xoxoxoBruce • Nov 27, 2016 10:20 am
From GQ, a 78 year old man tells it like it is.
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Last month my dad turned seventy-eight years old. A few days before his birthday, I drove down to San Diego to see him.
“What do you want for your birthday,” I asked, as we sat in his living room.
“I want to talk to you about something. Let’s take the dog for a walk,” he said, as he grabbed a leash that sat next to his recliner. “You take the shit bag,” he added, handing me a bundled up plastic baggy.
We headed up his quiet suburban street as his large brown Rottweiler mix walked ahead.
“The human body wasn’t meant to live this long,” he said.
“Seventy-eight is not that old,” I replied.
“Do we have to sit here and dignify a clearly horseshit statement such as that, or can you cease to pander to me and just have a conversation?”
“Okay. Seventy-eight is old.”
He hiked up his sweatpants and quickened the pace of our walk.
“I’m not complaining. I’m just saying people peddle this ridiculous idea that you can be an old person and go water skiing and fuck whenever you want and it’s bullshit. It’s fucking hubris that’s specific to humans and no other species,” he said, as he yanked the dog’s leash, pulling it away from the neighbor’s lawn right before it trampled their flowers.
“Well, the other option is to just accept that death is coming for you,” I replied.
“It is coming for you. You can’t beat death. It’s un-fucking-defeated. And if you fight it, it will humiliate you. It’ll chain you to a bed and make someone have to wipe your shitty ass. It’ll make you forget who your own fucking kids are. It takes your dignity and it whips its’ dick out and pisses on it. When you’re younger and it comes for you, it’s worth it to fight it and suffer through the humiliation. When you’re older, what the fuck does it get you to go through that?,” he said, then took a deep breath and stopped on the sidewalk.
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