Cheating even though you are happy.....
So as of late i have been getting a lot of attention from the women at my job. I work in a huge building with over 600 people and the majority are women. And I have been getting all kinds of offers to go bump uglies. I have even been offered a room paid by the girl all taken care of all I have to do is show. Problem is I am married(second time around) and I am happy with what i got. But its just so temping you know the thought of something new the strange if you will. Any thoughts on this......
"Trust is a one-time only offer"
-- Wolf
If you value your marriage and the vows you took, you will do the right thing.
And stop sending out the vibes that these offers are welcome.
Problem is I am married(second time around)
Why is being married a problem?
Talk to your wife about this, it's important if you want to stay married.
Yes i know trust is one time only offer and i do value the vows that i took and i have not done anything. I dont believe I am sending out those vibes at least i dont think so. I do maintenance all around the building and help alot of them out when they have any issues with their desks etc. But i am just nice you know. I phrased that wrong being married is not the problem i just wanted to say that i am not single is all.
Thoughts? yeah. cheaters are scum. If you want to continue to be happy--don't.
I dont believe I am sending out those vibes at least i dont think so.
If you've let the conversation get to the point that you know the room is paid for, you are sending out vibes.
If you keep these kinds of thoughts/conversations from your wife you are already cheating. If you're uncomfortable bringing this topic up with your wife, there's a reason for it.
Communication is the foundation of trust.
Either discuss & invite the wife (if you are into that, I'm not) or be glad for that which you have.
BTW - Have you looked at your wife lately? No, I mean really looked at her.
Yehhhh like that. now - WHAT ARE YOU FUCKIN NUTS?
Don't be an asshole - How would you feel if she did it to you? Take that into consideration and then ... Don't be an asshole.
I do want to continue to be happy and i have never cheated ever not even on a girlfriend. And it wasnt a conversation. It was an email stating that it would all be taken care of. I had said hi on occassions to this woman before but never did actually have a conversation. The email came out of nowhere.
No im not into "that" im not much for sharing. You know what classic i havent done that in a while. I believe you are right!!! And I dont want to be "that Guy" And im definetely not an asshole and i would prob feel like shiat if she were doing that to me. i think its just taking me for a ride because i have never gotten attention like this before.
Hmm Kinda ironic that i just said that i didnt want to be "that guy" and my screen name is that guy. Damn it!...epic fail.
So, ahh, what job is this? I might need to change careers.
I hate it when I accidently send the wrong person an e-mail............So I always check it before I send it at least 3 times........Not everyone does that.
Cheating while already happy with the person you're with? Sounds like a fast track to unhappy.
I hate it when I accidently send the wrong person an e-mail............So I always check it before I send it at least 3 times........Not everyone does that.
Do you send it three times just to make sure they got it? :p
...the strange if you will......
If your cock was an inch longer, you could get some strange at home...
dammit jim... you owe me a new keyboard. thatguy, i think you've gotten some great advice here. if you're happy at home but you are still finding yourself in this position then you're probably just experiencing the "it feels good to know you're still desireable" rush. get over it.
if you're an absolute stud and make her eyes roll you'll enjoy, what? a couple hours with the email chick? please. weigh that against a lifetime of knowing you are "that guy" and spending day after day hoping and praying that the woman you love doesn't find out.
close your eyes and rub one out. enjoy your guilt. then take your wife who you love to dinner and try to look at her the same way you did the third time you met her. your future self thanks you.
Nothing wrong with enjoying one-sided attention, but dammit man, haven't you ever seen Fatal Attraction? That shit really happens!
Well, maybe not always the bunny-boiling, knife-wielding situation. But things could turn weird. The seemingly off-hand, no-strings-attached encounter you may choose to pursue could easily turn you into a stalker victim--perhaps fueled by your "unavailability" as a married person.
If you really do love your wife and your life with her, the price you could pay is just not worth destroying that.
