Couch Surfing - Where Do Most Dwellars Live?

Sundae • Jan 18, 2011 9:04 am
It's a new year, new start, turning over a new leaf and all that and everything.
So as often before my mind turns to plans of travel.
Sometimes I fulfull them (Amsterdam) sometimes I don't (America, Kenya).
So this is just musing.

BUT. Out of interest.
I see New York is the cheapest return destination and Amtrak trains run from there for a reasonable cost. For example one trip I made up as below only came to £93.

Coming to PA by train I would stop in Philadeplhia as I've always wanted to see it. This is where there is the highest concentration of Dwellars, right?
I can then get the train quite easily to Cleveland OH, which I assume is accessible to Shawnee and Bri?
And from Cleveland I can go back to NY via Washington.

I'm thinking of couchsurfing ie staying free at people's homes. There are verified people online who offer this service, or of course I could throw myself on the mercy of the Dwellars. Well, I mean I could ask politely and see if anyone agrees.

Any ideas?
wolf • Jan 18, 2011 12:19 pm
I could clean off the couch ... or, better still, blow up the air mattress for you. I'd even schedule vacation so we could do stuff!
BigV • Jan 18, 2011 1:12 pm
I'm delighted to see Washington on your itinerary!! You are most welcome to stay with me. With a reasonable amount of advance notice, I'd take some time off and squire you about town. I love where I live and I'm definitely in touch with my inner tour guide. You'll have a great time.
limey • Jan 18, 2011 2:24 pm
This is where I say that SG is DEFINITELY in touch with her inner tourist - she is a great guest, interested in everything and very easy to have around :)
Undertoad • Jan 18, 2011 2:25 pm
We Philly people would come pick you up by car in New York.
jimhelm • Jan 18, 2011 2:33 pm
And I have a big empty house... no couch though. lol.
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 2:39 pm
I have nowhere to put you except maybe among the dead hobos, but we'd work something out, somehow.

Cleveland is about as far away from us that you can get and still be in Ohio, but it's a do-able drive (4-5 hours depending on where in Cleveland.)

Thanks to Kasich we can forget about that high speed rail that could've brought you to Columbus or Cincinnati in two shakes of a lamb's tail.

PS You meant Washington DC, right? Washington State is clear on the other side of the country, so any hopes for a squire might be dire.
monster • Jan 18, 2011 2:49 pm
huh, so you'll drive 4-5 hours to Cleveland to meet SG, but not straight up the I75 to visit me?

:sulks:

Cleveland is much closer to me than the Ohio girls!
Sundae • Jan 18, 2011 2:55 pm
Wow - isn't the Cellar an amazing place :)
To everyone who has offered, my many thanks.
I will keep all this in mind while travel-dreaming.
Like I said, it's all pie in the sky and all about costings, but at least I know it's feasible.

Shaw - what's your nearest big transport hub?
For some reason I thought it was Cleveland but that might be from seeing names of football teams or something?

UT - wow, really?
If costs are about equal I'd be happier to fly into Washington (DC) though, that way I get to catch up with Dwellars there - there are enough for a GTG right? Me & my squire otherwise :)

I found out the US have Megabus too and it's even cheaper than here!
You'd have thought my Glasgow - London experience would have put me off (as when I came back from Amsterdam and said I'd never travel by coach again). But the pain fades very quickly and the low, low fares are so seductive.

Reading up, the trains seem to get the nod for the scenery.

So, okay. It's just a case of settling down to saving and then coming up with an itinerary. If people in more than one location are happy to put me up/ show me round I'd probably want to come in the summer (more time) but it won't be this summer. Otherwise it would be in October, but that's only a week long break.

One of these days I'd finally be in gainful employment and can start saving!
Sundae • Jan 18, 2011 2:58 pm
monster;706420 wrote:
Cleveland is much closer to me than the Ohio girls!

Aaaaah - maybe that's what I was thinking.
I hadn't factored you in because I thought you were well out of reach.

Check off another person to meet - although I admit your schedule probably doesn't leave much space...?
monster • Jan 18, 2011 3:02 pm
We need that googly map thing that had everyone on it.......

I'm 4 hours up the road friom Shawnee. I could pop down for lunch! :lol: I'm also 4 hours from Niagara falls.....
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:03 pm
monster;706420 wrote:
huh, so you'll drive 4-5 hours to Cleveland to meet SG, but not straight up the I75 to visit me?

:sulks:

Cleveland is much closer to me than the Ohio girls!


It's all in the future, it's my Imma Gonna.

Of course I'm coming to see you. I'm not doing anything until spring but I have lots of vacation time saved up.


SG: either Columbus or Cincinnati is closer to us, Columbus is in the middle of the state pretty much, so would be closer to where you're coming from.

Maybe I'll have won the lottery and will have built my dream home by then. :o

edit: and Pico is a hop skip and a jump, too!
jimhelm • Jan 18, 2011 3:04 pm
I'd love to see London.
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:04 pm
I'd love to see France
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:05 pm
...
jimhelm • Jan 18, 2011 3:06 pm
monster;706428 wrote:
We need that googly map thing that had everyone on it.......

I'm 4 hours up the road friom Shawnee. I could pop down for lunch! :lol: I'm also 4 hours from Niagara falls.....


[SIZE="6"]NIAGRA FALLS! [/SIZE][SIZE="4"]SLOWLY i TURNED.....[/SIZE]

[SIZE="3"]Step by Step, Inch by Inch[/SIZE]

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Sundae • Jan 18, 2011 3:07 pm
I'd love to see Shawnee's... (sorry, that was your joke)

If you come to London I'll be your guide Jim.
Same goes for anyone else of course.
monster • Jan 18, 2011 3:07 pm
oh no you can't! :eek:
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:08 pm
Sundae Girl;706437 wrote:
I'd love to see Shawnee's... (sorry, that was your joke)



Nah, was a test to see if anyone would read it and finish it. You win an all expenses paid trip to OHIO. Someday. ;)
monster • Jan 18, 2011 3:08 pm
jimhelm;706436 wrote:
[SIZE="6"]NIAGRA FALLS! [/SIZE][SIZE="4"]SLOWLY i TURNED.....[/SIZE]

[SIZE="3"]Step by Step, Inch by Inch[/SIZE]


what? :eyebrow: i spelled it right...... I'm all 'fused



...oh, the vid didn't show up the first time...
glatt • Jan 18, 2011 3:09 pm
I'm in DC. It would be great to have you visit, although honestly, I can't promise accommodations without talking to Mrs. Glatt first. I could show you the sights around town though.

Happy Monkey is in DC too, and maybe if you visited, that would be the excuse an introvert like myself would need to actually meet the guy who lives only 5 miles from me.

This would be fun!
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:09 pm
hmmmph
monster • Jan 18, 2011 3:10 pm
Jeeze I'm slow typing today. or you lot are on speed.
monster • Jan 18, 2011 3:11 pm
Never mind the accommodation, Glatt, we just want to know if you'd be willing to squire SG?
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:13 pm
You could squire her on over to the Washington spire!
glatt • Jan 18, 2011 3:17 pm
I'd say I wouldn't, but that would make be a liar. With my pants on fire.
monster • Jan 18, 2011 3:22 pm
Squire, Liar, pants on fire
you could catch your nuts in a telephone wire
Undertoad • Jan 18, 2011 3:27 pm
Don't bother with the train to OH - use southwest.com, the megabus of the skies.
BigV • Jan 18, 2011 3:28 pm
Shush Shawnee.

just shush, you.



....


In America, 300 years is a long time.

In England, 300 miles is a long way.


In this case, I think you and I could both agree, sadly, that 3000 miles is a long way.

:(
Sundae • Jan 18, 2011 3:32 pm
Undertoad;706456 wrote:
Don't bother with the train to OH - use southwest.com, the megabus of the skies.

