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skysidhe · 11-24-2010, 08:12 PM

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Originally Posted by morethanpretty

nope sky, no matter how you try to pretty it up, accusing her of being the anon poster was an insult. she responded in kind, so and so on. very childish all around. trying to defend the use of any insult such as "dike" and then attacking dani when she called you out on it was extremely uncalled for. you need to learn to admit you're wrong and stfu. altho monnie used insults, they are not of the same disgusting caliber as "dike."

No, I will not stfu just because you say so little girl. I am not wrong. Monster is wrong for going on a rant. I am not going to just stand there and take her insults, which flow freely and often. I am tired seeing it. I know, I know, she is not the same disgusting caliber. Fuck that shit!

fo0hzy · 11-24-2010, 08:38 PM

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Originally Posted by skysidhe

No, I will not stfu just because you say so little girl. I am not wrong. Monster is wrong for going on a rant. I am not going to just stand there and take her insults, which flow freely and often. I am tired seeing it. I know, I know, she is not the same disgusting caliber. Fuck that shit!

Do it! Take a shit on the stage!!

skysidhe · 11-24-2010, 08:49 PM

more than pretty

Monster will never ever get my consideration or apologies because she never gives those to others. She is free with her insults and rantings so I don't feel bad. I know she is your guy's friend and you overlook her faults and attack who you think the enemy is. I get that

But what I really want to say is in the next paragraph, and I am not going to respond to anyone about this, anymore.

You though, I want to apologize to. You are young and that is a good thing. You are trying to do the right thing and I would feel bad if I damaged you in any way or made you feel bad. Not that I think you aren't made from stronger stuff but I really feel bad for yanking your chain by calling you a little girl. This isn't your problem ok?

Thank you. I think you are a sweetie. really , even if you told me to stfu. ( chuckle)

fo0hzy · 11-24-2010, 08:58 PM

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Originally Posted by skysidhe

( chuckle)

You're better than that. Just drop a deuce and leave us all (me) really happy.

Cloud · 11-24-2010, 09:20 PM

Worst of the Cellar Hall of Fame

monster · 11-24-2010, 09:50 PM

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Originally Posted by skysidhe

Monster is wrong for going on a rant.

fo0hzy · 11-24-2010, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by monster

monster · 11-24-2010, 09:58 PM

...btw deleting your "Monster, shut your trap" comment after I replied to it was worse than pathetic. I don't need an apology. Don't drag my name into places I don't want to be and you'll be fine. Step on me and regret it. If you get it.

footfootfoot · 11-24-2010, 10:27 PM

Monster prefers "shut your pie hole" to "shut your trap" read the FAQ.

(OT: The inch asked me this morning what a pie hole was)

Oh, and for what it's worth, my favorite Spice Girl was Dyke-a-licious Spice

monster · 11-24-2010, 10:29 PM

shut your pumpkin pie hole.

(is what I prefer)

The only hole suitable for a pumpkin pie is the waste disposer.

monster · 11-24-2010, 10:30 PM

uh-oh, we should be careful here, we're almost back on topic.

footfootfoot · 11-24-2010, 10:32 PM

Thread eddy! paddle like mad!

DanaC · 11-25-2010, 01:49 AM

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Originally Posted by skysidhe

All you want to do is expound the virtue of political correctness and call me a homophobe to prove your right.

Got fuck all to do with proving anybody right. Got fuck all to do with 'political correctness'. I found your use of the word dike as an insult, very offensive. Why? Because it's homophobic. It also has connotations of an accusation of gender non-conformity: suggesting that by being forthright and opinionated (loudmouthed and ranting) this is somehow 'masculine' and lacking in femininity.

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Don't be full of bullshit Dana. This isn't about you appeasing Monsters feelings;There is no way you think she is hurt over anything I have said. Not the way she is capable of talking.

Why don't you look at the big picture, if possible.

I have no idea whether or not Monster was offended. I have no idea if she is hurt over anything. I rather suspect she isn't.

