On Being Part of Something

Griff • Feb 22, 2009 10:09 am
I attended a funeral this week for a guy I already had respect for, then I listened to his community and was truly amazed. He always had his hand in something outside his own work. He had this vision of himself as part of the flow of history rather than observing from the outside. I don't know what confluence of forces made him a joiner and a doer but his impact on peoples lives was amazing in its scope.

He was a Boy Scout as a kid, but naturally he became an Eagle Scout. He was a Navy guy, then a big business drone, then a small businessman. His progression was that sort of idealized American dream the Republican Party used to represent. He was a wheel in the GOP, attempting to preserve that dream.

He was a long standing Rotary member and officer in two very active chapters. He helped build schools in Honduras as one of many charitable activities. He was a choir member and officer in his local church helping to guide it through an extremely difficult time as they recognized the lifestyles of their gay members. This was quite a step for someone as conservative as he was, but speaks to his fundemental fairness.

He was a Christian who embraced his Jewish in-laws and eventually the Jewish roots of his own faith. I wanted to explore his religious beliefs this summer since he wasn't a bible thumper preferring reason to received wisdom. I'm guessing he saw church as part of the tapestry of community even if it often lacked a foothold in reality. Unfortunately, I'll not get that from the horse's mouth. The gift he gave me was the question he always asked when my or anyone elses musings slid too far afield. "You don't really believe that, do you?"

In this time of macro-economic disturbance it is good to reflect on the power of a hard-working individual to lift a community.
Shawnee123 • Feb 22, 2009 11:44 am
Griff, you're my hero. :)
Griff • Feb 22, 2009 12:36 pm
I just watch. I haven't done crap.
capnhowdy • Feb 22, 2009 1:39 pm
Good write, Griff.

I'll need you to write my eulogy.
Griff • Feb 22, 2009 1:55 pm
Can do, but not too soon man.
Trilby • Feb 22, 2009 2:10 pm
Faith in mankind: renewed!
Shawnee123 • Feb 22, 2009 4:04 pm
Griff;537566 wrote:
I just watch. I haven't done crap.


Brianna;537592 wrote:
Faith in mankind: renewed!


Exactly. Griff will often remind me that people don't always suck. :)
xoxoxoBruce • Feb 22, 2009 11:15 pm
There was a time, which now seems long ago and far away, when I knew a bunch of people like that... just small variations in the details.
People who were genuinely concerned for, and contributed the best they could to, their family, community and country.

They never heard of Ayn Rand.:headshake

Thanks Griff, you've stirred up a flood on memories from the muck at the bottom of my gray matter.
classicman • Feb 23, 2009 8:31 am
:vomit: Ayn Rand
lumberjim • Feb 23, 2009 9:19 am
i got a very Norman Rockwell vibe from that

thanks G
sweetwater • Feb 23, 2009 9:37 am
That's cool, Griff.