What follows is a really, really bad idea, but maybe a little funny, so I thought I would share it.
Google yourself. Find someone with the same, or very similar name to yours. Get them in on the plot. Set up a tryst with the email chick. Send your namesake in your place.
He gets laid (maybe) and can insist he received the email and assumed, since it was addressed to him, that he presumed it was intended for him.
Email chick gets laid (maybe) and either gets off your back (and onto hers) or gets a lesson in cybermanners.
Don't forget to set up the web-cam and stream it live. Post the link here, please.
I do want to continue to be happy and i have never cheated ever not even on a girlfriend. And it wasnt a conversation. It was an email stating that it would all be taken care of. I had said hi on occassions to this woman before but never did actually have a conversation. The email came out of nowhere.
A- file for sexual harrassment.
B- start wearing pants to work, ya slut.
There are two kind of people who cheat even when they're happy:
1) They're not really happy
2) They're narcissistic yet insecure psychopaths
Surely attention is interesting, and you're human, but if you're really happy you don't want to mess it all up.
Good luck! :)
Forward the email to her boss. Rest assured, you will never receive another one.
Also, don't be an asshole. Just because it's there doesn't mean it needs fucking.
I do commercial building management work is easy and pays very well. And Jim why are you worried about how long my cock is..........akward dude........... Oh and I get that whole fatal attraction deal. Plus I would hve to see her face everyday and worry if she would tell and stuff. In a way she kind of might have me by the balls if I did it. Cause them she can blackmail me or something. Like....fuck me or I'll tell your wife about everything. And I totally wear pants all the time spexx. But I'm not a slut. More like a retired manwhore. 
Zen dude you have an awesome way of thinking!!! Awesome!!!
That would be some funny shit if I did forward the email to her boss which is the vp of the company. She's actually one of the senior managers there. And your definetely right. Just cause it's there doesn't mean I have to fuck it.
And I took classics advice and took a nice long look at the wife and damn it she's hot!!! So we went out with a few friends last night got smashed came home and some hot passionate sex. I think it was the best sex I've ever had. F-ing awesome!!! So glad now that I married her. Thanks for all the advice. Greatly appreciated. And to think I only came accross this website cause I was looking up stuff about fencing in my yard! Epic win!
~snip~ So glad now that I married her. Thanks for all the advice. Greatly appreciated. And to think I only came accross this website cause I was looking up stuff about fencing in my yard! Epic win!
bold mine
So glad NOW?
Oh, never mind.
I am not gonna comment about this, because ThatGuy is flirting with me and we all know Im not too fussed with being the *bit of fluff* :p
I didn't mean that I am only glad now. That came out wrong. I'm just curious as to what you look like. I hope that's not a crime......what do you mean by your not to fussed by being the *bit of fluff* ????
Do you send it three times just to make sure they got it? :p
Why no I don't!
Why no I don't!
Why no I don't!
ThatGuy, just ask her if she is interested in a threesome and uncomplicate things.
There sure are some confused people here.
That's one way to look at it. Or I do ask for it they both accept and then it gets really fucking complicated.
Unless you are in an open marriage (and the wife is aware that the marriage is open to others) end the marriage BEFORE you cheat.
Just for a moment... Ask yourself what your wife would think if she stumbled upon this conversation. Would she feel that you have the respect and love for her that she thought you did or would she be shocked and deeply hurt that you'd even entertain this line of thought.
As a married woman myself... I can tell you that if I was your wife... I'd already feel betrayed by you... there is a big difference between flirting, fantasy and contemplating bringing it into the reality... that is the line you don't cross if you plan to stay in a happy marriage. You've already crossed that line my friend... which says... no matter how happy you claim to be ... you aren't being honest with yourself about that... and you definitly aren't being honest with your wife.
Raise your hand if you think ThatGuy IS that guy, despite his protesting said title and way of life, and is completely full of shit.
