General medicine vs Internist

Lola Bunny • Jun 18, 2014 2:48 pm
I'm looking for a doctor and was going to choose a regular family doctor. A friend told me it's better to internist. I said internist is for older people, to which she replied that I'm not exactly young and am just going to get older. I'm hoping to find a doctor for now and to keep for the long run. So, I'm asking for Dwellars' opinion to whether I should find an internist or just go with a doc in general medicine?
xoxoxoBruce • Jun 18, 2014 3:50 pm
Demand warm hands. ;)
Lola Bunny • Jun 18, 2014 4:08 pm
Ugh...Bruce, that's no help.

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Clodfobble • Jun 18, 2014 7:05 pm
As far as I've always known, an internist and a general practitioner are the same thing. An internist doesn't specialize in old people, that's geriatrics. But regardless, I think the far more important question is whether the doctor is a good one. I'd ask for name recommendations from people in your area and go with that, nevermind the specialty.
Big Sarge • Jun 18, 2014 7:48 pm
sounds like a question for orthodoc
Pamela • Jun 18, 2014 11:00 pm
an internist is a specialist, like a otolaryngologist (ENT doc). They specialise in internal medicine. They are not the same as a GP. I would prefer an internist over a GP, but it would not me the overriding factor in my decision.
Clodfobble • Jun 19, 2014 9:22 am
I ain't buying it. There are plenty of places online that try to differentiate between the two, but they all give different (and conflicting) reasons. The only thing they all agree on is that Internists don't see children.

A short list of additional experiences [for the internist] includes psychiatry, dermatology, ophthalmology, office gynecology, palliative medicine and rehabilitation medicine. Like family medicine physicians, the internist may provide care to adults as broadly or narrowly as he likes. Currently, the majority of internal medicine trained physicians go on to complete subspecialty training, though recent years have seen a small increase in residency graduates electing to stay in general internal medicine.


Psychiatry and dermatology are the opposite of internal diseases. And anyone who can follow up with a subspecialty is "general" enough for me. Your ENT does not have a subspecialty in dermatology, because being an ENT is already a specialty. I maintain that whatever the technical definition is or used to be, being an internist is a specialization without a practical meaning.
Sundae • Jun 19, 2014 9:49 am
Wow. We see the GP our postcode determines.
I'd never even heard of an internist.

No help to you, Lola.
All I will say is when other people are offering their advice be aware of the why.
I've known some parents who consider a good Doctor to be one who gives their child medicine every time they go with a complaint. Hello? Way to make antibiotics disease resistant. Ditto anti-depressants used as a placebo. And yes, I take anti-depressants, so I am not questioning their value where necessary. But hearing someone say, "I knew today would be a hard day so I took extra Prozac [or whatever]" does make me cross.

Of course there is the flip side where a bad Doctor dismisses important symptoms. Again and again. Sadly seems more prevalent for women as they get older, so many cases of late-diagnosed cancer et al.

So just good luck and keep asking questions.
WHY is an important one.
Clodfobble • Jun 19, 2014 1:58 pm
Sundae wrote:
Wow. We see the GP our postcode determines.


See, I feel like I know a fair amount about the UK, but then every once in awhile a statement about your country just floors me. I cannot even fathom being assigned to a doctor based on neighborhood, and having no recourse for a second opinion. Please tell me there are at least private GPs you can go see if you choose to pay out-of-pocket, right?
limey • Jun 19, 2014 2:10 pm
Most GPs in the UK work in a practice with a number of other GPs. Although you are nominally assigned to one GP at the practice you can see any one of them you like (or who is available when you need an appointment). It can be quite hard to be seen by the same doctor all the time.
If you want a second opinion you can ask for one from the same practice.
A GP will refer you to a specialist for treatment/diagnosis that is more specialist. Some stuff at a practice is dealt with by the practice nurse (routine blood taking, things like asthma clinics/monitoring etc).
Oh, and you can always pay for private treatment, if you have the money.