I didn't jump in because I though she was hurt. Nor did I jump in to defend her per se. I did jump in because I thought YOU were out of line and being a bitch. In a thread I'd started. For no apparent reason. A homophobic bitch at that.

You launched an unprovoked attack on another poster, and then when she came back at you, you called her a loud-mouthed ranting dike.

Now, you can sit here and say you didn't mean it as 'lesbian'. But the sentiment doesn't scan with the rest of what you said.

I honestly couldn't give a flying fuck about what you and Monster think of each other. Nor, generally, do I give a fuck about whether you insult each other. This isn;t to do with 'defending' Monster. In fact it has nothing to do with Monster at all. It's about you.

I was surprised and a little disappointed that someone I once thought well of would stoop to such a low.

But hey: you go right on ahead and keep defending your right to be a bitch. Defend your right to be insulting and homophobic. Defend your right to use the kinds of insults that help to underscore and strengthen accepted gender norms and set the person insulted outside of those norms.

And just to go back to your accusation that I am just being 'politically correct'. I am political. I have strong political beliefs that underscore everything i do and everything I am. You see 'political correctness' as somehow a bad thing and a small thing. I see a political awareness of the impact of one's language and a personal sense of responsibility to not cause social harm through the use of language as a good and positive thing: because I am looking at the big picture. You, however, clearly are not seeing beyond your little scrap with Monster.

fo0hzy · 11-25-2010, 01:55 AM

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Originally Posted by DanaC

Got fuck all to do with proving anybody right. Got fuck all to do with 'political correctness'. I found your use of the word dike as an insult, very ofensive. Why? Because it's homophobic.
.

LOLOL

Homophobic?

Hey, I know a ton of gay jokes. I know & love gay peeps.

You're weird.

DanaC · 11-25-2010, 02:32 AM

And you are?

[eta] jokes are one thing. A cultural tendency to use homosexuality as the basis for deep insults is a different matter altogether. Had Sky jokingly called Monster a dike, we wouldn't be having this conversation.

11-24-2010, 09:20 PM	#35
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	Worst of the Cellar Hall of Fame __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

11-24-2010, 09:58 PM	#38
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	...btw deleting your "Monster, shut your trap" comment after I replied to it was worse than pathetic. I don't need an apology. Don't drag my name into places I don't want to be and you'll be fine. Step on me and regret it. If you get it. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

11-24-2010, 10:27 PM	#39
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Monster prefers "shut your pie hole" to "shut your trap" read the FAQ. (OT: The inch asked me this morning what a pie hole was) Oh, and for what it's worth, my favorite Spice Girl was Dyke-a-licious Spice __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

11-24-2010, 10:29 PM	#40
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	shut your pumpkin pie hole. (is what I prefer) The only hole suitable for a pumpkin pie is the waste disposer. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

11-24-2010, 10:30 PM	#41
monster I hear them call the tide Join Date: Dec 2005 Location: Perpetual Chaos Posts: 30,852	uh-oh, we should be careful here, we're almost back on topic. __________________ The most difficult thing is the decision to act, the rest is merely tenacity Amelia Earhart

11-24-2010, 08:49 PM	#33
skysidhe ~~Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.~~ Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 6,828	more than pretty Monster will never ever get my consideration or apologies because she never gives those to others. She is free with her insults and rantings so I don't feel bad. I know she is your guy's friend and you overlook her faults and attack who you think the enemy is. I get that But what I really want to say is in the next paragraph, and I am not going to respond to anyone about this, anymore. You though, I want to apologize to. You are young and that is a good thing. You are trying to do the right thing and I would feel bad if I damaged you in any way or made you feel bad. Not that I think you aren't made from stronger stuff but I really feel bad for yanking your chain by calling you a little girl. This isn't your problem ok? Thank you. I think you are a sweetie. really , even if you told me to stfu. ( chuckle)

11-24-2010, 10:32 PM	#42
footfootfoot To shreds, you say? Join Date: Aug 2004 Location: in the house and on the street-how many, many feet we meet! Posts: 18,449	Thread eddy! paddle like mad! __________________ The internet is a hateful stew of vomit you can never take completely seriously. - Her Fobs

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