Count one right here. :eyebrow:
As a married woman myself... I can tell you that if I was your wife... I'd already feel betrayed by you... there is a big difference between flirting, fantasy and contemplating bringing it into the reality... that is the line you don't cross if you plan to stay in a happy marriage.
Contemplating bringing it into the reality
is part of the fantasy.
You've already crossed that line my friend... which says... no matter how happy you claim to be ... you aren't being honest with yourself about that... and you definitly aren't being honest with your wife.
Sure, tell her this chick is propositioning him and she'll either:
1- Freak out, stir up shit and probably get him fired, or
2- somehow twist it around so it's his fault, and throw it in his face during every argument, forever.
Maybe both.
Aww, poor that. If he wants doesn't want to play with the big dogs, he should stay on the porch and enjoy it or quit his fucking salivating and barking.
Really, does he need to be every cliche in the book? Does his wife need be?
Raise your hand if you think ThatGuy IS that guy, despite his protesting said title and way of life, and is completely full of shit.
Count one right here. :eyebrow:
Do you think he's a sock puppet for a regular here?
Sure, tell her this chick is propositioning him and she'll either:
1- Freak out, stir up shit and probably get him fired, or
2- somehow twist it around so it's his fault, and throw it in his face during every argument, forever.
Maybe both.
You've either;
1. met his wife
2. or you just have a really low opinion of women in general.
I've had a lot of experience watching married couples interact, and seen it happen over and over.
You should interact with actual real human married couples. Again, cliche.
Sure, good luck finding it, but it's evident in many people I know: mutual respect and consideration.
It takes 2 people to have a bad relationship - just like it takes 2 people to have a good one.
Contemplating bringing it into the reality is part of the fantasy.
If he was still in fantasy mode we wouldn't be having this conversation... he wouldn't have felt the need to start the thread. IF it was just part of the fantasy he wouldn't be here reaching out for help or for approval... clearly he feels a certain amount of guilt already.
I personally would have no issue if my hubby said some coworker wanted to do him and he jacked off in the bathroom thinking about it (but thats just me)... what I would have an issue with is if he found himself faced with the moral delimma of acting upon it. Why not tell the wife and let her share in the fantasy... leave the co-worker out of it and not dignify the offer by giving it any attention. Keep it profesional and if approached again make it very clear you are happily married and are not availible.
pooka is smart
i'm gonna go jack off to how smart she is right now.
but um....hey.....don't tell jinx, ok?
Yabbut, you'll probably tell her anyway. JINX? Jim is a'cheatin'. :lol:
Couples all about honesty. There should be a club!
If he was still in fantasy mode we wouldn't be having this conversation... he wouldn't have felt the need to start the thread. IF it was just part of the fantasy he wouldn't be here reaching out for help or for approval... clearly he feels a certain amount of guilt already.
What makes you so sure he reaching out for help or approval? How do you know he isn't bragging?
The chick propositioned him and he didn't take her up on it so he can't claim a conquest, but he can claim the proposition for partial credit.
But how does one do that? Hey, how about asking for advice.:idea:
It's been done before, of course it's usually verbal, and not on a board, but often enough that I recognize the possibility.
Actually, I agree with Bruce on this one. Coming here and discussing it, asking advice and 'contemplating it' seems to me just a way of wallowing in the fantasy. Extending it out and savouring the feeling of being hit on, without actually acting on it.
If nothing's been done to make it real then there's been no betrayal.
I disagree with his assessment of the inevitability of trouble if it's raised though. Not every woman reacts the same way and it's grossly unfair to suggest it.
I was willing to give thatguy the benefit of the doubt. But then
And I took classics advice and took a nice long look at the wife and damn it she's hot!!! So we went out with a few friends last night got smashed came home and some hot passionate sex.
So glad you realized your wife is hot...otherwise what would there be to admire?
