Everything must go!

Cloud • Mar 11, 2009 9:44 pm
Just an update on my surgery/possible cancer stuff.

I'm freaked out. I'm not worried about the pain. I'm worried I'm going to die. My vivid imagination is not helping.

Anyway, I got the blood test back; one marker is elevated, possibly indicating ovarian cancer; the other marker is okay. I've scheduled my MRI and CT scan, and have found a local guy who will change out all my body jewelry and reinsert for the tests. Except for the chest anchor, which doesn't come out.

I'm trying to do the responsible thing and "take charge of my own health." But it's hard. The stress is making me tired and tearful at a time when I'm trying to build up my physical and emotional reserves. It's good that I have a few weeks to research and make sure I'm making the right decision. It's bad that I have a few weeks to get progressively more freaked out.
TheMercenary • Mar 11, 2009 10:00 pm
WOW! Cloud hang in there. I am sure that you are not alone on these boards. Sending the best of wishes your way.
lumberjim • Mar 11, 2009 10:01 pm
i hope you live to be 90, cloud
Aliantha • Mar 12, 2009 12:32 am
I know it's hard not to stress yourself out when you get some scary news which might turn out to be nothing, but it's the thought that it might not which freaks you out.

The only advice I have is to just use all that willpower within to focus on a positive outcome, no matter what the results of the tests. You can do it, and we'll all be here to help you when it gets to be a bit much.

You're a top chick. You're going to be fine because I said so and that's all there is to it. x :) x
ZenGum • Mar 12, 2009 1:49 am
:comfort:

Dunno what else to say. Be gentle with yourself.
xoxoxoBruce • Mar 12, 2009 3:07 am
Cloud;544237 wrote:
It's bad that I have a few weeks to get progressively more freaked out.
Yeah, but think positive, we are. :thumb:

have found a local [COLOR="Magenta"]guy[/COLOR] who will change out all my body jewelry and reinsert for the tests
You sly devil, you.;)
Beestie • Mar 12, 2009 3:15 am
Yes. Yes, you can.

And we can, too.

You can beat this. We can help.
DanaC • Mar 12, 2009 6:38 am
*Hugs Cloud* you'll get through this. My prediction is that it will turn out less scary than it is now. We're here if you need us.
Trilby • Mar 12, 2009 8:54 am
*hugs cloud, too*'

We are here for you, cloud. PM if you want - we will get thru this together no matter what it is. YOU CAN DO IT.
classicman • Mar 12, 2009 9:02 am
Hang in there cloud - We're all here for you.
Pie • Mar 12, 2009 9:10 am
Sending my support, as best as I can.
Hugs.
Shawnee123 • Mar 12, 2009 10:23 am
I think any illnesses which dare try to invade Cloud will run screaming once they realize she means business.

Keep talking about it Cloud...we're here for you. Huggles.
Trilby • Mar 12, 2009 10:28 am
Hey, once they get things out, can you tattoo them?
limey • Mar 12, 2009 11:43 am
See ...
we're all here for you! Sending the good vibes from far away!
Clodfobble • Mar 12, 2009 3:37 pm
You should start planning for a new piercing or tattoo, to celebrate when it's all over. That's a lot more fun than planning for tests.
dar512 • Mar 12, 2009 3:47 pm
I think something along this lines can be a real help. It helps to have something to look forward to.

I used to do something similar when I went back for my CS degree. I had to go through a number of math prereqs to get to the programming courses that I really wanted. Everytime I finished a math course I bought myself a cd or game.
TheMercenary • Mar 19, 2009 1:20 pm
Any update?
Cloud • Mar 19, 2009 1:30 pm
you guys are ahead of me. Yes, I'm thinking about some new body art as therapy afterwards. I --briefly--thought about tattoing depictions of my missing organs on my belly, but -- naw. I'm leaning toward stone age cup marks.

No update yet, because my doc is out of town until March 30, so I'm in limbo and won't get the results of my tests (MRI) until then.

I've calmed down from my initial freak-out. Thanks for thinking of me!
TheMercenary • Mar 19, 2009 1:46 pm
Well hang in there. I will send good vibes your way. :thumb:
sweetwater • Mar 20, 2009 2:06 pm
Wow, I wasn't aware of anything, but I am now and will be sending healing vibes your way. And may I suggest, for your victory tattoo, a nice rendering of either the Cellar monkey or Spacebat?
Queen of the Ryche • Mar 20, 2009 2:38 pm
Good luck Cloud - here's hoping comes out alright.

And how are you doing Bri?

And Merc, aren't you going through some similar crap too?

And how's Decca doing?

Holy hell, I need to count every single one of my blessings right now.....
Trilby • Mar 20, 2009 3:56 pm
thanks, QotR. I'm doing really well. I feel great - except for the vampire nightmares. :) thanks for asking!
Pie • Mar 20, 2009 4:15 pm
Eat garlic before you go to bed. No vampires, I promise!
Trilby • Mar 20, 2009 5:18 pm
Pie;547492 wrote:
Eat garlic before you go to bed. No vampires, I promise!


that's a good idea! :litebulb:
xoxoxoBruce • Mar 21, 2009 5:51 pm
On the up side, with all that useless stuff gone, you'll have room to smuggle the good shit back from Mexico. Carpe Diem. ;)
DanaC • Mar 21, 2009 7:08 pm
Hell Yeah! Sieze that carp, honey, sieze that carp!
TheMercenary • Mar 22, 2009 9:56 am
Uggg, carp are bottom feeders. :)
morethanpretty • Mar 22, 2009 10:33 am
Cloud we're here for you. Personally I like the space-bat tattoo idea.
Sundae • Mar 22, 2009 2:01 pm
Ah shoot, Cloud.
Sorry I missed this.

ALL my love and support and thoughts and hugs.
My heart is with you while you're waiting darlin'.
Cloud • Mar 22, 2009 3:23 pm
Ah well, thanks. you just go on. I'll let you know when I know something.
Big Sarge • Mar 23, 2009 10:11 am
Don't look up medical info on the internet. I scared the bejeezus out of myself researching my cancer. Think positive
Cicero • Mar 23, 2009 6:21 pm
:) Best wishes..........And don't forget, you rock!
DanaC • Mar 23, 2009 6:23 pm
Hey! I've got a geat idea...let's all mail rocks to Cloud to show how much we think she rocks....no? ...bad idea? k...I'll just drop it then...won't mention it again.

Though she does rock.


[eta] I'm not entirely sure at what point I started 'mailing' items intsead of 'posting' them...
Cloud • Mar 23, 2009 6:24 pm
sinking like a stone . . .

glub glub glub
DanaC • Mar 23, 2009 6:25 pm
Noooo! Oh no, now I feel terrible!

You're not sinking. You're on solid ground.
Cicero • Mar 23, 2009 6:27 pm
uuugh.....ouch...........

Let's send tiny bubbles......;)
Cloud • Mar 23, 2009 6:30 pm
wait . . . I'm too fat to sink! (bob, bob, bobbing along . . . )
ZenGum • Mar 24, 2009 1:13 am
Can we post her a cloud instead? How should I wrap that?
xoxoxoBruce • Mar 24, 2009 1:59 am
Hey, you're gonna lose weight, Cloud. :thumb:
Cloud • Mar 24, 2009 10:17 am
won't be able to exercise though. or get up to get to the kitchen either, so I guess it will work out.
xoxoxoBruce • Mar 24, 2009 11:11 am
Not for long, you'll be back in the groove in no time.
Cloud • Mar 28, 2009 10:34 am
I'm still waiting . . . still waiting . . . big "reveal" is on Monday.

I'm over my freakout, the initial shock that is. This week one of my boss's sisters died from ovarian cancer.

I'm freaked out all over again!
Pie • Mar 28, 2009 11:20 am
Crossing my fingers for you, Cloud. Remember to breathe!
xoxoxoBruce • Mar 28, 2009 2:24 pm
Cloud;550384 wrote:
This week one of my boss's sisters died from ovarian cancer.

I'm freaked out all over again!
Shouldn't be, you should be relieved you're on top of this, so unlike her, you'll be cool... longtime. :female:
Cicero • Mar 28, 2009 5:00 pm
Please stay calm......I know it's hard, but this too shall pass...
TheMercenary • Mar 29, 2009 5:40 am
Cloud;550384 wrote:
I'm still waiting . . . still waiting . . . big "reveal" is on Monday.

I'm over my freakout, the initial shock that is. This week one of my boss's sisters died from ovarian cancer.

I'm freaked out all over again!


Don't dwell on other people's experiences. They are interesting but you need to focus on yourself and your own needs. Relax and remind yourself you don't control the future. I will be thinking of you Monday. Be well.
Cloud • Mar 29, 2009 11:25 am
I . . . don't control the future?

well, darn!
classicman • Mar 29, 2009 2:38 pm
Lots of prayer and positive vibes headed your way.
Shawnee123 • Mar 29, 2009 4:52 pm
classicman;550758 wrote:
Lots of prayer and positive vibes headed your way.


From me too, Cloud. Keep us posted.
Cloud • Mar 30, 2009 5:31 pm
*Update*; just got back from the doc--tests show no indication of cancer.

Yay! (whew!)

But, I have an enlarged uterous and multiple ovarian cysts. I've scheduled a hysterectomy for Tues. Apr. 7.

I think it's the right decision for me.
Shawnee123 • Mar 30, 2009 5:41 pm
WOOHOOOOOOOOOOO. I'm so happy to hear there's no cancer, Cloud.

Eh, let 'em take the nursery. You get to keep the playpen. ;)
Cloud • Mar 30, 2009 5:53 pm
it was all your positive vibes, guys--thanks!
Clodfobble • Mar 30, 2009 6:51 pm
I'm glad to hear your fears have been allayed. You'll be back on your feet in no time.
Queen of the Ryche • Mar 31, 2009 12:19 pm
Hooray!!! I am soooo glad to hear no cancer. I guess the cysts can be painful, but after removal you'll be floating again!!!
classicman • Mar 31, 2009 1:02 pm
GREAT NEWS - Hooray - never underestimate the power of teh cellar vibes.
Cloud • Mar 31, 2009 1:51 pm
I never will again, that's fosure!
Pie • Mar 31, 2009 2:40 pm
I'm really glad to hear it, Cloud! We'll still be crossing our fingers for the 7th. The vibes are still good!
dar512 • Mar 31, 2009 2:47 pm
Excellent, Cloud. That's got to be a relief.
limey • Mar 31, 2009 4:26 pm
fabuloso! Great news! We rawk (I think) ;)!
DanaC • Mar 31, 2009 6:44 pm
Thank fuck for that. *Smiles* Good news, m'dear.
TheMercenary • Mar 31, 2009 6:48 pm
CONGrats Cloud. No longer Cloudy. Things are looking up.
Nirvana • Mar 31, 2009 7:10 pm
Absolutely fabulous news Cloud!
ZenGum • Apr 1, 2009 10:48 pm
Splendid! Glad to hear that is "all" you have.

A friend of mine had four large uterine cysts removed while she (English-speaker) was in Japan. Plenty of funny/weird stories there. Including her wanting to put them in jars and sell them on ebay, or, since she was in the maternity ward for the operation, her habit of pointing to random Japanese babies and claiming they were hers.
Aliantha • Apr 1, 2009 10:55 pm
I'm so pleased it's just cysts Cloud, although I'm sorry you have to have a procedure which you'd rather not have.

For what it's worth, I think you've made the right decision though. It all might be clear now, but things like that tend to get nasty with age.

My thoughts are with you. xox
Trilby • Apr 2, 2009 4:42 am
nice work cloud!
monster • Apr 6, 2009 11:51 am
Thinking of you as you're packing your hospital bag and getting your piercings removed, cloud....
Cloud • Apr 6, 2009 10:46 pm
going nucking futz trying to get ready.

I'm ready now, though.

Mostly!

Send healing vibes!
jinx • Apr 6, 2009 10:48 pm
I'll be thinking of you cloud :)
Pie • Apr 6, 2009 10:48 pm
Best wishes, lady. I'll be thinking of you.
classicman • Apr 6, 2009 11:14 pm
Prayers & well wishes headed your way
TheMercenary • Apr 7, 2009 5:47 am
Good luck good lady.
dar512 • Apr 7, 2009 8:01 am
Prayers of healing coming your way.
Chocolatl • Apr 7, 2009 8:06 am
Sending good wishes your way, Cloud.
DanaC • Apr 7, 2009 8:32 am
Thinking of you Cloud.


Pilau says he'll eat a biscuit for luck on your behalf. He's good like that.
glatt • Apr 7, 2009 9:12 am
Good luck, Cloud!
limey • Apr 7, 2009 6:50 pm
healing vibes! >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>
Cloud • Apr 8, 2009 9:30 am
hi guys.I'm still alive and posting from the hospital.can barely keep my eyes open
Trilby • Apr 8, 2009 9:35 am
Cloud;553948 wrote:
hi guys.I'm still alive and posting from the hospital.can barely keep my eyes open


Good for you for being awake and here in the cellar!!!!

what is going on? (if too tired, i completely understand....good best wishes, cloud) make them give you lots of good drugs!!!!

*hugs*
Queen of the Ryche • Apr 8, 2009 12:55 pm
Brianna;553950 wrote:
Good for you for being awake and here in the cellar!!!!

what is going on? (if too tired, i completely understand....good best wishes, cloud) make them give you lots of good drugs!!!!

*hugs*


Hugs AND Drugs! I like it! My new motto!
Hope you're healing and feeling well Cloud!!!
Cloud • Apr 10, 2009 12:42 pm
Hi. I'm home from the hospital. Still posting from my iPhone cause my comp is at the dogs. I
moving around ok but very tired. Not in too much pain but my tonsils are acting up so everything tastes like chalk. Bummer
Cloud • Apr 10, 2009 12:44 pm
At the dogs ha! At the doc!
glatt • Apr 10, 2009 2:17 pm
Glad you are moving around anyway. Feel better soon!
Shawnee123 • Apr 10, 2009 2:18 pm
Cloud;554790 wrote:
At the dogs ha! At the doc!


Oh, but that was really funny. :) That's not that darn meddlin' neighbor dog, is it?

I'm glad you're doing well Cloud. Take care of yourself.
LabRat • Apr 10, 2009 4:33 pm
Rest and take care of yourself! Glad to see you are home.
Clodfobble • Apr 10, 2009 6:46 pm
Yay, Cloud's back!
Cicero • Apr 10, 2009 7:56 pm
:D

Fantastic!
Cloud • Apr 11, 2009 9:12 pm
Hey guys! I want to thank you so much for your healing vibes and well wishes. It means a whole lot!

I'm back on the 'puter, so at least I can post now. Though I don't know how much I'll be posting, because I really have to take it easy. That's my main concern right now. I'm moving around okay, not in a great deal of pain (unless I move, laugh, cough, etc. LOL!), so in fact I think I overdid it a little yesterday. Woke up at 5 am this morning and realized my pain pills were downstairs.

Not good. (Though I'm only taking ibuprofen 4x4, as my doctor is fond of saying--like a Texas truck--4 pills every 4 hours.)

Was miserable in the hospital because I was dizzy and vomiting until that last day. Vomiting is REALLY NOT FUN with a fresh abdominal scar, let me tell you. (and laughing, and coughing . . . . did I say that already?)
;)

So mostly now I'm just really, really tired. Just because I can go up and downstairs without a problem, doesn't mean I should, right? Bowel and bladder seem to function normally, which is a relief, because those can be complications of such surgery. My tonsils have been acting up a little, but I think they're doing their little filtering job, so--good.

Food all tastes like sawdust still though.

Though I'm not often bored, I haven't been able to really get into reading or anything much before today. Reading my The Piercing Bible a bit though (the book I was involved in putting together which is finally out). Anyway, I got my laptop delivered today, though I really can't play with it much until I get my wireless set up in my house, so I'll be able to post.

Big hugs to all at teh Cella for your support!
xoxoxoBruce • Apr 12, 2009 12:23 am
Just take it slow and easy, you'll be gooder than new in no time. ;)
Cloud • Apr 12, 2009 12:38 am
Bionic!Cloud! "We will make her better . . . "

. . . okay, that doesn't scan.
DanaC • Apr 12, 2009 6:44 am
Keep your feet up, honey. Worst's over and done wi'now.

*smiles*
classicman • Apr 12, 2009 12:30 pm
great to hear you are doing so well.
Clodfobble • Apr 12, 2009 4:21 pm
Cloud wrote:
Was miserable in the hospital because I was dizzy and vomiting until that last day. Vomiting is REALLY NOT FUN with a fresh abdominal scar, let me tell you. (and laughing, and coughing . . . . did I say that already?)


Did they teach you the trick with the pillow? Press a big pillow firmly across your lap/stomach when you do those things and it will hurt a lot less. In my experience the worst is sneezing. Keep that pillow handy at all times.
Cloud • Apr 12, 2009 4:23 pm
I was told that, and have tried that, but it doesn't seem to work for me.

Feel like mucho crapo today, actually. Two steps forward and one back, I guess.
richlevy • Apr 12, 2009 6:45 pm
I'm thinking best wishes for a speedy recovery.

It's too bad the Cellar doesn't have those Facebooky virtual greeting cards/candygram thingies.

If it did, and I sent you one, you'd be so busy mentioning what a useless tacky idea those things are that you wouldn't have time to hurt.;)
jinx • Apr 12, 2009 9:30 pm
Feeling any better Cloud?
monster • Apr 12, 2009 10:43 pm
There once was a dwellar called Cloud
Who's Doc said "It all must come out"
So she bit on that bullet
and let the quacks pull it
Without so much as a pout

But that nebulous texican dwellar
found that while she could poop and pass yeller
the hospital barfing
And hysterical laughing
made her wish she had been born a feller.
Shawnee123 • Apr 12, 2009 11:03 pm
Awesome!
Cloud • Apr 12, 2009 11:24 pm
OMG! :cheerldr:

that's the funniest sweetest teasingist thing anyone has every done for me! it's priceless, thank you!
monster • Apr 12, 2009 11:32 pm
yw. it's what i do best ;)
DanaC • Apr 13, 2009 7:15 am
lol brilliant monnie!