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wolf • Jun 19, 2014 4:32 pm
Just to throw some extra confusion into the mix ... Look for a board certified family practitioner.
Lola Bunny • Jun 19, 2014 4:52 pm
Yeah, the ones I looked at are board certified. I made sure I read their bio. Talk about adding confusion to the mix, there's this one doctor with good reviews, but she's a D.O., not an M.D. What's the difference? They basically have the same training except...except....I have to do more googling. I didn't quite get it.
Lola Bunny • Jun 19, 2014 4:54 pm
Oh yeah, I want a woman doctor. Few people I've asked go to a prescription happy doctor. Hmmm....I don't really like that.
Pamela • Jun 19, 2014 7:37 pm
Right now, I would KILL for a prescription-happy doctor of ANY speciaty.

I fired my endo for gross incompetence and arrogance. And my insurance company gerrymandered me out of my regular doctor's area and assigned me another one randomly. I have to call them and find out who it is again (I misplced the letter),, make an appt (6-8 weeks), see that doc, get referrals to another endo, make another appt (6-8 weeks again) before I can get my meds again.

I get a mite testy when off my thyroid meds. Also I run the risk of a thyroid storm again, which can be dangerous when behind the wheel.
sexobon • Jun 19, 2014 8:48 pm
Clodfobble;902182 wrote:
... I maintain that whatever the technical definition is or used to be, being an internist is a specialization without a practical meaning.

For the patients, it means not having to sit in a waiting room with a bunch of whiny kids. :D
orthodoc • Jun 19, 2014 8:59 pm
In the US, internists are primary care physicians who only see adults. Family practitioners see all ages, from infants to geriatrics. Both are primary care physicians.

For what you want, Lola, I would look for someone who sees women in your age range, someone who will address your concerns and who you feel comfortable with. It could be an internist or a FP.

DOs are Doctors of Osteopathy; they learn techniques of musculoskeletal manipulation in addition to medical information. They are a sort of hybrid between chiropractors and doctors and are unique to the US; there are none in Canada. MDs come from the allopathic, or traditional, medical school model.

In the US there's a great deal of variation in quality between schools of osteopathy (and to a lesser extent, between schools of medicine). Schools of osteopathy can be started on an independent, for-profit basis, and that has led to some very inadequate educational situations. There are also some respectable DO schools. In terms of traditional MD schools, there's also a variation in the US, but less than for DO schools. There's more variation in residencies (graduate training). The US spans a huge spectrum in terms of quality, from literally the best on the planet to minimally-adequate single-hospital programs.
monster • Jun 19, 2014 9:01 pm
Lola Bunny;902260 wrote:
Oh yeah, I want a woman doctor. Few people I've asked go to a prescription happy doctor. Hmmm....I don't really like that.


In my experience, some prescription-happy doctors are only so because that's what the majority of their patients expect. They quite enjoy the challenge of a patient who wants to fix things without drugs if at all possible.

If you can't get a decent recommendation from a friend with similar feelings about doctors, pick a group practice relatively nearby that has several female doctors. then choose whichever one can see you soonest. If you don't like her, it's usually fairly easy to switch to another one in the same group -far less hassle than starting the hunt all over again.

Remember, if you hate them you don't have to go back, but you really should get your current issue checked out asap, and maybe get a pap smear and boob exam done too just to get it out of the way, seeing as it sound like you haven't had a physical in a while. It's going to be unpleasant whoever the doc is, so it might as well be one you may not want to see again ;)
sexobon • Jun 19, 2014 11:06 pm
I go to a group practice affiliated with a teaching hospital and let the internal medicine residents practice on me. They tell me what they think is causing my issue and I ask them what atypical causes there are for my presentation. Sometimes they politely leave and come back with their attending who usually comes up with something the resident hadn't considered and asks the right questions to rule it out. The residents' diagnoses stand so they feel good about themselves while they learned something. They seem to like this old military instructor who remembers how it was competing for patients to practice on (during core rotations).
Lola Bunny • Jun 20, 2014 3:58 pm
monster;902287 wrote:


If you can't get a decent recommendation from a friend with similar feelings about doctors, pick a group practice relatively nearby that has several female doctors. then choose whichever one can see you soonest. If you don't like her, it's usually fairly easy to switch to another one in the same group -far less hassle than starting the hunt all over again.

