in for a while again. Maybe I can do it, maybe not. Anyway.....see you all later.Come back soon!
xoxoxoBruce wrote:Because marriage is a state of union whereby a man and woman can procreate and then teach the boys to belch and fart, and teach the girls to bitch and whine for jewelry. :p
sycamore wrote:I think Wolf has had the best solution thus far: replace "marriage" with "civil union" across the board.
That's not true. A marriage license is in effect when completed, whether or not clergy is involved. Someone does not need state permission for a religious marriage, or religious permission for a civil marriage.They are legally separate things, though a religious marriage greases the wheels for a civil marriage. No change in terminlogy would be necessary.wolf wrote:The Marriage license presented by most states is the civil permission for a union, that's not in effect until someone pronounces the necessary holy words (of the religion(s) of the couple's choice).
Either divorce or a fight to the death, winner gets the HBO special proceeds. ;)Pie wrote:So if I don't ever intend to breed, I shouldn't be able to get married? If that's your argument, we gotta make all childless couples divorce right away.
- Pie
Happy Monkey wrote:That's not true. A marriage license is in effect when completed, whether or not clergy is involved. Someone does not need state permission for a religious marriage, or religious permission for a civil marriage.They are legally separate things, though a religious marriage greases the wheels for a civil marriage. No change in terminlogy would be necessary.
ladysycamore wrote:No one seems to mention that when it comes down to respecting the institution of marriage...isn't it 'till death do you part?
Not in PA or MA (I haven't gotten married in any other states yet). The license just means you've cleared the hurtle of convincing the state(county?) that you can legally marry, such as you bothered to get a divorce after the last one and had your rabies tests.Happy Monkey wrote:It's a license to get certain legal benefits. Al you need to be married is to believe you are, but you gotta do the paperwork to get the rights associated.
slang wrote:Now, I think I know where you stand on this but you have to understand, there are many people that just don't think that denying same sex couple's legal marriage is a crime. I am one of them.
I think that eventually it will pass, but I don't think we're ready for gay marriage. I'm not convinced that it's a civil liberties violation.
The Justice, Judge, clergy, etc. are part of the paperwork. Don't they sign the license?xoxoxoBruce wrote:Not in PA or MA (I haven't gotten married in any other states yet). The license just means you've cleared the hurtle of convincing the state(county?) that you can legally marry, such as you bothered to get a divorce after the last one and had your rabies tests.
Then with license in hand you have to have a clergy, Justice of the Peace, Judge or some other person with the power vested by the state, actually do the deed.
Happy Monkey wrote:OK, I had the terminology messed up. They sign the certificate. In any case, all you need for the benefits of a civil marriage is paperwork, which you can get without clergy. And a church can give a religious marriage without filing any paperwork, and you won't get the legal benefits. Or you could do both. The systems are separate already.
"It is also a sobering indication of where we are heading if the radical homosexuals have their way with hate-crimes legislation."Heh. Idiot.
"Homosexual activists leave no room for free speech. They arrogate to themselves the authority to determine who may and may not speak, and what language they must use," he added.Maybe he's a idiot but he called this one right.
Brian Fahling, a senior trial attorney for the CLP, said, "The term 'homosexual' is the proper term for an individual such as Mr. Rawls, who admits that he is sexually attracted to persons of the same sex.Rawls acted like they called him a fudge packing, cocksucking, faggot, or something. The man is out of control and I don't want him determining what is permissable behavior. We already have too many laws against offending the sensibilities of the politically correct. :mad: