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View Poll Results: waht do you do when confronted by a beggar?
Ignore them. Never give to them. fuck em. get a job 7 14.58%
I give pocket change if I'm feeling weak, and regret it. 3 6.25%
It depends on the beggar, mainly 17 35.42%
I follow my whims 16 33.33%
I try to give enough to make them smile 3 6.25%
I give non cash items like food, clothing or beer 8 16.67%
I dig deep 0 0%
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:43 PM   #121
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I once gave a Sunday paper to a bum in Philly, told him to read it to refresh himself on the world and then turn to the Help Wanted section and get a job..
Perhaps he couldn't read? Was severly dyslexic or had cataracts?
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:44 PM   #122
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I know them. I know their stories. Not a noble mother of four struggling to find her children a better life among them.
I'm not sure that the ones you encounter in your line of work are a true sampling.

Many of the 'mothers of four' can usually find something other than street begging. There are still a lot of organizations, Govmt and NGO, who can help the determined. Still, shelters are full, low-income housing is getting scarcer, and an already overstretched system just took a big hit.

It would be interesting if someone would buy up all of the foreclosed homes and turn them into multi-family shelters. I'm not sure how the suburban communities would feel, but it would probably be better than an abandoned firetrap.

IMO, kids should never be homeless. In some cases it might be the parents fault. In other cases, everyone is one job loss or serious under/uninsured injury away from losing everything. It is possible to do everything right and still end up homeless.
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:44 PM   #123
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Perhaps he couldn't read? Was severly dyslexic or had cataracts?
Or drunk. Don't forget drunk.
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Old 11-23-2008, 12:45 PM   #124
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I can read when I'm drunk. It's the typing thing I have difficulty with....
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Old 11-23-2008, 03:46 PM   #125
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According to studies done on homeless people in Australia, a large percentage of them suffer from mental illnesses including anything from severe schizophrenia to mild depression, and of course anyone who's ever suffered even mildly from depression knows how hard it can be to drag yourself out of the black hole you're in even if you have a support network around you.

How hard would it be if you had no one to help you?
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Old 11-23-2008, 05:33 PM   #126
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Perhaps he couldn't read? Was severly dyslexic or had cataracts?
Doubt it. Eyes worked fine, and though I don't know if he could read, it's a good bet. And he wasn't drunk or in need of one, either. He had a nervous tic of rubbing his left forearm with his right hand and he gave the impression of needing a fix more. I felt a lot of anxiety from him, and some anger (before me). Probably a mental patient released from one of several institutions when they were closed in the Philadelphia area. Off meds, likely. Or a junkie not too far gone for me to spot easily.

Either way, not worthy of my money.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:06 PM   #127
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Probably a mental patient released from one of several institutions when they were closed in the Philadelphia area. Off meds, likely. Or a junkie not too far gone for me to spot easily.

Either way, not worthy of my money.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:08 PM   #128
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Actually, speaking of mental patients. Dazza is in Canada atm. He was in Vancouver first, and the thing that struck him the most was the number of homeless people. Now he's in Calgary and he said there's no where near the number of homeless people. He suggested that's because there's better mental health facilities there. I suggest that it's too fucking cold to have no home in Calgary.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:12 PM   #129
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lol!!! Yea. I hope they closed down the good personality he had, while they were at it!! Asshole handicap.

You should have pinched him Brian, and let him know that it isn't merely just a nightmare, he's having.

*I never roll my eyes but this is the exception*

For the record, I said "Brian" in my head, all shitty just now.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:18 PM   #130
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Now he's in Calgary and he said there's no where near the number of homeless people. He suggested that's because there's better mental health facilities there. I suggest that it's too fucking cold to have no home in Calgary.
Calgary is a boom town. People there tell me there is no unemployment for anyone willing to work. They have a chronic shortage of help, though that may change in the future.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:19 PM   #131
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Hmmm...maybe that's why they're thinking of starting up a new department in Dazza's company there.
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Old 11-23-2008, 06:31 PM   #132
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its all about crack cocaine here, so no, i never give.
anyone who gives a crackhead money is an idiot.
a heroin addict is a different story, i would consider giving, although you don't see them on the streets i pass.
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Old 11-23-2008, 08:42 PM   #133
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Crack, smack ... what's the difference? I mean in terms of giving them money.
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Old 11-23-2008, 09:56 PM   #134
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Crack, smack ... what's the difference? I mean in terms of giving them money.
hell would be the difference.
with heroin, there's not much of a choice but to use.
its not something that you can cut cold turkey.
goverments around the world have responsibly taken that into consideration and provide alternatives for heroin addicts.
free-basing cocaine is not quite the same thing.
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Old 11-23-2008, 10:26 PM   #135
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Okay, then. I've never done either, but I thought crack was also highly addictive.
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