Royal Wedding - Street Party?

Sundae · 03-07-2011, 02:49 PM

This came up because I was talking to my parents’ neighbour on the bus.
I mentioned - mostly in jest - about us having a street party for the Royal Wedding.
Now, we live in a Close - a place with only one entrance and exit. And connected by a pathway is another Close that has a mini-green.

Perfect place for a party.

I could very easily put out a tick-box response whether people would want a “street” party for the wedding. It need not affect anyone’s parking. It would not require a permit. Everyone would bring what they want and OF COURSE any alcohol would be bought and consumed by individuals.

A street party - what a great idea!
Brings to whole community together.

All I’m thinking is - what if it rains?
If I’m at the head of this will I be blamed?
Also is it more organisation than I can manage?

Should I just step back, not take up a great opportunity to create a memorable experience, especially as people in two Closes do know and acknowledge their neighbours?

I am not an ardent royalist.
This is about neighbourhood cohension. Adout 20 houses would be involved, if everyone agreed/ responded.

Spexxvet · 03-07-2011, 02:57 PM

It sounds like fun. Don't kill yourself and get blamed (especially for rain!?), just send a message like "how about we all get together - bring your own stuff". Someone is likely to have a "pavillion". Even if nobody does, at worst everybody can have their own little party in their own house.

Cloud · 03-07-2011, 03:02 PM

a proper and traditional excuse for a party, street or otherwise.

I'd make sure at least one other person/neighbor is willing to coordinate with you. Don't try to do it alone.

glatt · 03-07-2011, 03:19 PM

Street parties are so much fun. Go for it.

In my jurisdiction, the fine for having an illegal street party and blocking the road is the same as the fee for a permit to do it legally. And if nobody complains, the cops won't even find out about it. Our street has one every year, and stopped getting permits for them a couple years ago. We just block off the street with orange cones somebody has.

monster · 03-07-2011, 03:40 PM

Put out a flyer asking if people are interested and if so:
> Are they interested/willing to help organize
> Are they willing to help set up/ clean up
> How many adults/kids
> How many tables/chairs/rainshelters/big outdoor TV screens could they provide

What I'm trying to say is if you're sending round a checkbox flyer about interest, ask the other basic info you will need to know at the same time, then you will have a much better idea of how much work is going to be involved and how much you will be shouldering if you go ahead. Also you won't irritate people with a zillion different flyers, and it will make it seem more real so you might get more accurate responses.

ALSO

probably a comment from Captain Obvious here, but check with your parents ESPECIALLY your mum first. Make her think it's her idea if you can/can bear to. But it's certainly her house and her neighbourhood and you are not going to be a happy camper if she isn't happy.

Rhianne · 03-08-2011, 06:43 AM

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Pete Zicato · 03-08-2011, 09:03 AM

We have a block party every year. When the notices go out, they always include wording like "In the event of bad weather, we'll send out email of an alternate date."

glatt · 03-08-2011, 12:00 PM

Wife just got invited to a royal wedding party live via satellite at 5:30 in the morning. She's actually pretty excited about it. There will be tea and scones.

Sundae · 03-08-2011, 12:11 PM

Monster has a very good point about Mum.
In fact I was putting out feelers here to decide whether it was worth even broaching the subject with her. Her first fear is likely to be that we will have our windows smashed in by people who "disagree". She no longer displays a Christmas poster from the Church for this reason (there is an Asian family living in the close) and will not put up a "Vote For" sign any more.

I think it would be a shame to miss the opportunity.
I will talk to Mum, she might surprise me.
I will also talk to Maureen next door. She thought it was a wonderful idea. She might allow me to use her address for responses. I'm sure she'd be willing to discuss it anyway.

And after all, if it is simply turn up and enjoy what you bring, there is no need for that much organising. And of course there might be some really gung-ho would-be organisers out there.

I will draft my tickbox response with the details as above.
But have my conversations before I deliver it.

richlevy · 03-09-2011, 07:43 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

I am not an ardent royalist.

Yes, but it's still probably a better choice than a 4th of July party

,

BTW, if you ever did decide to throw a 4th of July party, I would be willing to send over some appropriate and authentic USA foodstuffs.

Cloud · 03-09-2011, 08:21 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by glatt

Wife just got invited to a royal wedding party live via satellite at 5:30 in the morning. She's actually pretty excited about it. There will be tea and scones.

this sounds fun. I remember getting up in the middle of the night and watching the whole Charles & Diana thing. I'll probably do something similar this time too, just for the hell of it. I love a good wedding celebration (tho not marriage, necessarily).

when is it again? and I wonder when the coverage starts in Mountain time. hope it's on a weekend!

Cloud · 03-09-2011, 08:52 PM

okay, the wedding is on april 29, a Friday. So, that means like 2 in the morning here? on a Friday? that sucks. vacation day, mebbe

Sundae · 03-10-2011, 01:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by richlevy

Yes, but it's still probably a better choice than a 4th of July party

,

BTW, if you ever did decide to throw a 4th of July party, I would be willing to send over some appropriate and authentic USA foodstuffs.