I didn't mean that I am only glad now. That came out wrong. I'm just curious as to what you look like. I hope that's not a crime......what do you mean by your not to fussed by being the *bit of fluff* ????
Here, he wasn't even sure if he was talking to me or to Ducks.
Attention-whoring. Plain and simple. Thisguy will spend his whole life preening and cheating.
Cliche.
He doesn't appear to have cheated. There's nothing wrong with a bit of preening. Harmless flirting online? Come on, You're being overly harsh.
And reaquainting himself with how 'hot' is wife is? I think that's great. replace the word 'hot' with attractive. This guy has reminded himself how attractive his wife is to him. A fact that can get easily lost in the maelstrom of day to day married life. I still don't see how that makes him any kind of a bastard.
There are two kind of people who cheat even when they're happy:
1) They're not really happy
2) They're narcissistic yet insecure psychopaths
Surely attention is interesting, and you're human, but if you're really happy you don't want to mess it all up.
Good luck! :)
I was being my typical self, wallowing in hyperbole, but I still feel this is true in a smaller sense.
Some people will never be happy without constant ego strokes. The pattern is quite clear, having seen it a hundred times: when the spouse's ego strokes no longer suffice, the needy one will find other avenues.
It's a story as old as the hills, and I didn't write it.
Better we should say "awwww, poor thatguy. We know your dick is hard and it's OK, because you are just a guy and incapable of restraint."
I guess I expect more from a man than the cliched Pavlovian response. I find there are men who are much more than drooling stupid puppies.
Or, as pointed out, he's not really happy. *shrugs* Happy relationships don't require other people slapping your hand and saying "No, don't cheat, bad boy, don't cheat."
I've seen nothing to tell me this situation is otherwise.
So I'm harsh. Sue me.
Bastard? That was your word, not mine. :headshake
What kind of woman does that?
Will she tie him up nakid? take pictures? then blackmail? heh heh
Now I could see that kind of set up... but to pay just for a tryst? If she got her target right she could have just asked him to set it up and got the same result plus saved herself some money.
It would have to be very important to her or she's rich and bored.
No i havent done anything....and wont be doing anything. And yes we did reconnect again that night we went out. and when i said hot it wasnt just in the physical form i meant it as an all around package she is hot. We used to watch sports together and go out all the time but lately we've just been doing our own thing and it had gotten kind of boring this was something we actually sat down and talked about this weekend. So things are good and back to normal. And i am actually writing all of this from work. Cause its a slow monday. And i did see that chick again in the hallway and asked me what my answer was and i said no. And that it would never happen and that i would appreciate it if something like this never happens again. i wanted to be nice yet firm so that she knew i was serious but not to piss her off so that things didnt get stupid and she tries to get me in trouble some kind of way. And i dont think i have ever been an attention whore ever in my life i just wanted to know if anyone had ever had something like this happen to them. I am happy with what i got and satisfied if not i would have never started this and would have just slept with that other women and thats that but i didnt. Its hard to explain but i am happy and everything was going pretty well except for a few things but i just felt like driving the happy bus off the cliff? I'm sure i am not the only one who thats ever happened too????
I'm pretty sure you aren't :P
Oh and by the way just recieved an email from "her" after we talked in the hallway stating that if this ever comes up in anyway shape or form that she will do whatever it takes to screw me over. WTF! So yeah you were asking what kind of woman does that...i'll tell you a what kind a pissed off one that didnt get her way. Now i am kinda freaking out a bit. Time for a smoke...........
Well, you can either let her hang you by your jewels for the rest of your time at that company which may be painful and short, or you can take those emails to HR. CYA. That is, of course, if you really truly didn't behave inappropriately enough to get your own ass slammed.
What makes you so sure he reaching out for help or approval? How do you know he isn't bragging?