Cheapest flight Phillie to Cleveland $129 one way.
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 3:33 pm
If you're going to fly, then fly into Dayton International.
Undertoad • Jan 18, 2011 3:38 pm
Philadelphia (PHL) to Columbus (CMH) is a better Southwest route. I got it down to $140 round trip.

Window shopping trips is a favorite activity of mine. I haven't been on a trip in quite a while though. 8 years.
monster • Jan 18, 2011 4:04 pm
That's because Cleveland is nowhere. Only the rock and roll hall of fame is there....

:ducks:
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 4:11 pm
Actually, I noted when I was there for a seminar last year, they've really made Cleveland look NICCCCEEEE.

I stayed here (these ritzy places will actually GIVE you a smoking room, and I could have set up a volleyball tournament in this amazing room in this beautiful hotel.)

Right across the street was an upscale bowling alley/restaurant (where I drank my dinner and watched the bowlers) and down the street is the Hall O' Fame, and a thousand other things around there. A lot of live music.

It's the awesome!
monster • Jan 18, 2011 4:21 pm
bah, if it's so good, how come their squirt hockey team had to travel all the way up here for a game and still lost? :lol:
Shawnee123 • Jan 18, 2011 4:24 pm
Oh hell, what do Ohioans know from hockey? Football, maybe, but even in Cleveland they're not far enough north to have the real hockey bug that trickles down from Canada!

:)
zippyt • Jan 18, 2011 10:29 pm
we have a spare bed room you can crash in SG !
footfootfoot • Jan 19, 2011 9:27 am
jimhelm;706431 wrote:
I'd love to see London.


Shawnee123;706432 wrote:
I'd love to see France


I'd like to see a smurf on your underpants
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TheMercenary • Jan 19, 2011 12:58 pm
Undertoad;706456 wrote:
Don't bother with the train to OH - use southwest.com, the megabus of the skies.


Yes, Amtrak is notoriously late and or delayed.
Shawnee123 • Jan 19, 2011 1:01 pm
I hate it when it's just delayed, or just late. But when it's delayed and or late I lose all my marbles.
monster • Jan 19, 2011 4:25 pm
The only two Amtrak trains I've been on were bang on time. Main problem is, they hardly go anywhere useful. This was a school field trip, one of the main points of which was to experience train travel -we still had a half hour bus ride to camp when we "got there" and the bus cost more than the train.
monster • Jan 19, 2011 4:27 pm
Shawnee123;706670 wrote:
I hate it when it's just delayed, or just late. But when it's delayed and or late I lose all my marbles.


Marbles on the track is one of the primary causes of late and or delayed trains. People like you should just be pushed under the wheels and your marbles should be shared out among the urchins begging on the platform
Shawnee123 • Jan 19, 2011 4:35 pm
Well, sometimes I am late but other times I am delayed and or held back.

Actually, in college we would run across campus at 10:45 to watch the 11:05 Amtrak come through, laying right next to the tracks, 6 or seven cars passing before the wind even caught our hair then blew it straight back.

Sometimes we were to late and or delayed and we had to get use to it, though.

We never put anything on the track. Even we were smart enough to not want quarters or marbles put INTO our heads.
xoxoxoBruce • Jan 19, 2011 5:55 pm
Her point was Amtrak has scenery.
Pico and ME • Jan 20, 2011 9:23 am
Shawnee123;706724 wrote:
Well, sometimes I am late but other times I am delayed and or held back.

Actually, in college we would run across campus at 10:45 to watch the 11:05 Amtrak come through, laying right next to the tracks, 6 or seven cars passing before the wind even caught our hair then blew it straight back.

Sometimes we were to late and or delayed and we had to get use to it, though.

We never put anything on the track. Even we were smart enough to not want quarters or marbles put INTO our heads.