Remember, if you hate them you don't have to go back, but you really should get your current issue checked out asap, and maybe get a pap smear and boob exam done too just to get it out of the way, seeing as it sound like you haven't had a physical in a while. It's going to be unpleasant whoever the doc is, so it might as well be one you may not want to see again ;)


Yeah, I found a group practice and trying to decide which of their female docs I want to choose. I am going to get a full check-up and get everything done. It's been over 10 years since I got a check-up. :p: Actually, I would really like to get my heart checked too, but I'm sure it's not really necessary. My heart rate occasionally would spike, but I'm sure it's due to stress.
Lola Bunny • Jun 20, 2014 4:05 pm
Orthodoc: Thanks! You say DOs learn techniques of musculoskeletal manipulation. Do you know how that affects how they treat you or how it could help treat the patients?
infinite monkey • Jun 20, 2014 6:47 pm
My doctor is a DO. He is in a practice started when I was a teenager, by two other DOs. There are also a couple of MDs and PAs and NPs, and women and men so I have a choice, depending on what I'm being seen for.

In my view, I like the DOs because they look at the whole person, not just current individual symptoms. My medical history matters, and they ask a lot of questions about my life in general too. Also, I was there once for something else and my doc saw that my hips weren't exactly lined up so he cracked me in half and I felt all around better. (Really, the back cracking was awesome.)
Lola Bunny • Jun 20, 2014 9:26 pm
Thanks, Infinite!
Big Sarge • Jun 21, 2014 11:11 am
Pam - I hope you find some way to get your meds. I know how rough things can be.

Lola B - Sounds like you got your answers. I wish I was close enough to have Ortho as my doc. She is someone I have complete faith in
Lola Bunny • Jun 21, 2014 4:51 pm
Thanks everyone for your inputs. I just made an appointment for Wednesday. :)

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sexobon • Jun 21, 2014 5:56 pm
Gettin' it over with on hump day, that's A-OK.
orthodoc • Jun 21, 2014 10:37 pm
Um ... DOs don't have the corner on looking at the whole person. What they have is some aspects of chiropractic theory, which has no evidence-based support, and an EXTREMELY variable education in some of the aspects of allopathic medicine. Some DOs are very good, in spite of their training. Many are significantly lacking.

As an example - I attended a national convention two months ago, and signed up for a small group session on low back pain that was conducted by a DO. He told us that most low back pain is due to pelvic infirmity. He wouldn't elaborate on what he meant. He had a volunteer lie down on a table and, after palpating, triumphantly declared that the volunteer's symphysis pubis was at least 1 cm displaced. I commented that a 1 cm displacement would be easily visible on plain x-ray, correct? He replied that x-rays are always normal in spite of the 1 cm displacement. This is impossible.

He can't have it both ways; either there are measurable displacements or there are not. He admitted that no displacement that he assures his patients is present is ever provable on x-ray.

To conclude a horribly long story, Lola, I have talked with DOs, I have watched them do their manipulations, and I have done manipulations under their supervision, and not a single patient has ever felt better afterward. I don't agree that their medical training is equal to MD training. And they certainly don't have any basis for a claim to 'look at the whole person' more than an MD. My opinion is that they spend precious training time learning 'crack the back' techniques that help for a few minutes, if that, but don't do anything long-term, except get the patient to come back for more 'crack the back' stuff; and the time they spend doing this is time lost from learning more evidence-based material.
Lola Bunny • Jun 21, 2014 11:12 pm
Ugh...I made the appt with the DO doc because she has the highest rating among other MDs and internists in that particular clinic. Go figure. Btw, the DO that you just described sounds like a quack. :p

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infinite monkey • Jun 22, 2014 12:30 am
Shut up fake doc. You lie so much you don't even know when you're doing it.
xoxoxoBruce • Jun 22, 2014 4:20 am
I've had two DOs I was happy with, but then I didn't see them for anything serious.
Chiropractors? The first one performed miracles, then I shuffled through four who were complete charlatans, before I found another good one close to me. Both good ones were Palmer School grads, which may be significant.
orthodoc • Jun 22, 2014 10:07 am
infinite monkey;902551 wrote:
Shut up fake doc. You lie so much you don't even know when you're doing it.


