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binky · 03-24-2008, 05:34 PM

My 27 yr old daughter just called me after seeing that her live in boyfriend has been checking out women on Craigslist. He says he was just bored, and "you don't trust me anyway" YA THINK???!!! She doesn't think he has called any of these girls yet, but doesn't trust him. What is your take on this?

Cloud · 03-24-2008, 05:37 PM

I think it's NOT okay to look. If he's bored, he should make dinner or paint the living room.

binky · 03-24-2008, 05:40 PM

I hate the guy anyway. She works foodservice and dishes at a hospital, worked two 11 hr days in a row, and came home the second day to the kitchen being a wreck. He had been off work that day, and the day before, and yet she had to run 3 dishwasher loads before she could even find the sink

lumberjim · 03-24-2008, 05:44 PM

here's a shocker for you.....he probably imagines other women when he wanks it, too, the filthy pig. I'd shoot him.

binky · 03-24-2008, 05:44 PM

I agree Cloud. He looks at porn, which I personally don't care about (my husband does too) but this is a whole different thing.

binky · 03-24-2008, 05:45 PM

don't think that hasn't crossed my mind LJ

SteveDallas · 03-24-2008, 05:52 PM

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Originally Posted by Cloud

I think it's NOT okay to look.

Not OK to look?? Yikes! You'd have to pluck my eyes out!!

I do not believe that the mere reading of personal ads is in and of itself an indication of guilt or innocence. But if there are other problems/issues with the relationship the Craigslist incident can become a focal point for frustrations that really have their roots elsewhere.

kerosene · 03-24-2008, 06:02 PM

Has she ruled out the possibility that perhaps he is just entertaining himself? I mean, yeah, he sounds like a lazy dude, but my husband and I can spend a whole evening laughing at craigslist ads. I don't know how anyone could take them seriously.

Aliantha · 03-24-2008, 06:02 PM

I agree with SD on this one. I also don't have a problem with porn, so looking at a few racy adds on an internet site wouldn't mean too much to me unless there were other problems.

I think I'd be pretty pissed off if Dazza had been watching porn all day instead of doing a tidy up around the place while I went to work. If I was coming home to a hot meal and a clean house though I'd probably ask him to show me what he'd found.

binky · 03-24-2008, 06:10 PM

I really don't mind the porn, but when he is looking at ads from women who are 10 or 20 miles away from where they live and "soooo horny" that just seems to be a different thing

SteveDallas · 03-24-2008, 06:24 PM

Maybe I'm either too innocent, or too jaded, or both, but when I see a listing from a young lady who is so horny she's just dying to hook up with the first guy who replies to her personal ad, I assume it's bogus.

binky · 03-24-2008, 06:26 PM

Hmmmm maybe he'll call and a 300 lb bearded guy will show up

lumberjim · 03-24-2008, 06:38 PM

how did this topic come up?

binky · 03-24-2008, 07:29 PM

That would be my first post

lumberjim · 03-24-2008, 07:44 PM

no....i mean how did your daughter bring this up? did she come to you in tears over it, or did it just come up as an oh by the by?

03-24-2008, 05:34 PM	#1
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	Craiglist My 27 yr old daughter just called me after seeing that her live in boyfriend has been checking out women on Craigslist. He says he was just bored, and "you don't trust me anyway" YA THINK???!!! She doesn't think he has called any of these girls yet, but doesn't trust him. What is your take on this? __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 05:37 PM	#2
Cloud ... Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 8,360	I think it's NOT okay to look. If he's bored, he should make dinner or paint the living room. __________________ "Guard your honor. Let your reputation fall where it will. And outlive the bastards!"

03-24-2008, 05:40 PM	#3
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	I hate the guy anyway. She works foodservice and dishes at a hospital, worked two 11 hr days in a row, and came home the second day to the kitchen being a wreck. He had been off work that day, and the day before, and yet she had to run 3 dishwasher loads before she could even find the sink __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 05:44 PM	#4
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	here's a shocker for you.....he probably imagines other women when he wanks it, too, the filthy pig. I'd shoot him. __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

03-24-2008, 05:44 PM	#5
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	I agree Cloud. He looks at porn, which I personally don't care about (my husband does too) but this is a whole different thing. __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 05:45 PM	#6
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	don't think that hasn't crossed my mind LJ __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 06:02 PM	#8
kerosene Touring the facilities Join Date: Nov 2002 Location: The plains of Colorado Posts: 3,476	Has she ruled out the possibility that perhaps he is just entertaining himself? I mean, yeah, he sounds like a lazy dude, but my husband and I can spend a whole evening laughing at craigslist ads. I don't know how anyone could take them seriously.

03-24-2008, 06:02 PM	#9
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	I agree with SD on this one. I also don't have a problem with porn, so looking at a few racy adds on an internet site wouldn't mean too much to me unless there were other problems. I think I'd be pretty pissed off if Dazza had been watching porn all day instead of doing a tidy up around the place while I went to work. If I was coming home to a hot meal and a clean house though I'd probably ask him to show me what he'd found. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

03-24-2008, 06:10 PM	#10
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	I really don't mind the porn, but when he is looking at ads from women who are 10 or 20 miles away from where they live and "soooo horny" that just seems to be a different thing __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 06:24 PM	#11
SteveDallas Your Bartender Join Date: Jan 2002 Location: Philly Burbs, PA Posts: 7,651	Maybe I'm either too innocent, or too jaded, or both, but when I see a listing from a young lady who is so horny she's just dying to hook up with the first guy who replies to her personal ad, I assume it's bogus.

03-24-2008, 06:26 PM	#12
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	Hmmmm maybe he'll call and a 300 lb bearded guy will show up __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 06:38 PM	#13
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	how did this topic come up? __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

03-24-2008, 07:29 PM	#14
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	That would be my first post __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

03-24-2008, 07:44 PM	#15
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	no....i mean how did your daughter bring this up? did she come to you in tears over it, or did it just come up as an oh by the by? __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

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