Wait, I saw the to, and the use, but not the marbles. Where are all the marbles?
Shawnee123 • Jan 20, 2011 9:28 am
The hobos got 'em, or the nomadic smilies have them.
Pico and ME • Jan 20, 2011 9:34 am
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Shawnee123 • Jan 20, 2011 10:30 am
There you go! Good find! :)
plthijinx • Jan 20, 2011 8:12 pm
Pico and ME;706948 wrote:
Where are all the marbles?



lost.
Sundae • Feb 7, 2011 2:49 pm
No, this isn't an addendum to the thread, I'm just after Houston advice not available on the internet.

My bro and SIL are going there for a long weekend in a couple of months.
Ste's part of the trip is going to the Space Center.
E's part of the trip is going to a Joel Osteen sermon.

WTF?!
I am genuinely shocked by this.
And quite alarmed.

Still. Any insider info you can give me re great things to do and see would be nice to pass on to them.
They're there for four days (I think) and not looking to fill their time up, but if there is anything really unmissable I'll pass it on.

Food-wise they're casual restaurant diners. They like decent sized portions, polite and friendly waiting staff and a clean place without any pretentions. They are both teetotal so won't be interested in anywhere more famous for its booze than its food.

They're regular travellers to the States (at least once a year) so unless you have any coupons you want to share, there's no need to mention any big chains.

Oh - and what can I ask him to bring back for me? :)
Foodstuff usually (although I got my Hello Kitty purse when they went to Japan).
If no-one comes up with something to tempt me I might go with Ass Kickin' Cornbread mix, as they simply don't sell it here and I can never get enough.

(Just to add - I am not a spoiled brat. Ste likes to bring back prizes but is an indifferent shopper. Mum doesn't ask because she thinks it's cheeky but I find a specific request means everybody is happy)
Griff • Feb 8, 2011 7:21 am
I wikied Osteen. Apparently, he's a tv preacher who other tv preachers think is a heretic. I don't know anything about Houston either.
DanaC • Feb 8, 2011 7:41 am
Seems an interesting character. I like that he downgrades 'sin' of homosexuality to 'missing the mark' of what God created them for rather than somethiing vile. In fact he has seemingly avoided the topic as much as possible. The criticisms levelled at him by other evangelicals (calling his views heresy) seem based on the fact that he doesn't include a lot of scripture in his preaching, doesn't focus on sin, but rather the achievement of yourpotential, and doesn't emphasise Christ as the only route to heaven.

Only when pressed has he agred that Christ is the only way to heaven, and only when pressed would he say he agreed homosexuality was a sin: though he then clarifies in an interview with Piers Morgan :

Yes, I've always believed, Piers, the scriptures show that homosexuality is a sin. But I'm not one of those who is out there to bash homosexuals and tell them that they're terrible people and all of that. I mean, there are other sins in the Bible, too. And I think sometimes the church - and I don't mean this critically - but we focus on one issue or two issues, and there's plenty of other ones. So I don't believe that homosexuality is God's best for a person's life - sin means to miss the mark."


Slightly more worrying (to my mind) is his idea that wealth and prosperity are the reward for piety.

All in all he seems a more reasonable face of evangelicism ( to me) than some. Though I am intrigued as to why your sis is going to see him....isn't she a Catholic?
Griff • Feb 8, 2011 8:06 am
He does seem like more of a self-help guru. My sister is a hardcore Catholic who dabbles in Evangelical preaching. It isn't terribly consistent, but since when is religion consistent? It could be SG's sister is on her way out of the Church trying to find a soft-landing place more in line with her personal views. I went through a period of that, assuming someone would have already built a system of thought which aligned decently with reality as I saw it, but then I realized I didn't want that either and stopped looking. I'd rather see the world with my own eyes.
Griff • Feb 8, 2011 8:11 am
DanaC;710427 wrote:


Slightly more worrying (to my mind) is his idea that wealth and prosperity are the reward for piety.