:confused: I don't even ...
Have a good day, IM.

Rereading my post from last night, my statement early on that there are very good DOs gets lost in the story about the charlatan. Story notwithstanding, there ARE very good DOs. If you made an appointment with one who is highly recommended and meets your other criteria, Lola, I'd keep it.
infinite monkey • Jun 22, 2014 11:15 am
From Wikipedia:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Comparison_of_MD_and_DO_in_the_United_States

In the United States, there are two types of physicians that practice medicine. Most physicians hold the Doctor of Medicine degree (M.D.), while osteopathic physicians hold the Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine degree (D.O.).[1] Other than teaching osteopathic manipulative medicine, the medical training for an M.D. and D.O. is virtually indistinguishable. D.O. physicians complete conventional residencies in hospitals and training programs, are licensed in all states, and have rights and responsibilities, such as military service, that are identical to M.D. physicians and surgeons.


In 2005, Jordan Cohen, the president of the Association of American Medical Colleges (AAMC) stated:


After more than a century of often bitterly contentious relationships between the osteopathic and allopathic medical professions, we now find ourselves living at a time when osteopathic and allopathic graduates are both sought after by many of the same residency programs; are in most instances both licensed by the same licensing boards; are both privileged by many of the same hospitals; and are found in appreciable numbers on the faculties of each other's medical schools.

The AMA's current definition of a physician is "an individual who has received a 'Doctor of Medicine' or a 'Doctor of Osteopathic Medicine' degree or an equivalent degree following successful completion of a prescribed course of study from a school of medicine or osteopathic medicine."


Some authors describe less quantifiable distinctions between the two medical professions. Avery Hurt writes, "In actual practice, the variations between the two types of physicians are often so slight as to be unnoticeable to patients, and a day in the life of each can appear indistinguishable. But the differences are there, subtle but deep."[16] Several studies have investigated these differences. One study compared the patient interactions of DOs and MDs. The study found that "osteopathic physicians were more likely to use patient's first names and to discuss the social, family and emotional impact of illnesses." For example, "66% of DOs discussed a patient's emotional state compared with about one-third of MDs." The same study found that MD qualified "physicians scored higher in discussing literature or scientific basis of treatment."[17] Another study analyzed 341.4 million patient visits to general and family medicine specialists in the United States, including 64.9 million visits to DOs and 276.5 million visits to MDs. It found that there was no significant difference between DOs and MDs "with regard to time spent with patients and preventive medicine services."


I hope this sets your mind at rest, Lola, and I hope you're as happy with your physican as I have been for longer than my entire adult life.
Lola Bunny • Jun 22, 2014 12:39 pm
I will come back on Wednesday to tell y'all about my experience with the doc. :)

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sexobon • Jun 22, 2014 1:36 pm
If they do any imaging, get copies to post in the NSFW thread.
xoxoxoBruce • Jun 22, 2014 3:36 pm
orthodoc;902579 wrote:

Rereading my post from last night, my statement early on that there are very good DOs gets lost in the story about the charlatan.

Sounded a little like you were describing DOs as you would a family member. Love them, respect them, but they do have one tiny annoying habit. :haha:
As you said, the bigger difference is the quality of the school they attended.
Lola Bunny • Jun 22, 2014 4:10 pm
Let's see. The doctor I made the appointment with earned her medical degree from Touro University College of Osteopathic Medicine in 2001. I googled the school but couldn't tell if that's a good school or not. She completed her Family Medicine internship and residency at ​Memorial Family Practice Residency Program.

sexobon;902602 wrote:
If they do any imaging, get copies to post in the NSFW thread.


