The Cellar  

Go Back   The Cellar > Main > Relationships
FAQ Community Calendar Today's Posts Search

Relationships People who need people; or, why can't we all just get along?

View Poll Results: Physical Intimacy
Celibacy 10 47.62%
Hot Meaningless Sex 11 52.38%
Voters: 21. You may not vote on this poll

Reply
 
Thread Tools Display Modes
Old 03-25-2006, 03:30 PM   #31
Mrs. Parker
Mademoiselle martini
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Denver
Posts: 22
I love, love, love sex, but I must choose celibacy. Never really could thoroughly enjoy meaningless sex because my head was always in it --- regardless of my intentions. I do find that after being hopelessly single for some time now, I pass on sex only opportunities. My rationalization is a pointless fling will cause me to stray from the path of finding that right one. As I spent most of my youth in a relationship that didn't ultimately come to fruition, I worry about wasting more time. I'm not getting any younger. Besides, I haven't yet hit my sexual peak. Maybe I just need to give in and buy a pair of tits.
Mrs. Parker is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-25-2006, 03:53 PM   #32
elSicomoro
Person who doesn't update the user title
 
Join Date: Jan 2001
Posts: 12,486
I've never had meaningless sex, only meaningless makeout sessions. I thought about engaging in such activity when I broke up with my then-fiance last year, but then I became obsessed with an old friend of mine back home. And now we're getting married next year. I don't think I missed anything.
elSicomoro is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-25-2006, 10:36 PM   #33
xoxoxoBruce
The future is unwritten
 
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 71,105
Quote:
Originally Posted by Mrs. Parker
Maybe I just need to give in and buy a pair of tits.
No. Absolutely, positively, unequivocally, no.
If it takes plastic tits to get 'em......you don't want 'em.
__________________
The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.
xoxoxoBruce is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-26-2006, 09:30 PM   #34
Mrs. Parker
Mademoiselle martini
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Denver
Posts: 22
I know --- you're right. Just losing my patience.
Mrs. Parker is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-27-2006, 02:10 PM   #35
Dagney
The Prodigal Brat Returneth
 
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: North Cackalacky
Posts: 1,107
Quote:
Originally Posted by sycamore
I've never had meaningless sex, only meaningless makeout sessions. I thought about engaging in such activity when I broke up with my then-fiance last year, but then I became obsessed with an old friend of mine back home. And now we're getting married next year. I don't think I missed anything.
No, but I sure think I have.

Married?

Good god, no wonder it's been so cold! Hell, she done froze over *G*

I think we need to talk Mr. Sycamore *G*
__________________
The Constitution gives every American the right to make a total fool out of himself. But that doesn't mean you need to.




Dagney is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-27-2006, 10:39 PM   #36
elSicomoro
Person who doesn't update the user title
 
Join Date: Jan 2001
Posts: 12,486
Reading my blog reveals all.
elSicomoro is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-28-2006, 05:47 AM   #37
Griff
still says videotape
 
Join Date: Feb 2001
Posts: 26,813
Next thing you know... he's a breeder!
__________________
If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you.
- Louis D. Brandeis
Griff is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-28-2006, 08:12 AM   #38
Dagney
The Prodigal Brat Returneth
 
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: North Cackalacky
Posts: 1,107
Quote:
Originally Posted by sycamore
Reading my blog reveals all.
I don't see you wandering past mine all that often either *G*

Seriously, hit me up on Messenger when you can, I'd like to touch base.
__________________
The Constitution gives every American the right to make a total fool out of himself. But that doesn't mean you need to.




Dagney is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-28-2006, 01:36 PM   #39
thrillhouse
spoonful of bologna
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: salvation holdout central
Posts: 333
FYI: as of 11:30 PST, hot meaningless sex is beating out celibacy (for those of you keeping score *wink*)
__________________
i'm drinking stars
thrillhouse is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-29-2006, 05:20 PM   #40
thrillhouse
spoonful of bologna
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: salvation holdout central
Posts: 333
Hawt (but meaningless) sex WINS!!!

Celibacy 47.62%
Hot Meaningless Sex 52.38%

*cartwheels*
__________________
i'm drinking stars
thrillhouse is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 03-29-2006, 05:51 PM   #41
DucksNuts
Bitchy Little Brat
 
Join Date: Sep 2005
Location: Queensland, Australia
Posts: 5,067
I'll throw my 2 cents behind Hot Meaningless Sex. "Hot" being the key word.
DucksNuts is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-03-2006, 06:15 AM   #42
sharpness
Mediocrity is the playground of the unadventurous
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Sussex UK
Posts: 11
Question

As a guy the tendancy would be to think Hot and Meaningless as the way to go but to be honest I've never been like that and the need to make a connection is still essential in my mind. Maybe occaisionally some HMS is good but long term rekon you'd feel cold and empty. Having said that Celibacy - I don't think so. Let get a balance here!!
sharpness is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-03-2006, 07:39 PM   #43
xoxoxoBruce
The future is unwritten
 
Join Date: Oct 2002
Posts: 71,105
I agree, sharpness. The exception being hot meaningless sex with a friend your comfortable with and are sure nobody's getting hurt.

Oh... and welcome to the Cellar.
__________________
The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.
xoxoxoBruce is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-05-2006, 07:25 AM   #44
sharpness
Mediocrity is the playground of the unadventurous
 
Join Date: Apr 2006
Location: Sussex UK
Posts: 11
Thanks Bruce

Thanks Bruce
sharpness is offline   Reply With Quote
Old 04-07-2006, 08:06 PM   #45
rtexanssane
Wiseacre Emeritus
 
Join Date: Mar 2006
Posts: 35
celibacy for me. Been doing this for decades and i feel more and more free the longer this continues.
rtexanssane is offline   Reply With Quote
Reply


Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)
 

Posting Rules
You may not post new threads
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts

BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is Off

Forum Jump

All times are GMT -5. The time now is 03:45 PM.


Powered by: vBulletin Version 3.8.1
Copyright ©2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.