People with a connection certainly throw 4th of July parties here. In companies with offices in America and/ or imported American employees they also have them. Despite a (somewhat) outdated stiff-upper-lip image, the English do like to party.

Fo example the death of Guy Fawkes (Catholic who tried to blow up the Houses of Parliament) is celebrated on 5th November. He was due to be hanged, drawn and quartered - a particularly grisly death - but broke his own neck by jumping from the scaffold during the hanging phase. For defying justice he was sentenced to burn in effigy.

THIS is therefore a celebration every year, with bonfires, fireworks and dodgy meat products. Hurray!

So a minor colony deciding they don't want support is small beer (

)
But Merc - if you could find the people, I'd sort the party - I have absolutely no qualms in celebrating a setback to Royalty hundreds of years ago.

03-07-2011, 02:49 PM	#1
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Royal Wedding - Street Party? This came up because I was talking to my parents’ neighbour on the bus. I mentioned - mostly in jest - about us having a street party for the Royal Wedding. Now, we live in a Close - a place with only one entrance and exit. And connected by a pathway is another Close that has a mini-green. Perfect place for a party. I could very easily put out a tick-box response whether people would want a “street” party for the wedding. It need not affect anyone’s parking. It would not require a permit. Everyone would bring what they want and OF COURSE any alcohol would be bought and consumed by individuals. A street party - what a great idea! Brings to whole community together. All I’m thinking is - what if it rains? If I’m at the head of this will I be blamed? Also is it more organisation than I can manage? Should I just step back, not take up a great opportunity to create a memorable experience, especially as people in two Closes do know and acknowledge their neighbours? I am not an ardent royalist. This is about neighbourhood cohension. Adout 20 houses would be involved, if everyone agreed/ responded.

03-07-2011, 02:57 PM	#2
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	It sounds like fun. Don't kill yourself and get blamed (especially for rain!?), just send a message like "how about we all get together - bring your own stuff". Someone is likely to have a "pavillion". Even if nobody does, at worst everybody can have their own little party in their own house. __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

03-07-2011, 03:02 PM	#3
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	a proper and traditional excuse for a party, street or otherwise. I'd make sure at least one other person/neighbor is willing to coordinate with you. Don't try to do it alone. __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

03-07-2011, 03:40 PM	#5
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Put out a flyer asking if people are interested and if so: > Are they interested/willing to help organize > Are they willing to help set up/ clean up > How many adults/kids > How many tables/chairs/rainshelters/big outdoor TV screens could they provide What I'm trying to say is if you're sending round a checkbox flyer about interest, ask the other basic info you will need to know at the same time, then you will have a much better idea of how much work is going to be involved and how much you will be shouldering if you go ahead. Also you won't irritate people with a zillion different flyers, and it will make it seem more real so you might get more accurate responses. ALSO probably a comment from Captain Obvious here, but check with your parents ESPECIALLY your mum first. Make her think it's her idea if you can/can bear to. But it's certainly her house and her neighbourhood and you are not going to be a happy camper if she isn't happy. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

03-08-2011, 09:03 AM	#7
Pete Zicato Turns out my CRS is a symptom of TMB. Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Chicago suburbs Posts: 2,916	We have a block party every year. When the notices go out, they always include wording like "In the event of bad weather, we'll send out email of an alternate date." __________________ Talk nerdy to me.

03-07-2011, 03:19 PM	#4
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	Street parties are so much fun. Go for it. In my jurisdiction, the fine for having an illegal street party and blocking the road is the same as the fee for a permit to do it legally. And if nobody complains, the cops won't even find out about it. Our street has one every year, and stopped getting permits for them a couple years ago. We just block off the street with orange cones somebody has.

03-08-2011, 06:43 AM	#6
Rhianne Nearly done. Join Date: Jul 2007 Location: Teetering on the edge. Posts: 1,134	Make sure you are well stocked with these:

03-08-2011, 12:00 PM	#8
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	Wife just got invited to a royal wedding party live via satellite at 5:30 in the morning. She's actually pretty excited about it. There will be tea and scones.

03-08-2011, 12:11 PM	#9
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Monster has a very good point about Mum. In fact I was putting out feelers here to decide whether it was worth even broaching the subject with her. Her first fear is likely to be that we will have our windows smashed in by people who "disagree". She no longer displays a Christmas poster from the Church for this reason (there is an Asian family living in the close) and will not put up a "Vote For" sign any more. I think it would be a shame to miss the opportunity. I will talk to Mum, she might surprise me. I will also talk to Maureen next door. She thought it was a wonderful idea. She might allow me to use her address for responses. I'm sure she'd be willing to discuss it anyway. And after all, if it is simply turn up and enjoy what you bring, there is no need for that much organising. And of course there might be some really gung-ho would-be organisers out there. I will draft my tickbox response with the details as above. But have my conversations before I deliver it.

03-09-2011, 08:52 PM	#12
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	okay, the wedding is on april 29, a Friday. So, that means like 2 in the morning here? on a Friday? that sucks. vacation day, mebbe __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

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