Relatively Intimate

Here's a question for the dwellars about sexual intimacy. Do you consider oral sex more or less intimate than genital sex?

There is the old saying "eating ain't cheating" but this isn't about cheating per se, but about whether you feel there is a deeper connection, between partners, with one act or another.

So here's an anonymous poll.
(Sorry Shel, it's not an anonymous pole)

Giving or receiving?

More intimate.

Like Bruce says - giving or receiving?
To me, giving a blowjob is far less intimate than sex.
Receiving... more. Not as much of a difference as giving, but certainly more.

OK Mod, can you open up the poll so I can change the options to reflect giving or receiving?

I don't think so, maybe UT can?

You're fired. Clean out your desk.

I was thinking this was going to be about kissing cousins....

Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?

Undertoad;693806 wrote:

Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?

- Do you like receiving oral sex (m to f)?
- Are you home right now?
- What is your address?

Yes I know it doesn't work as a poll. I'm daydreaming.

Sundae Girl;693813 wrote:

Yes I know it doesn't work as a poll.

might work for few poles though!

Undertoad;693806 wrote:

Can't open, can edit, let me know what the new options should be?

Thought we should change to reflect:
if female, is giving oral more intimate vs
if female, is receiving oral more intimate
if male, is giving oral more intimate
if male, is receiving oral more intimate

if female, is having genital more intimate
if male, is having genital more intimate
other

Not sure what this might prove but ...

aw crap well we would have to zero out the votes

How about a new and improved thread linked here.

Sounds good.

you or me man

Sundae Girl;693752 wrote:

To me, giving a blowjob is far less intimate than sex.

a blowjob is SEX! It really, really is.

not in Pennsylvania it's not. It's Sodomy.

sodomy is sex too. great sex, in fact. I just hate it when people equate "sex" with "intercourse." There's so much more to it than mere copulation.

foshizzle, mah nizzle

Undertoad;693879 wrote:

you or me man

I could have sworn I re-did this poll this afternoon. WTF is happening to my memory? I'll redo it Friday evening. I'm gonna be out on a paid gig (woot) tomorrow and I gotta prep tonight.

OK mods please close this thread and redirect to the other thread. Sorry for the confusion, next time I'll do a dry run on paper with a pencil.

It's still open. [COLOR="LemonChiffon"]They're laughing at you.[/COLOR]

footfootfoot;693914 wrote:

... next time I'll do a dry run ... with a pencil.

That's definitely less intimate.

ZenGum;694021 wrote:

That's definitely less intimate.

haha funny