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Old 08-24-2009, 12:27 PM   #1
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Well, you can either let her hang you by your jewels for the rest of your time at that company which may be painful and short, or you can take those emails to HR. CYA. That is, of course, if you really truly didn't behave inappropriately enough to get your own ass slammed.
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:30 PM   #2
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save those e-mails.
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:42 PM   #3
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Well I let her know that i have kept the email she sent me and i did not respond to it. I spoke to her face to face about it today. And i let her know that i will be keeping it as a just in case. And now shes saying that she only wrote that to make sure i would never tell anyone. So i let her know that i would not tell a soul......well except for you guys....oops. And shes now asking me to delete it in case someone finds it. Which they wont and i will be keeping it. Nope i did not do anything to get my own ass slammed.
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:44 PM   #4
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blackmail? nice.
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:45 PM   #5
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Email has been saved!
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:49 PM   #6
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Ok i just saved the other email where she is threating me as well.....And just got another email saying that as long as no one ever finds out it will be business as usual and that it will be a proffesional realtionship like it was before....? Like it was before???? WTF! There was never a relationship at all what the hell is wrong with this lady.
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:53 PM   #7
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I work in a huge building with over 600 people and the majority are women. And I have been getting all kinds of offers to go bump uglies.
How did the all other ladies proposition you, thru emails as well, or verbally?
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:53 PM   #8
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foward the to another email so that they don't mysteriously "disappear" from your work email - just sayin.
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:55 PM   #9
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Some women feeling the scorn of rejection will throw an emotional tantrum. Doubly so if it was unexpected. You were supposed to tell her

"You're a beautiful, awesome lady and I would love to take you out and do all sorts of nasty things with you. But I really love my wife, and I wouldn't hurt her for all the world. So thanks, and I am totally flattered that someone like you would pay attention to me, but I... I just can't. I hope you understand."
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Old 08-24-2009, 12:59 PM   #10
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I would get asked in the halllways or when i was outside smoking.
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Old 08-24-2009, 01:00 PM   #11
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Ok so i just opened a bs yahoo account and forwarded the email to that account as just in case thanks classic.
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Old 08-24-2009, 01:01 PM   #12
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What he isn't telling us is that he actually works in a women's psychiatric hospital
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Old 08-24-2009, 01:02 PM   #13
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You walk down the hallways at work and women ask you to sleep with them?
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Old 08-24-2009, 01:02 PM   #14
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Snort!
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Old 08-24-2009, 01:05 PM   #15
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... I'm sure you understand.
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