I intend to get a mammogram. Is that the image you would like to see? :eyebrow: :D
Lola Bunny • Jun 28, 2014 12:20 pm
I see what Infinite Monkey mean by a DO doc treating the patient as a person. The doctor was really nice and sweet. Not much going on with annual check-ups, I guess. Doc: Do you smoke? What? Do you smoke? How much? What's stressing you? Is it recent or long time ago? Then she gave me advice and consoled me on my personal problems. :lol:

Anyways, I felt comfortable with her, and I liked the facility. I need to come back for my well-woman check-up and mammogram. Waiting on the results of my blood work. :)
sexobon • Jun 29, 2014 1:10 am
I hope your blood worked well.
infinite monkey • Jun 30, 2014 9:15 pm
Lola! I'm so glad it worked out for you. :)

Being proactive about your health is important. When you get that clean bill of health it's a moment of relief.
Lola Bunny • Jun 30, 2014 9:51 pm
sexobon;903208 wrote:
I hope your blood worked well.


Thanks. I'm still waiting on the results. I'm going to give them a week before I nag them. :D

Infinite Monkey: Thanks for your opinion. It was really helpful. :)
Big Sarge • Jul 2, 2014 12:30 am
LB - I'm glad you are pleased with your D.O. I think the VA has me seeing a DVM. They don't have that great of a bedside manner, but they give really big doses of meds.
BigV • Jul 2, 2014 12:33 am
Panda-sized, no doubt.
Griff • Jul 3, 2014 12:37 pm
I don't know, in my experience veterinarians seem to have more empathy than people docs.
orthodoc • Jul 3, 2014 9:33 pm
You just have to find the right doc. MDs have as many mad skillz as any others, plus the odds are better that they actually know what they're talking about.

I'd back veterinarians over DOs or DCs or midlevels any day, however.
Lola Bunny • Jul 14, 2014 3:48 pm
sexobon;903208 wrote:
I hope your blood worked well.


I forgot to come back here when I received the results. The doc gave me a comprehensive blood work, including thyroid. According to the doctor, everything, including lipids, is normal, no diabetes, anemia, thyroid problem. Great. However, my cholesterol is 259. When I asked the doctor about it, she said it is only a slightly elevated number for a person my age. Eat healthy, and come back in 3 months to recheck my lipids and thyroid. Oh, okay. Am I coming back in 3 months? Nah, I don't think so. My cholesterol has been that high for years, and I don't have any symptoms of thyroid problem. What is going to change in 3 months when I'm not going to be doing anything different? If I'm "healthy" now, what does the doctor expect for me to do differently? Anyways, I personally don't feel my lipids is normal especially when I noticed my LDL level (bad cholesterol) is way over the range level. I'll deal with my cholesterol and come back next year for the annual check-up. Or not? Maybe come back in 3 years. :D
xoxoxoBruce • Jul 14, 2014 7:42 pm
The 3 month check is to make sure what the lab reported is a steady level, which she feels is acceptable, and you're not trending.
orthodoc • Jul 14, 2014 8:34 pm
A total cholesterol of 259 in someone your age is NOT okay, Lola. Your personal take on it is correct. That's all I can say online, where I can't give medical advice. But no, 259 is not okay. Fire this doc and find someone who will guide you to better health.
Lola Bunny • Jul 14, 2014 11:27 pm
Bruce: What do you mean by trending?

Ortho: While I find this doctor super sweet and nice, I'm actually thinking of changing to someone else next year although I may stay with the same clinic. I'll see what I want to do next year. The doctor did recommend me taking the whooping cough immunization. If I do decide to take it, I can always go to the pharmacy for it to save time.