The title of the thread would be one clue... "Cheating even though you are happily married"
Well I let her know that i have kept the email she sent me and i did not respond to it. I spoke to her face to face about it today. And i let her know that i will be keeping it as a just in case. And now shes saying that she only wrote that to make sure i would never tell anyone. So i let her know that i would not tell a soul......well except for you guys....oops. And shes now asking me to delete it in case someone finds it. Which they wont and i will be keeping it. Nope i did not do anything to get my own ass slammed.
Ok i just saved the other email where she is threating me as well.....And just got another email saying that as long as no one ever finds out it will be business as usual and that it will be a proffesional realtionship like it was before....? Like it was before???? WTF! There was never a relationship at all what the hell is wrong with this lady.
I work in a huge building with over 600 people and the majority are women. And I have been getting all kinds of offers to go bump uglies.
How did the all other ladies proposition you, thru emails as well, or verbally?
foward the to another email so that they don't mysteriously "disappear" from your work email - just sayin.
Some women feeling the scorn of rejection will throw an emotional tantrum. Doubly so if it was unexpected. You were supposed to tell her
"You're a beautiful, awesome lady and I would love to take you out and do all sorts of nasty things with you. But I really love my wife, and I wouldn't hurt her for all the world. So thanks, and I am totally flattered that someone like you would pay attention to me, but I... I just can't. I hope you understand."
I would get asked in the halllways or when i was outside smoking.
Ok so i just opened a bs yahoo account and forwarded the email to that account as just in case thanks classic.
What he isn't telling us is that he actually works in a women's psychiatric hospital :lol:
You walk down the hallways at work and women ask you to sleep with them?
... I'm sure you understand.
It has happened on more than one occasion. I would say at least like 4 or 5 times where i have been asked straight up to hook up but they didnt know i was married. Till i showed the ring and said that i was and they left me alone after that.
What he isn't telling us is that he actually works in a women's psychiatric hospital :lol:
It sometimes feels that way.
Why are you not reporting this to HR??? If you are being harrassed. Did you say something in writing that could back fire on you if you did?
If your concious is clean... I'd take those e-mail including the treats directly to HR.
I didnt say anything to screw myself over at all. But i think i will have no other choice but to go to HR. The emails have stopped coming in from her so far. But i dont know if i should wait till she gets all crazy on me again and then go to HR or if i should just go today and let HR see whats going on.
I didnt say anything to screw myself over at all. But i think i will have no other choice but to go to HR. The emails have stopped coming in from her so far. But i dont know if i should wait till she gets all crazy on me again and then go to HR or if i should just go today and let HR see whats going on.
Take them to HR, and tell them that you don't want to do anything right now, but if something happens, this is the reason.
Thanks spexx That sounds like a good idea I will do that. Ok printed them out taking them to HR. I will let you all know how it goes. First I'm going to have me a smoke.
I smell some buuuuuuuuuullshit in this tall tale.
OK just got back from HR and they are saying that for now it is ok if i choose to wait for another email to take action since i have not recieved any other emails. But now they have to check my outlook through It to make sure that i wasnt falsely accusing her since she is a senior manager and thats cool cause i am clean i havent sent anything to her besides what i showed them. They asked me if i wanted to file for harrassment and i said no not at the moment but if it keeps up i will. Now I have to wait till they go through my outlook to make sure im not trying to falsely accuse her and then if it happens again. They will be sitting down with her so that they can talk to her and see what action they will take. Freaking crazy!!!
I don't see this going in a positive direction. I would have spoken to the head of HR privately and told him/her (hopefully not friends with said woman) that I want you to be aware, but that I do NOT want you to talk to her just yet. I think its handled privately, yet I am covering my ass, just in case someone tries to rewrite history. Oh well, good luck.
He might be worried if any of this were really happening. ;)
:lol2:
I slay me.
Haggis @ S123 - I agree, Its just a diversion form the hell that my current life has become.
I hear ya, classic. :) Hang in there!
