RIP Friend

Trilby • Aug 12, 2012 9:21 am
I was at a meeting thursday and I found out this guy I sort of knew (he'd been around for a loooooong time and I knew his brother in a professional way) died of pancreatic cancer after nearly 20 years of sobriety.

I hadn't even known he was sick. I only saw him now and then and enough to say 'hi, buddy, how ya doing?" He was a sad soul who fought depression with everything he had and was sober when he died.

He was a strange guy in many ways, I don't know exactly what went on with him mentally, but he was the definition of a sweet person. Never wished a mean thought on anybody.

I'm so sad. I didn't even KNOW him for chrissakes, and I feel very, very sad. sometimes I hate going to that club and seeing obits or memory cards tacked up on that bulletin board. After nearly 20 years you get pancreatic cancer????

and another guy I know has it, too. I haven't seen him around but my pals have and they say he looks bad. Ugh. I feel rotten.
xoxoxoBruce • Aug 12, 2012 9:29 am
Wait till you get old and they start dropping like flies, that gets real depressing.
Alcohol is evil. All the fun stuff is, except pot.
Griff • Aug 12, 2012 12:22 pm
fucking fuck cancer

My buddy goes under the knife this week.
orthodoc • Aug 12, 2012 12:28 pm
Sorry, Bri. Thinking of you.
wolf • Aug 12, 2012 1:01 pm
Fuck Cancer
Sundae • Aug 12, 2012 4:42 pm
Sorry babe.

Love to you and a thought for a man who fought against bad odds.
Bet he had no regrets though.
regular.joe • Aug 12, 2012 6:07 pm
My condolences Brianna. For an alki to die sober of any cause, one of the things we are aiming for I think.
Big Sarge • Aug 12, 2012 8:34 pm
sorry Bri. You never know when cancer might just be around the corner. sad
BigV • Aug 13, 2012 1:31 pm
:cry:
Sheldonrs • Aug 13, 2012 1:53 pm
*HUGS*

My thoughts to you and his family and friends.