I heard there's a whooping cough epidemic and that its immunization is recommended for adults. Has anyone taken it?
xoxoxoBruce • Jul 15, 2014 12:02 am
That 259 could be just a snapshot of a skyrocket, you have to determine if it's moving up, down or steady.
orthodoc • Jul 15, 2014 1:01 pm
I had the TdaP in 2010, Lola. It felt no different (no side effects) than the regular Td. The 'aP' stands for acellular Pertussis. It's not a live vaccine and cannot give you the disease.
Lola Bunny • Jul 26, 2014 2:01 pm
orthodoc;904723 wrote:
I had the TdaP in 2010, Lola. It felt no different (no side effects) than the regular Td. The 'aP' stands for acellular Pertussis. It's not a live vaccine and cannot give you the disease.


Just realized I forgot to thank you for your response.

Anyways, I just had my mammogram the other day. Made sure I shaved my armpits and all. :lol: Anyways, I went over to the screen to look at the pix while the technician was checking them over before letting me go and everything looks fine. I was going to try and ask for copies to humor Sexobon since he asked for pics but I forgot while chatting up with her. However, Sexo, they don't look sexy! You ain't missing out. :p:
Big Sarge • Jul 26, 2014 4:45 pm
Have you considered seeing a gerontologist?
Lola Bunny • Jul 26, 2014 5:09 pm
No because I'm never getting old. :cool:
Big Sarge • Jul 26, 2014 10:36 pm
Lola Bunny;905692 wrote:
No because I'm never getting old. :cool:


very true! looking at your pics I think you are stuck at 22 or 23. I don't know how you do it.
Lola Bunny • Jul 26, 2014 11:40 pm
It's the attitude, man. It's the attitude. :joint: Ah yes, remember to smile and laugh often even when you're not happy. And don't ask much to be happy. For example, you can make my day with a piece of brownie or chocolate cake. :D
sexobon • Jul 26, 2014 11:44 pm
You can make my day with some cheesecake, in a photo.
Big Sarge • Jul 27, 2014 12:14 am
I want some milkshake!
xoxoxoBruce • Jul 27, 2014 11:31 am
[YOUTUBE]6kjQmgm0r4g[/YOUTUBE]
Big Sarge • Jul 27, 2014 4:26 pm
Lola can have mine!
sexobon • Jul 27, 2014 8:13 pm
I'm waiting for Big Sarge to go into his own rendition of ...

[YOUTUBE]eA4_O3oeJCw[/YOUTUBE]
Big Sarge • Jul 27, 2014 8:40 pm
Don't you know I'm waiting for IM?
Lola Bunny • Jul 28, 2014 3:21 pm
sexobon;905782 wrote:
I'm waiting for Big Sarge to go into his own rendition of ...

[YOUTUBE]eA4_O3oeJCw[/YOUTUBE]


I would like to hear this. :D
Big Sarge • Jul 29, 2014 12:58 am
I don't think anyone wants to hear me attempt to sing. Imagine how a dog sounds when a car runs over it's tail and add some stutter. Now mix in a voice that used a command tone for way too many years.

The reason I played cello and trombone is I wasn't good enough for choral.
Lola Bunny • Jul 29, 2014 4:14 pm
Big Sarge;905890 wrote:
I don't think anyone wants to hear me attempt to sing. Imagine how a dog sounds when a car runs over it's tail and add some stutter. Now mix in a voice that used a command tone for way too many years.

The reason I played cello and trombone is I wasn't good enough for choral.


Still wanna hear ya. :D
Lola Bunny • Jul 29, 2014 4:36 pm
sexobon;905729 wrote:
You can make my day with some cheesecake, in a photo.


Here ya go! Hihi....
sexobon • Jul 29, 2014 9:25 pm
Haha.... that's carrot cake.
Lola Bunny • Jul 29, 2014 10:07 pm
Hehe....then you'd just have to be content with carrot cake. ;)
Big Sarge • Jul 30, 2014 11:35 am
Maybe I'll do some cheese cake pictures for you
Lola Bunny • Jul 30, 2014 2:38 pm
Big Sarge;905948 wrote:
Maybe I'll do some cheese cake pictures for you


ALRIGHT!!! :thumb2:
Big Sarge • Jul 30, 2014 5:39 pm
here you go
Undertoad • Jul 30, 2014 6:19 pm
I came.
orthodoc • Jul 30, 2014 11:02 pm
I thought only women came at the sight of cheesecake.