Well it was just me and the HR manager whom i get along with pretty well and i have known for a while now. Sorry for saying they it was a bad choice of words.I told him i was clean and didnt send anythng inappropriate or anything like that. And he wants to make sure i am covered in case it does come down to the point where it will need to be taken to the next level. He will talk to her only once i have decided to file he just wanted to have everything ready that might be needed later on i guess. But i still kept the emails saved and in another email account just in case....But thanks it looks like i might be needing luck on my side now. man this sucks......
Yeh - you might want to start lookin at the help wanted ads.... just sayin.
oh and thanks shaw
Dude, how old are you? The way I see this, you are suffering from some serious maturity and ethical problem solving issues. The first correct answer was, " umm..crazy email, wow"(delete), go about your life. On second thought, maybe you are just an attention whore.
the latter. oh and the former. oh and wait, did you get your package yet? How fast do such important things get shipped?
Well i think i have gotten all the advice i needed originally and now i feel like i am ranting so i am done. Thanks for all the friendly advice and the not so friendly too... I will deal with this accordingly.
Hmm, from Florida and employed? must be one of the lucky few.... for now.
Yeah well hell not for long the way this is looking....Sucks!
uh, yeh - that was my point.
Classic, classic.... be gentle, he's a little .... um....nicht so schnell.
- Freak out, stir up shit and probably get him fired, or
If your concious is clean... I'd take those e-mail including the treats directly to HR.
Well it was just me and the HR manager whom i get along with pretty well and i have known for a while now..snip...But thanks it looks like i might be needing luck on my side now. man this sucks......
:rolleyes:
They would be stupid to fire him right away. It would be obvious sexual harassment. A virtually guaranteed lawsuit.
But he does have to keep his nose perfectly clean now, because they will be watching him and building a file so they can fire him for cause in a few months.
At a minimum, he should immediately stop surfing on the internet from work. And keep his smoke breaks short.
Well luckily I have more than one building I run and today I am doing my rounds so I'm using my phone instead of my work computer. But yes you are right i will need to be a straight arrow for sure. I wouldn't doubt it myself if they do decide to get it rid of me in the not too distant future I am already searching for a new J_O_B. If it's like you say than maybe all I have left are a few months.
They would be stupid to fire him right away. It would be obvious sexual harassment. A virtually guaranteed lawsuit.
But he does have to keep his nose perfectly clean now, because they will be watching him and building a file so they can fire him for cause in a few months.
At a minimum, he should immediately stop surfing on the internet from work. And keep his smoke breaks short.
Waitaminnit! HE's the one that's been harrassed, and yet it's HIS future at the firm that is under threat!?!?!?
Oh, yeah, that's the way it usually works if it's a woman being harrassed, I s'pose ...
Ha ha real funny dude. Its always funny when it isnt you being screwed over.
What exactly is it you do? Doing your rounds + always in the halls + plenty of smokebreaks + plenty of time for email = sounds like rent a cop.
OMG he's PAUL BLART!
:lol:
Lol no I'm not a rental cop. Although I should check maybe they are hiring. I do maintenance inhouse for a company that owns 3 buildings. And I have to go to all once week and do some rounds throughout the buildings make sure they aren't falling apart and all. I have access to email all the time because I use my phone to get onilne and stuff. It's called technology try it out sometime.
I take my smoke breaks driving from building to building when I go close out workorders placed by the people at the buildings. When they have lights out and things like that. Techincally my job title is building engineer.
Ooh, I get it now -- you're the manliest man some of these chicks see, in their women-centric cushy office jobs. You're the guy who comes around every once in a while and is willing to get on a ladder and lift the suspended ceiling to see where the AC leak is. And if they have guys around, they are cushy metrosexual office guys, who don't even know how to lift a suspended ceiling.
So you're like the women's designated "dangerous guy target", and a certain percentage of women are kinda driven to go after that. And the bad news is, the ones who go after that with the most desperation are also the ones most likely to be totally nuts.
Refer them to the UPS guy. He's single, and he's got thighs to last all night.