That is pretty common Evangelical nonsense in the US. I like the idea of people optimizing their lives and that stability can lead to wealth but there is a blame the victim strain in there. In all honestly, I do see a lot of people who could use a more rigid belief system because they lose sight of their goals and real needs.
DanaC • Feb 8, 2011 8:33 am
There was a similar view prevalent within the British evangelical movement during the late 18th/early 19th century. It was one of the things that justified a lot of the anti-poor legislation of that era. I don't know if the modern mission in the Uk is like that. I suspect so.
Sundae • Feb 8, 2011 11:28 am
Not my sis going to see him - my sister in law.
She has no religion that I know of, which makes it all the more bizarre. We do not need another God-botherer in our family, least of all one of the wishy-washy ones that confuse coincidence with divine intervention and occasional good luck for God's will. I'm also annoyed by his "stand" on homosexuality. No, it's not enough to me to have it downgraded. He does not preach directly from the scriptures so why can't he just drop that idea altogether. If he had the guts to say, "God made them the way they are and loves them just the same" I might have a bit more respect for him.

But at the beginning of each sermon he says, "Hold up your Bible, let's say it like we mean it...
This is my Bible
I am what it says I am
I have what it says I have
I can do what it says I can do
Today I will be taught the word of God
I boldly confess, my mind is alert
My heart is receptive
I will never be the same
I am about to receive
The incorruptible, the indestructible, everliving seed
Of the word of God
I'll never be the same"

Yes I know it's never going to appeal to me as an atheist, but it also doesn't fit in with his preaching style, or his ducking of the question on homosexuality. It gives no indication that he is happy to ignore Leviticus, that he doesn't set much store in Jesus' command to leave all you own and follow me, that apparently God rewards the good on earth and that for true believers God is happy to meddle in all sorts of things.

An example of his preaching. Don't get cross when things go wrong. Sometimes God has set it up to help you or someone else. His wife lost her credit card. She phoned to cancel it. The women in the call centre was intending to leave her husband that day. She recognised her preacher's wife's name and they ended up on the phone for 30 minutes after which the employee decided to give her mariiage another go. When she put down the phone the wife found her credit card wasn't lost at all - it was just underneath her bag! Pesky God. It was obviously necessary to save the fragile marriage of a call centre employee with this trick. And I guess she would need a husband once the extra long call was played back for training pruposes, because she'd have lost her job.

Does make me wonder why God doesn't worry about saving all the other marriages out there that fail. Perhaps they are not good enough people? Like when God saves some people from dying because other people pray so hard for them, but sometimes He decides to call them home. Irregardless :) Maybe the people he saves ae less interesting.
BigV • Feb 8, 2011 7:44 pm
Griff;710429 wrote:
snip--

I'd rather see the world with my own eyes.


One of the big reasons I like you Griff.
BigV • Feb 8, 2011 7:49 pm
Sundae Girl;710461 wrote:
SNIP--

Irregardless :)

--SNIP


SPLEEN!!!

Are you baiting me, woman?
Sundae • Feb 9, 2011 3:19 am
Moi?
Nah - just testing your irregardless monitor...
DanaC • Feb 9, 2011 4:02 am
aheh. Well, I don't exactly approve of his stand on homosexuality either. But it's a damn sight better than a lot of what gets preached on that subject. He's clearly walking quite a fine line on it, but his reluctance to actually make statements (avoiding the question in most cases apparently) suggests he isn't part of the hate brigade. A definate step up :p
Clodfobble • Feb 9, 2011 7:33 pm
It's a huge step up for the context of the community, believe me. This sort of thing was what eventually got my mother-in-law to accept her gay son (a different son, not the one I'm married to, ya wankers.) A pastor told her that all sins were equal in God's eyes, and her sins (for example, gluttony) were just as bad as her son's homosexual "behavior."

Meeting people halfway is a lot more effective than staying put on the other side.
wolf • Feb 10, 2011 12:38 pm
Joel Osteen, IIRC, is the prosperity gospel guy ... his stand on homosexuality has more to do with not wanting to offend his customer base than it does with his adherence to biblical teaching.

As far as I understand it, the Prosperity Gospel is a Christianized version of The Secret.