What's bumming your stone today? - Page 4

jimhelm · 08-08-2011, 11:56 AM

the end of a friendship.

sad, senseless, needlessly painful.

kerosene · 08-08-2011, 11:58 AM

That sucks, Jim. I am sorry.

jimhelm · 08-08-2011, 12:22 PM

yeah, thanks... I'm sorry too. for both of us. It was like that scene where the little kid has to get rid of his dog, so he throws rocks and chases it away.... I was the dog. those rocks hurt.

footfootfoot · 08-08-2011, 02:35 PM

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yeah, thanks... I'm sorry too. for both of us. It was like that scene where the little kid has to get rid of his dog, so he throws rocks and chases it away.... I was the dog. those rocks hurt.

damn. shit. piss. corruption.

Sorry Bro.

infinite monkey · 08-08-2011, 12:26 PM

Nirvana · 08-08-2011, 01:51 PM

Been there, felt that, sorry it happened to you Jim

jimhelm · 08-08-2011, 02:36 PM

thanks... it's good to have people to whine to. ow... my feelings....

glatt · 08-08-2011, 02:43 PM

You're a good guy, Jim. Don't deserve that.

jimhelm · 08-08-2011, 02:54 PM

are you saying I don't deserve it, or not to deserve it? I'm not sure.... I'm pretty sure I didn't deserve what I got, but then, I am very persuasive and confident. Maybe she felt this was the only way to make sure I would go away. I feel like I should hate her, but I can't. I'm just bummed. my stone is too.

glatt · 08-08-2011, 03:22 PM

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are you saying I don't deserve it, or not to deserve it?

"Don't deserve it" is sloppy shorthand for "you don't deserve it." But it's really not my place to weigh in on what you deserve and don't deserve. Poor choice of words. I'm sorry you're going through this though.

jimhelm · 08-08-2011, 02:56 PM

I do have a date Friday night though. Gonna go REAL slow with that one. REAL slow.

jimhelm · 08-08-2011, 03:52 PM

LOL. yeah... somehow, If it happens it happens... and I must deserve it. She got me again. I think the breakup was inevitable, but it seems like she went out of her way to be cruel about the ending. I'm not sure if it's because she wanted to hurt me before I hurt her, or because she wanted to make sure i didn't mess things up with the new guy, or if I did something that made her want to hurt me back.... That's what bothers me. the why of it. I was really nice to her. serious.

jimhelm · 08-28-2011, 10:29 PM

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LOL. yeah... somehow, If it happens it happens... and I must deserve it. She got me again. I think the breakup was inevitable, but it seems like she went out of her way to be cruel about the ending. I'm not sure if it's because she wanted to hurt me before I hurt her, or because she wanted to make sure i didn't mess things up with the new guy, or if I did something that made her want to hurt me back.... That's what bothers me. the why of it. I was really nice to her. serious.

So, I Finally got some closure here, which is good. There really is a new guy. (i didnt believe it) And he seems to be a controlling, jealous asshole. So it makes sense now, the way it went down... Friday night, I sent her one last text to make sure it was really done, and he immediately called me, motherfucking me. It was kind of funny. Like I'm supposed to be scared of him. Lol. He can have her. Oh my god, he can have her.... Thank you, Eric. Buh bye. I owe you a beer.

Lola Bunny · 08-28-2011, 10:50 PM

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Originally Posted by jimhelm

LOL. yeah... somehow, If it happens it happens... and I must deserve it. She got me again. I think the breakup was inevitable, but it seems like she went out of her way to be cruel about the ending. I'm not sure if it's because she wanted to hurt me before I hurt her, or because she wanted to make sure i didn't mess things up with the new guy, or if I did something that made her want to hurt me back.... That's what bothers me. the why of it. I was really nice to her. serious.

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So, I Finally got some closure here, which is good. There really is a new guy. (i didnt believe it) And he seems to be a controlling, jealous asshole. So it makes sense now, the way it went down... Friday night, I sent her one last text to make sure it was really done, and he immediately called me, motherfucking me. It was kind of funny. Like I'm supposed to be scared of him. Lol. He can have her. Oh my god, he can have her.... Thank you, Eric. Buh bye. I owe you a beer.

I read your post again and you know what, NO ONE deserves a cruel break-up, especially cuz the other has someone else. That's just plain wrong. I'm glad you've got closure now though. And just a side note, I feel sorry for her to be in a relationship with a controlling, jealous man. She will regret choosing him over you.

jimhelm · 09-20-2011, 03:02 PM

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...And he seems to be a controlling, jealous asshole. So it makes sense now, the way it went down...

Oh my god.

Dude called me at work today, out of the blue. Seems she's moving into his house, and he wanted to return the belongings of mine that were left behind at her place ....ostensibly.... also, we talked for a time about how i should stay away from her, and not try to 'step on his girl' ... i kept saying... yeah, ok... no problem... I don't want her...haven't tried to contact her since that text weeks ago when you called and motherfucked me...but stop sounding like you're threatening me because I'm not scared....and, again, i don't want her back anyway.

Seems his ex wife cheated on him, and if he thought I was trying to get with her again, he was going to become hostile. he knows himself and that's just how he is. I guess he didn't notice it when our phone system told him he was calling in on a recorded line. I assured him that he has more to worry about with the guys she works with, and he could just leave my stuff at her neighbor's place for me. He said she knew he was going to call me about the dvd's and stuff, but I wonder how she'd react to hearing a recording of that conversation.

I think I'll just file it away and try to forget it. birds of a crazy feather.....

08-08-2011, 11:56 AM	#1
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	the end of a friendship. sad, senseless, needlessly painful. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-08-2011, 12:22 PM	#3
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	yeah, thanks... I'm sorry too. for both of us. It was like that scene where the little kid has to get rid of his dog, so he throws rocks and chases it away.... I was the dog. those rocks hurt. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-08-2011, 01:51 PM	#6
Nirvana Back in 10 Join Date: Aug 2008 Posts: 3,684	Been there, felt that, sorry it happened to you Jim __________________ Speaking simply... do not confuse this with having a simple mind.

08-08-2011, 02:36 PM	#7
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	thanks... it's good to have people to whine to. ow... my feelings.... __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-08-2011, 02:54 PM	#9
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	are you saying I don't deserve it, or not to deserve it? I'm not sure.... I'm pretty sure I didn't deserve what I got, but then, I am very persuasive and confident. Maybe she felt this was the only way to make sure I would go away. I feel like I should hate her, but I can't. I'm just bummed. my stone is too. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-08-2011, 11:58 AM	#2
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	That sucks, Jim. I am sorry.

08-08-2011, 12:26 PM	#5
infinite monkey Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Mar 2011 Posts: 13,002

08-08-2011, 02:43 PM	#8
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	You're a good guy, Jim. Don't deserve that.

08-08-2011, 02:56 PM	#11
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	I do have a date Friday night though. Gonna go REAL slow with that one. REAL slow. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

08-08-2011, 03:52 PM	#12
jimhelm a beautiful fool Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: 39.939705 Posts: 4,504	LOL. yeah... somehow, If it happens it happens... and I must deserve it. She got me again. I think the breakup was inevitable, but it seems like she went out of her way to be cruel about the ending. I'm not sure if it's because she wanted to hurt me before I hurt her, or because she wanted to make sure i didn't mess things up with the new guy, or if I did something that made her want to hurt me back.... That's what bothers me. the why of it. I was really nice to her. serious. __________________ There's a Shadow just behind me. Shrouding every step I take. Making every promise empty, pointing every finger at me. _tool

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