Is it ever *ok* to cheat?

axeman84 · 01-15-2007, 03:48 PM

simply put, it is NEVER ok to cheat. i have been the cheater and the cheatee, and both times the results were never as anticipated. One of two things happen, you either split, or the experience makes you/your partners relationship stronger, thankfully in my case, the latter applies.

Spexxvet · 01-15-2007, 04:14 PM

Let me make sure this is clear. You think it is better to give up a loving, caring relationship, stable home environment, two-parent household, and break apart a family, rather than cheat?

Do you think the wife should just give it up, once in a while?

Hoof Hearted · 01-15-2007, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Let me make sure this is clear. You think it is better to give up a loving, caring relationship, stable home environment, two-parent household, and break apart a family, rather than cheat?

If that person is considering cheating, then I have to argue that the relationship is NOT loving, caring or stable and a breakup seems immenent because of those factors.

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Do you think the wife should just give it up, once in a while?

Cheater can be either wife or husband. Lets not lump the "cause" all on the poor wifey, now...

xoxoxoBruce · 01-15-2007, 10:28 PM

I don't think he meant the wife was cheating when he asked if you thought she should, "give it up once in a while".

I suspect he was referring to wives that lose interest in sex 10, 20, 30 years before their husbands, driving them out of the house to seek release.

01-16-2007, 03:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Spexxvet

Let me make sure this is clear. You think it is better to give up a loving, caring relationship, stable home environment, two-parent household, and break apart a family, rather than cheat?

Do you think the wife should just give it up, once in a while?

If a partner is no longer attracted to another and withholding sex, to me, that is grounds for divorce.
That is not "giving it up", she/or he does not want to be with you and you are doing them a favor.

01-15-2007, 04:14 PM	#2
Spexxvet Makes some feel uncomfortable Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 10,346	Let me make sure this is clear. You think it is better to give up a loving, caring relationship, stable home environment, two-parent household, and break apart a family, rather than cheat? Do you think the wife should just give it up, once in a while? __________________ "I'm certainly free, nay compelled, to spread the gospel of Spex. " - xoxoxoBruce

01-15-2007, 10:28 PM	#4
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	I don't think he meant the wife was cheating when he asked if you thought she should, "give it up once in a while". I suspect he was referring to wives that lose interest in sex 10, 20, 30 years before their husbands, driving them out of the house to seek release. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

01-15-2007, 03:48 PM	#1
axeman84 Dry Nurse Join Date: Jan 2007 Location: uranus Posts: 23	simply put, it is NEVER ok to cheat. i have been the cheater and the cheatee, and both times the results were never as anticipated. One of two things happen, you either split, or the experience makes you/your partners relationship stronger, thankfully in my case, the latter applies.

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