Funny but yeah that's pretty much how it is. And yeah I do that sort of too and I fix their desks too when they have power issues with their cubes so I have to crawl under their desks and stuff.
And yes there are some that are kinda nuts that's why it was funny when someone said I must work at a female looney bin.
But I do really really like my job. There's a lot of chill time and I get to work with my hands and they pay isn't to shabby either. There is good money in mynline of work specially if you re HVAC certified which I am.
It's funny because I kind of thought, if I had to do it over again, HVAC. At first I thought electrician, because I've always liked hardware and circuits. But then I realized, in HVAC you have to know pretty much everything: electrical, mechanical, all kinds of construction, a little plumbing even. It has to be valuable.
So the other day I had AC trouble, and the guy who runs his own HVAC business came out. And I asked him about how it must be hard to do HVAC, because you have to know everything. Yeah, he said, it's impossible to find good people. Tells me a story.
At one point he was working with a guy, trying to run a pipe from the basement to the first floor. He wasn't exactly sure where he'd wind up when drilling through the basement ceiling, but he made the very best measurements he could, and put an X on the ceiling where he thought it should go. Then he told his assistant: I'm not sure where the hole will be, but I'll walk up to the first floor, you drill on the X, and I'll watch for the drill coming through.
So he goes up and watches the spot where he thinks it will land, and he hears the drill going... but he never sees anything. He goes back down to his assistant to find out WTF, and the guy has drilled the hole about a foot and a half away from where the X is marked.
Asks him what the hell, and the guy just shrugs... I thought that would be a better spot...
My background was originally in plumbing. I did that for about 6 years. And I kind of fell into this job which they paid to have me HVAC certified. And they upped my salary as soon as a get the cert. Which was awesome I have been doing it for about 2 years now and it's great and a good percentage of the time I don't have to work on the units because they are under warranty I only so far do small stuff like change the filters and clean out the coils and I do have to respond to some alarms after hours every now and again. So it's not too bad. I mainly handle plumbing issues and or water leaks and some electrical problems. It's an awesome job....an oh yeah did i mention it pays very well.
The story is awesome.....Maybe even classic people do some stupid shit sometimes.
Waitaminnit! HE's the one that's been harrassed, and yet it's HIS future at the firm that is under threat!?!?!?
Oh, yeah, that's the way it usually works if it's a woman being harrassed, I s'pose ...
Ha ha real funny dude. Its always funny when it isnt you being screwed over.
He-ey Mr ThatGuy, I'm actually on your side. I was genuinely thinking how unjust that your job should be threatened by this woman's inappropriate sexual overtures to you. But I was also genuinely making the point that women suffer this wrong-thinking and no-one notices. "Oh, you're asecretary and your boss is coming on to you and HR won't help? Well, you'll just have to look for another job". Whut?!?!?!?
[SIZE="1"](By the way I'm a girlie!).[/SIZE]
Oh ok got cha sorry. Oh and your a girl too man i feel like a douche now.....sorry bout that. But yeah i get your point now. But after hearing the advice of some folks here and being told that i might be getting canned in the near future i decided to go up to the HR manger again today and he has let me know that there is a possiblity that "she" will be transferring to another location very soon because she is getting promoted!!! WTF!!! He couldnt tell me where of course...But its out of Florida!!!! I think i just lucked out. Because i really like my job.
... Because i really like my job.
You didn't mention - does it pay well? ;):stickpoke:biggrinje
Oh really i didnt mention??? And i forgot to say that it pays well???? :D
I'm sorry, I didn;t quite catch that: did you say it pays quite poorly?
Oh what you didnt catch that either. What! Ok give me a few mintues and i will write the whole thing over again :D:compute:
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We demand plumber's crack shots or it never happened. :lol:
...wait...... well UT demands them, anyway. I'm sure it was him
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How do I delete thee?
Let me count the ways...
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