Attention Cellar - Page 4

Alluvial · 05-10-2009, 01:34 PM

One good thing to come from a crisis situation is often the energy needed for change. My wish for the two of you is that you both come out of this stronger and wiser for having gone through it, whether that is together or separately.

Peace and good luck.

Undertoad · 05-10-2009, 02:28 PM

Sorry again Red, my confusion.

Whenever I decide to be a dick about something it never works out. I need to take being a dick lessons from LJ or something.

Beestie · 05-10-2009, 02:47 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

I need to take being a dick lessons from LJ or something.

There's worse things than sucking at being a dick.

Sheldoners in 3... 2...

xoxoxoBruce · 05-10-2009, 02:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Undertoad

Sorry again Red, my confusion.

Whenever I decide to be a dick about something it never works out. I need to take being a dick lessons from LJ or something.

We all need to read for comprehension.

Aliantha · 05-10-2009, 04:42 PM

Good luck to all of you concerned in this mess. I hope somehow you're all able to work through the problem and come out the other side better off.

My thoughts are with you.

DucksNuts · 05-11-2009, 05:21 AM

What Ali said, I got a kick out of having you both around.

Thinking of you both.

Pico and ME · 05-11-2009, 08:12 AM

Good luck to both you and your husband Lab. Im sorry this happened to you but you are an incredible person and will be able to work this out. Looks to me like Red is fighting for you.

jinx · 05-11-2009, 09:40 AM

Any chance Red will be banned soon.... or is fucking with people's real lives ok now?

Big Red · 05-11-2009, 09:56 AM

Any chance Red will be banned soon.... or is fucking with people's real lives ok now?
__________________
and my life isnt real a

lookout123 · 05-11-2009, 09:57 AM

Well, this thread was quite a shock.

Red, I don't know what is happening on your end of things so I can't speak to that. I offer you my public apology for my role in your pain. I also offer to speak with you in private about this. If you want to scream and yell and call me every name in the book, that's fine. If you want to hear what did and did not happen, that's fine too.

To the rest of the cellar, I apologize for the tension which has obviously swept in over this. As with all things in the cellar, this too shall pass. I see no value in banning Red from the cellar although I certainly hope the mods would see fit to remove personal identifying info if it continues to be posted.

Sundae · 05-11-2009, 10:16 AM

Can we unban Big Red and just delete posts as appropriate?

Undertoad · 05-11-2009, 10:23 AM

Nope

lookout123 · 05-11-2009, 11:08 AM

I spoke with Red this morning. He was an absolute gentleman on the phone.

DanaC · 05-11-2009, 11:14 AM

I'm glad about that, Lookout.

Undertoad · 05-11-2009, 11:21 AM

If the other gentleman involved feels Red is not threatening, I will unban. Otherwise, it's not appropriate here.

05-10-2009, 01:34 PM	#46
Alluvial Phenomenologist Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Central Mississippi Posts: 270	One good thing to come from a crisis situation is often the energy needed for change. My wish for the two of you is that you both come out of this stronger and wiser for having gone through it, whether that is together or separately. Peace and good luck. __________________ “My grandfather always said that living is like licking honey off a thorn.” - Louis Adamic

05-10-2009, 04:42 PM	#50
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Good luck to all of you concerned in this mess. I hope somehow you're all able to work through the problem and come out the other side better off. My thoughts are with you. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

05-11-2009, 09:40 AM	#53
jinx Come on, cat. Join Date: Nov 2003 Location: general vicinity of Philadelphia area Posts: 7,013	Any chance Red will be banned soon.... or is fucking with people's real lives ok now? __________________ Crying won't help you, praying won't do you no good.

05-11-2009, 09:57 AM	#55
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	Well, this thread was quite a shock. Red, I don't know what is happening on your end of things so I can't speak to that. I offer you my public apology for my role in your pain. I also offer to speak with you in private about this. If you want to scream and yell and call me every name in the book, that's fine. If you want to hear what did and did not happen, that's fine too. To the rest of the cellar, I apologize for the tension which has obviously swept in over this. As with all things in the cellar, this too shall pass. I see no value in banning Red from the cellar although I certainly hope the mods would see fit to remove personal identifying info if it continues to be posted. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

05-11-2009, 10:16 AM	#56
Sundae polaroid of perfection Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: West Yorkshire Posts: 24,185	Can we unban Big Red and just delete posts as appropriate? __________________ Life's hard you know, so strike a pose on a Cadillac

05-10-2009, 02:28 PM	#47
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Sorry again Red, my confusion. Whenever I decide to be a dick about something it never works out. I need to take being a dick lessons from LJ or something.

05-11-2009, 05:21 AM	#51
DucksNuts Bitchy Little Brat Join Date: Sep 2005 Location: Queensland, Australia Posts: 5,067	What Ali said, I got a kick out of having you both around. Thinking of you both.

05-11-2009, 08:12 AM	#52
Pico and ME Are you knock-kneed? Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Middle Hoosierland Posts: 3,549	Good luck to both you and your husband Lab. Im sorry this happened to you but you are an incredible person and will be able to work this out. Looks to me like Red is fighting for you.

05-11-2009, 09:56 AM	#54
Big Red Fresh Incumbent Join Date: Nov 2007 Location: Iowa Posts: 28	Any chance Red will be banned soon.... or is fucking with people's real lives ok now? __________________ and my life isnt real a

05-11-2009, 10:23 AM	#57
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	Nope

05-11-2009, 11:08 AM	#58
lookout123 changed his status to single Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: Right behind you. No, the other side. Posts: 10,308	I spoke with Red this morning. He was an absolute gentleman on the phone. __________________ Getting knocked down is no sin, it's not getting back up that's the sin

05-11-2009, 11:21 AM	#60
Undertoad Radical Centrist Join Date: Jan 2001 Location: Cottage of Prussia Posts: 31,423	If the other gentleman involved feels Red is not threatening, I will unban. Otherwise, it's not appropriate here.

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