tumor or abcessed tooth? - Page 2

binky · 08-25-2008, 08:04 PM

Thanks Bri, cause I feel guilty as hell for not trying to scrape up the $550

Trilby · 08-25-2008, 08:18 PM

Nooooo! Please don't feel badly. You've done what is possible for the kitty. Food, gas, EVERYTHING is outrageously expensive in this country and we can only do what we can do. A vet once told me my cat's broken leg needed internal fixation (a plate in his leg) for around 500.00 and I said, "I cannot afford that..." and he said, well, let's try just a cast on it, which I could afford and so we did. Cat has done fine and that was years ago. Not even a limp!

Aliantha · 08-25-2008, 08:37 PM

I agree with Brianna. I think you did the right and loving thing Binky. Remember, kitty might not even wake up from the anesthetic so don't beat yourself up. Besides, I'll bet the wound heals over nicely in a few days and everything will be sweet.

binky · 08-25-2008, 11:25 PM

Thanks, you two. I am feeling better now, just really depressed when we came home. I think you're right, and he will be okay.

Sundae · 08-26-2008, 05:26 AM

Binky I'll add my voice to those saying you did the right thing.

At 19 your cat would have been at risk from the surgery as well as confused and in pain. He doesn't know that money was a consideration. He just knows that you brought him home from the place that smelled so scary.

I hope it all works out.

sweetwater · 08-26-2008, 05:37 AM

Ditto on the concerns over anesthetic, treatments options, and financial considerations. Spend you time and money on supporting him as he heals and keep him well loved and happy. That will do more for his health than extensive surgery.

DanaC · 08-26-2008, 06:04 AM

I had a similar issue a few months ago with Pilau. Though the vet said it was most likely just a cyst, there was the option of a biopsy......which would have been very expensive. Because the vet said it was more than likely not something sinister, I decided not to go for biopsy and see how he got on with anti-biotics. Very glad I made that decision.

It is not always sensible to just think 'money's no object'. I know if I was faced with a definate spend for Pilau, then I'd cough it up somehow. But a spend that may or may not be necessary and could possibly finish him off? Tough decision.

I think you made the right one binky. Quite aside from the cost, you don't want to be putting an elderly and frail cat under anaesthetic. The fact that cost was a consideration shouldn't make you feel guilty. This is the reality of living with animals. Sometimes you do have to make decisions based partly on the cost with pets. There are times when spending that money would simply not be sensible. I am sure had this occurred when your cat was younger, say 7 or 8, you mayhave reached a different conclusion. Though, even then.....I would always advise trying the antibiotic route first, before spending on a bunch of tests and risking the animal to the dangers of surgery.

xoxoxoBruce · 08-26-2008, 07:12 AM

I agree, you done good, binky.

FStop · 08-26-2008, 07:54 AM

19 years old?!? Good for him!

I thought my Maine Coon, Bob, was the oldest around being 17, but that's just awesome. Glad he's doing okay.

binky · 08-26-2008, 10:49 AM

Thank you so much all. He is doing much better today, and so am I. Maine Coon cats are really cool, Fstop, and 17 is pretty old, but cats can live to 20 or more these days.

binky · 08-26-2008, 10:52 AM

Oh Dana, I'm really glad Pilau is doing well, he seems like a real sweetie.

08-25-2008, 08:04 PM	#16
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	Thanks Bri, cause I feel guilty as hell for not trying to scrape up the $550 __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

08-25-2008, 08:18 PM	#17
Trilby Slattern of the Swail Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 15,654	Nooooo! Please don't feel badly. You've done what is possible for the kitty. Food, gas, EVERYTHING is outrageously expensive in this country and we can only do what we can do. A vet once told me my cat's broken leg needed internal fixation (a plate in his leg) for around 500.00 and I said, "I cannot afford that..." and he said, well, let's try just a cast on it, which I could afford and so we did. Cat has done fine and that was years ago. Not even a limp! __________________ In Barrie's play and novel, the roles of fairies are brief: they are allies to the Lost Boys, the source of fairy dust and ...They are portrayed as dangerous, whimsical and extremely clever but quite hedonistic. "Shall I give you a kiss?" Peter asked and, jerking an acorn button off his coat, solemnly presented it to her. —James Barrie Wimminfolk they be tricksy. - ZenGum

08-25-2008, 08:37 PM	#18
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	I agree with Brianna. I think you did the right and loving thing Binky. Remember, kitty might not even wake up from the anesthetic so don't beat yourself up. Besides, I'll bet the wound heals over nicely in a few days and everything will be sweet. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

08-25-2008, 11:25 PM	#19
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	Thanks, you two. I am feeling better now, just really depressed when we came home. I think you're right, and he will be okay. __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

08-26-2008, 05:37 AM	#21
sweetwater lives inside a Mobius strip Join Date: Dec 2007 Posts: 1,120	Ditto on the concerns over anesthetic, treatments options, and financial considerations. Spend you time and money on supporting him as he heals and keep him well loved and happy. That will do more for his health than extensive surgery. __________________ I knew I shoulda taken that left turn at Albuquerque! - Bugs Bunny

08-26-2008, 05:26 AM	#20
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Binky I'll add my voice to those saying you did the right thing. At 19 your cat would have been at risk from the surgery as well as confused and in pain. He doesn't know that money was a consideration. He just knows that you brought him home from the place that smelled so scary. I hope it all works out.

08-26-2008, 06:04 AM	#22
DanaC We have to go back, Kate! Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Yorkshire Posts: 25,964	I had a similar issue a few months ago with Pilau. Though the vet said it was most likely just a cyst, there was the option of a biopsy......which would have been very expensive. Because the vet said it was more than likely not something sinister, I decided not to go for biopsy and see how he got on with anti-biotics. Very glad I made that decision. It is not always sensible to just think 'money's no object'. I know if I was faced with a definate spend for Pilau, then I'd cough it up somehow. But a spend that may or may not be necessary and could possibly finish him off? Tough decision. I think you made the right one binky. Quite aside from the cost, you don't want to be putting an elderly and frail cat under anaesthetic. The fact that cost was a consideration shouldn't make you feel guilty. This is the reality of living with animals. Sometimes you do have to make decisions based partly on the cost with pets. There are times when spending that money would simply not be sensible. I am sure had this occurred when your cat was younger, say 7 or 8, you mayhave reached a different conclusion. Though, even then.....I would always advise trying the antibiotic route first, before spending on a bunch of tests and risking the animal to the dangers of surgery.

08-26-2008, 07:12 AM	#23
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I agree, you done good, binky. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

08-26-2008, 07:54 AM	#24
FStop Stretching the Veil Join Date: Aug 2008 Location: Pittsburgh, PA Posts: 154	19 years old?!? Good for him! I thought my Maine Coon, Bob, was the oldest around being 17, but that's just awesome. Glad he's doing okay. __________________

08-26-2008, 10:49 AM	#25
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	Thank you so much all. He is doing much better today, and so am I. Maine Coon cats are really cool, Fstop, and 17 is pretty old, but cats can live to 20 or more these days. __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

08-26-2008, 10:52 AM	#26
binky all hollowed out Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Ridgecrest, CA Posts: 982	Oh Dana, I'm really glad Pilau is doing well, he seems like a real sweetie. __________________ The meanest Mom EVER!!!!

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