Not that I do.
DanaC • Jul 31, 2014 5:51 am
Lola Bunny;905931 wrote:
Hehe....then you'd just have to be content with carrot cake. ;)



I'm content with Carrotcake.
Lola Bunny • Jul 31, 2014 9:09 am
Big Sarge;905988 wrote:
here you go


That is one FINE cheesecake!! Mmm...mmmm.mmmm!:D
Lola Bunny • Aug 7, 2014 5:37 pm
Just got my Tdap. Side effects: sore at injection site. No kidding! Geez...take some ibuprofen to relieve the pain, if needed, the nurse told me.

Anyways, I thought ob/gyns are gentler than regular doctors for those kinds of check-ups. WRONG! Maybe I need to change clinic. While both of the docs I saw were nice, I found them to be a bit patronizing. Or is it me? Maybe I need to have a more authoritative vibe. :rolleyes:
Big Sarge • Aug 7, 2014 7:42 pm
Lola Bunny;906595 wrote:
Maybe I need to have a more authoritative vibe. :rolleyes:


I think all women want that
Lola Bunny • Aug 7, 2014 7:51 pm
Big Sarge;906613 wrote:
I think all women want that


From another woman?
orthodoc • Aug 7, 2014 10:24 pm
Lola Bunny;906595 wrote:
Just got my Tdap. Side effects: sore at injection site. No kidding! Geez...take some ibuprofen to relieve the pain, if needed, the nurse told me.

Anyways, I thought ob/gyns are gentler than regular doctors for those kinds of check-ups. WRONG! Maybe I need to change clinic. While both of the docs I saw were nice, I found them to be a bit patronizing. Or is it me? Maybe I need to have a more authoritative vibe. :rolleyes:


Soreness at TDaP injection site is normal, no need to worry. Any IM injection of 1 cc causes soreness, never mind the slight swelling it should induce as your immune system kicks in. Which is to say, all is well, Lola. :)

As for OB/GYNs being gentler ... hard to say. Maybe your doc just did what was necessary and actually got the necessary samples, as opposed to someone who puts your comfort above all and doesn't actually do what's needed.

However,'patronizing' is NEVER acceptable as an attitude during an exam, or any other sort of appointment. If you got this vibe, go elsewhere next time.
Big Sarge • Aug 8, 2014 9:34 pm
Lola Bunny;906615 wrote:
From another woman?



vibe = vibrator
sexobon • Aug 10, 2014 1:36 am
Oh, do they have those in prescription strength now?
BigV • Aug 10, 2014 12:32 pm
I wonder if you get them from Dr Feelgood.
busterb • Aug 13, 2014 6:21 pm
What do they call the person who finished last in med school? Doctor!
orthodoc • Aug 14, 2014 11:24 pm
Yeah. Even though the person who finished last in med school was far ahead of 99% of academics who applied - at least, in Canada. In the US, there are so many private for-profit 'schools' that are just diploma mills that it's totally disheartening.

In some countries, 'doctor' means something.
busterb • Sep 1, 2014 7:19 pm
Not sure if this fits here, but I got this in mail other day. From a friend in western PA. Her spelling.

how have you been doing, haven't heard much from you lately, im still kicking, fighting to see what is going on with bad doctors, mistakes, and what is going to happen next. I have lost my left breast and left arm pits, and my left arm limpnodes, pathologist said I had breast cancer, now that its gone they say oooops we made a mistake you didn't need to loose your breast you have stage 4 melanoma or a un know source, not breast cancer, cant say much more. but I am fucking mad,,,and don't want any one to do any more I don't trust any one, I hate how I hurt and , cant explain to any one how I feel,, love you BH
Griff • Sep 1, 2014 8:25 pm
That is brutal.:(
Big Sarge • Sep 1, 2014 8:30 pm
damnnnnnn.....that poor soul has been put through the wringer
Lola Bunny • Sep 1, 2014 9:11 pm
What the hell!!