What's upsetting you today? - Page 598

DanaC · 02-19-2013, 01:21 PM

Ach honey. It's barely any time at all since you lost her. I was a fucking mess for about two months after I lost Pilau. The first month especially, I was totally unable to get my head and heart around the loss.

When I brought Carrot back, I mourned Pilau all over again.

Trilby · 02-19-2013, 01:46 PM

thank you for your sympatico, Dana.

It gives me hope that others have lived through it. I know Tony has, Jaydaan, Nirvana...Sundae lost Dylan, and more of us.

It's like Wuthering Heights weather-wise here and I've only a bouncy, cat-chasing dog for company. Even the cats won't come up.

I want to go away. I want some sunshine and some happiness before I ossify. godDAMNIT~!

richlevy · 02-20-2013, 09:42 PM

My father passed away tonight. Even though he was 94, it came suddenly. My sister called me from the hospital, but by the time I got there it was too late. I saw him last weekend, but didn't really expect it to be for the last time.

Undertoad · 02-20-2013, 09:46 PM

Sorry Rich.

zippyt · 02-20-2013, 10:12 PM

Sorry for your loss Rich ,
but hey 94 is a Pretty good run

monster · 02-20-2013, 11:09 PM

Sorry, Rich.

orthodoc · 02-21-2013, 02:13 AM

Sorry for your loss, Rich.

xoxoxoBruce · 02-21-2013, 03:53 AM

Rich, sorry for your loss, it's never easy at any age.
I saw my 93 year old mother on Tuesday, and without a second thought, told her I'd see her in May. One of these days, plans will go asunder.

Aliantha · 02-21-2013, 05:24 AM

So sorry Rich. No matter how old the parent may be, losing them is still one of the most heart wrenching things that can possibly happen. I hope you have plenty of support people around. Xx

Griff · 02-21-2013, 05:33 AM

I'm sorry for your loss Rich.

Sundae · 02-21-2013, 06:13 AM

Rich that must hurt.
I'm so sorry. I know you were prepared, but my heart goes out to you.

My love to you and your family.

BigV · 02-21-2013, 06:24 AM

There is no such thing as complete preparation, only varying degrees of adequacy. Though it may not feel like enough, it can be enough. I hope... Ugh.

I've lost my father, I recently lost my aunt. I want to be most helpful to you Rich. I'm just so sorry to hear such news. My heart goes out to you.

DanaC · 02-21-2013, 06:42 AM

Oh Rich, I'm so sorry. *hugs*

Trilby · 02-21-2013, 06:53 AM

I'm so sorry Rich. I don't know what to say in these situations---they are so painful; even if he was 94. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you try to process this loss.

the loss of a father, no matter how old or infirm, has got to be gut wrenching.

glatt · 02-21-2013, 07:12 AM

Rich, I'm sorry.

02-19-2013, 01:46 PM	#8957
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	thank you for your sympatico, Dana. It gives me hope that others have lived through it. I know Tony has, Jaydaan, Nirvana...Sundae lost Dylan, and more of us. It's like Wuthering Heights weather-wise here and I've only a bouncy, cat-chasing dog for company. Even the cats won't come up. I want to go away. I want some sunshine and some happiness before I ossify. godDAMNIT~! __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

02-20-2013, 09:42 PM	#8958
richlevy King Of Wishful Thinking Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Philadelphia Suburbs Posts: 6,669	My father passed away tonight. Even though he was 94, it came suddenly. My sister called me from the hospital, but by the time I got there it was too late. I saw him last weekend, but didn't really expect it to be for the last time. __________________ Exercise your rights and remember your obligations - VOTE! I have always believed that hope is that stubborn thing inside us that insists, despite all the evidence to the contrary, that something better awaits us so long as we have the courage to keep reaching, to keep working, to keep fighting. -- Barack Hussein Obama

02-20-2013, 10:12 PM	#8960
zippyt LONG LIVE KING ZIPPY! per Feetz Join Date: Mar 2003 Location: Arkansas Posts: 7,661	Sorry for your loss Rich , but hey 94 is a Pretty good run __________________ "Success is getting what you want. Happiness is wanting what you get. " Brother Dave Gardner

02-20-2013, 11:09 PM	#8961
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	Sorry, Rich. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

02-21-2013, 02:13 AM	#8962
orthodoc Not Suspicious, Merely Canadian Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 3,774	Sorry for your loss, Rich. __________________ The greatness of a nation and its moral progress can be judged by the way its animals are treated. - Ghandi

02-20-2013, 09:46 PM	#8959
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Sorry Rich.

02-21-2013, 03:53 AM	#8963
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Rich, sorry for your loss, it's never easy at any age. I saw my 93 year old mother on Tuesday, and without a second thought, told her I'd see her in May. One of these days, plans will go asunder. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

02-21-2013, 05:24 AM	#8964
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	So sorry Rich. No matter how old the parent may be, losing them is still one of the most heart wrenching things that can possibly happen. I hope you have plenty of support people around. Xx __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

02-21-2013, 05:33 AM	#8965
Griff still says videotape Join Date: Feb 2001 Posts: 26,813	I'm sorry for your loss Rich. __________________ If you would only recognize that life is hard, things would be so much easier for you. - Louis D. Brandeis

02-21-2013, 06:13 AM	#8966
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Rich that must hurt. I'm so sorry. I know you were prepared, but my heart goes out to you. My love to you and your family. __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

02-21-2013, 06:24 AM	#8967
BigV Goon Squad Leader Join Date: Nov 2004 Location: Seattle Posts: 27,063	There is no such thing as complete preparation, only varying degrees of adequacy. Though it may not feel like enough, it can be enough. I hope... Ugh. I've lost my father, I recently lost my aunt. I want to be most helpful to you Rich. I'm just so sorry to hear such news. My heart goes out to you. __________________ Be Just and Fear Not.

02-21-2013, 06:53 AM	#8969
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	I'm so sorry Rich. I don't know what to say in these situations---they are so painful; even if he was 94. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family as you try to process this loss. the loss of a father, no matter how old or infirm, has got to be gut wrenching. __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

02-21-2013, 07:12 AM	#8970
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	Rich, I'm sorry.

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