The "bad" place - Page 3

lumberjim · 01-07-2007, 11:20 PM

I'll make you miss your mother

Aliantha · 01-07-2007, 11:28 PM

It's got nothing to do with smarts LJ. It's got to do with using terms which have cultural meaning. I could guess at what you're trying to say, but I'd rather know for sure.

There's no need to be insulting.

Aliantha · 01-07-2007, 11:29 PM

I already do miss my mother. She died several years ago.

Sundae · 01-08-2007, 05:51 AM

I reckon you'd make me drop my chips, LJ...... (Essex girl joke - I'll explain if you can't work it out)

I like the bad place. I really do. Not all the time, obviously, but as Ali says it can be highly erotic. It's something that comes up in my fantasies quite often in fact, especially if I've had a few drinks (perhaps it's a relaxation thing).

I've only ever been there with long term partners, so there hasn't been a problem with trust - they've always known that I control the situation at the beginning or it doesn't happen at all. So I dispute the fact that a man has to know what he's doing, as long as one of you does - ideally the person in control.

When I was a teenager, boys used to refer to it as getting your brown wings. The term I heard later was "ruined" i.e. a man would boast that he'd ruined a girl, specifically meaning he's been to her bad place. That had to be explained to me... very odd. The best term is being taken up the Claudia

lumberjim · 01-08-2007, 06:19 AM

brianna won't like that.

Sundae · 01-08-2007, 06:56 AM

Nah - doesn't match exactly....

Spexxvet · 01-08-2007, 07:49 AM

I've never gotten it in the bad place, so I can't comment on that part.

My wife enjoys it every once in a while, likes bad place foreplay alot, and I'll toss her salad for her (after a shower), though it's been a long time since I've gotten anything at all.

Sundae Girl is getting more and more attractive.... The smile, the voluptuous body, the topless (maybe naked) song video... I think I'm getting a chubby.

Oh, and LJ - are you sure you're tight enough to cause all those reactions?

:p

Flint · 01-08-2007, 08:22 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by lumberjim

shall i explain to you why my posts in this thread are funny?

Everything is funnier when you've been hit in the head by a post several thousand times.

Undertoad · 01-08-2007, 09:17 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

The best term is being taken up the Claudia

See Bri, it *would* be possible to be more embarrassed by your own name.

(edit: oh you guys already pointed that out.)

Sheldonrs · 01-08-2007, 09:33 AM

As a gay man I feel compelled to comment. :-)

There is no "Bad" place. Just people who enter it badly. lol!!!

I'm mostly a top but of the times when I bottomed, only a 2-3 times felt good. Usually it just feels like I'm crapping in reverse.

LabRat · 01-08-2007, 09:59 AM

Thank you, sheldonrs. I have never had anal sex, though hubby and I have done some experimenting (fingers, tongue). He wants to, but for some reason it just creeps me out. Dunno why, but I just can't get into it. I figure though, since this is the only thing I have said no to, he's really got nothing to complain about

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01-08-2007, 12:25 PM

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Originally Posted by yesman065

My g/f doesn't like the warming KY at all - any input from other ladies? just curious?

Bad place aside, it tastes terrible... we are getting rid of it.

Spexxvet · 01-08-2007, 12:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LabRat

... I figure though, since this is the only thing I have said no to,...

So you let him diaper you and sucked on a binky?

LabRat · 01-08-2007, 12:48 PM

He hasn't asked me to wear a diaper, and I think I sucked his binky on our third date...

Phil · 01-08-2007, 12:51 PM

if its consensual and enjoyable for both (or all) concerned, it isnt a bad place at all.
spit is a good lube. ;-)

01-07-2007, 11:20 PM	#31
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	I'll make you miss your mother __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

01-07-2007, 11:28 PM	#32
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	It's got nothing to do with smarts LJ. It's got to do with using terms which have cultural meaning. I could guess at what you're trying to say, but I'd rather know for sure. There's no need to be insulting. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

01-07-2007, 11:29 PM	#33
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	I already do miss my mother. She died several years ago. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

01-08-2007, 05:51 AM	#34
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	I reckon you'd make me drop my chips, LJ...... (Essex girl joke - I'll explain if you can't work it out) I like the bad place. I really do. Not all the time, obviously, but as Ali says it can be highly erotic. It's something that comes up in my fantasies quite often in fact, especially if I've had a few drinks (perhaps it's a relaxation thing). I've only ever been there with long term partners, so there hasn't been a problem with trust - they've always known that I control the situation at the beginning or it doesn't happen at all. So I dispute the fact that a man has to know what he's doing, as long as one of you does - ideally the person in control. When I was a teenager, boys used to refer to it as getting your brown wings. The term I heard later was "ruined" i.e. a man would boast that he'd ruined a girl, specifically meaning he's been to her bad place. That had to be explained to me... very odd. The best term is being taken up the Claudia __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

01-08-2007, 06:19 AM	#35
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	brianna won't like that. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

01-08-2007, 06:56 AM	#36
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Nah - doesn't match exactly.... __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

01-08-2007, 07:49 AM	#37
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	I've never gotten it in the bad place, so I can't comment on that part. My wife enjoys it every once in a while, likes bad place foreplay alot, and I'll toss her salad for her (after a shower), though it's been a long time since I've gotten anything at all. Sundae Girl is getting more and more attractive.... The smile, the voluptuous body, the topless (maybe naked) song video... I think I'm getting a chubby. Oh, and LJ - are you sure you're tight enough to cause all those reactions? :p __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

01-08-2007, 09:33 AM	#40
Sheldonrs Master Dwellar Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Los Angeles, CA Posts: 4,412	As a gay man I feel compelled to comment. :-) There is no "Bad" place. Just people who enter it badly. lol!!! I'm mostly a top but of the times when I bottomed, only a 2-3 times felt good. Usually it just feels like I'm crapping in reverse. __________________ Laugh and the world laughs with you; cry and the world laughs AT you.

01-08-2007, 09:59 AM	#41
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	Thank you, sheldonrs. I have never had anal sex, though hubby and I have done some experimenting (fingers, tongue). He wants to, but for some reason it just creeps me out. Dunno why, but I just can't get into it. I figure though, since this is the only thing I have said no to, he's really got nothing to complain about . __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

01-08-2007, 12:48 PM	#44
LabRat twatfaced two legged bumhole Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 3,143	He hasn't asked me to wear a diaper, and I think I sucked his binky on our third date... __________________ Strength does not come from how much weight you can lift, or how many miles you can run. It comes from knowing that you set a goal, and rose to the challenge. Strength comes from within.

01-08-2007, 12:51 PM	#45
Phil Hoodoo Guru Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 304	if its consensual and enjoyable for both (or all) concerned, it isnt a bad place at all. spit is a good lube. ;-) __________________ Atheist n A person to be pitied in that he is unable to believe things for which there is no evidence, and who has thus deprived himself of a convenient means of feeling superior to others.

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