how can you be Bi? - Page 5

SquidGirl · 11-05-2008, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by morethanpretty

.... just because we like both sexes doesn't mean we fuck everything with two legs. I am very very picky about who I sleep with.....Mine isn't a very broad spectrum, just one of my main needs in a partner isn't gender.

I once heard from someone that they didn't fall in love with the gender, they fell in love with the person. The gender just happened to be one or the other at the moment.

Treasenuak · 11-05-2008, 12:47 PM

That's very true, SquidGirl. Gender doesn't really matter to me... I fall in love with the person, the extra parts are just there. Yeah, it makes the sex a lil different, but those parts are not who the person is.

Iggy · 11-07-2008, 11:47 PM

I was raised in the bible belt (and still live there)... so pretty much anything other then completely straight was considered bi. When I was young I used to get embarrassed because of how I would look at other women... and get turned on my thinking about being with them.

I enjoy having sex with other women, though I haven't had many women partners. I have noticed that a lot of women that were "bi" just wanted to kiss me in front of men (since men are so turned on by women kissing), and when I wanted to go somewhere private to get really intimate, it never happened. Except for a few of my girl friends, who weren't necessarily open about. We did all our kissing behind closed doors...

Around here, it seems like the more open women are about it, the less likely it is that they are really bi. Few of the people I know now know that I am bi, or at least consider myself such. The funny part is, the only reason they don't know is because no one asks. But I think some people have suspicions... especially the ones that catch me oogling another woman. The female form is just so beautiful.

I don't think I could be in a long term, exclusive relationship with a woman though. It feels more like friendship, with extras. My really close girl friends are always the ones I want to sleep with. It feels like an extension of our friendship... a physical act to show I love them, in addition to it being sexually satisfying. It is just different than being with a man. I love threesomes... I think it would be much more satisfying for me to have a long term relationship with a man and a woman than just a woman. I'm not sure how to explain it... But when I'm just with a woman, it just doesn't seem as fulfilling as when I'm with a man. Maybe that means I'm not really bi? I feel like I am though. I get too much joy out of the female body (looking and playing with it) to see myself as straight.

Pico and ME · 11-08-2008, 01:56 AM

I have a lot of admiration for the female form as well, but I'm not bi. I will catch myself appreciating female beauty a lot of times, probably even more that I do in males, but I have never considered having sexual relations with women. I probably would or could, it the opportunity presented itself, but I still don't consider myself bi. I don't seek it out.

lumberjim · 11-08-2008, 08:55 AM

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Originally Posted by Iggy

I I think it would be much more satisfying for me to have a long term relationship with a man and a woman than just a woman.

HMMM....do you do windows?

kidding, jinxie!

richlevy · 11-09-2008, 06:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Iggy

I have noticed that a lot of women that were "bi" just wanted to kiss me in front of men (since men are so turned on by women kissing).

I am shocked, shocked, at such a slanderous allegation. You can go back to kissing, now.

11-07-2008, 11:47 PM	#63
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	I was raised in the bible belt (and still live there)... so pretty much anything other then completely straight was considered bi. When I was young I used to get embarrassed because of how I would look at other women... and get turned on my thinking about being with them. I enjoy having sex with other women, though I haven't had many women partners. I have noticed that a lot of women that were "bi" just wanted to kiss me in front of men (since men are so turned on by women kissing), and when I wanted to go somewhere private to get really intimate, it never happened. Except for a few of my girl friends, who weren't necessarily open about. We did all our kissing behind closed doors... Around here, it seems like the more open women are about it, the less likely it is that they are really bi. Few of the people I know now know that I am bi, or at least consider myself such. The funny part is, the only reason they don't know is because no one asks. But I think some people have suspicions... especially the ones that catch me oogling another woman. The female form is just so beautiful. I don't think I could be in a long term, exclusive relationship with a woman though. It feels more like friendship, with extras. My really close girl friends are always the ones I want to sleep with. It feels like an extension of our friendship... a physical act to show I love them, in addition to it being sexually satisfying. It is just different than being with a man. I love threesomes... I think it would be much more satisfying for me to have a long term relationship with a man and a woman than just a woman. I'm not sure how to explain it... But when I'm just with a woman, it just doesn't seem as fulfilling as when I'm with a man. Maybe that means I'm not really bi? I feel like I am though. I get too much joy out of the female body (looking and playing with it) to see myself as straight. __________________ Chock-full of naughty goodness.

11-05-2008, 12:47 PM	#62
Treasenuak Multiorgasmic and wrapped in plastic Join Date: Sep 2008 Location: Central Tennessee Posts: 483	That's very true, SquidGirl. Gender doesn't really matter to me... I fall in love with the person, the extra parts are just there. Yeah, it makes the sex a lil different, but those parts are not who the person is.

11-08-2008, 01:56 AM	#64
Pico and ME Are you knock-kneed? Join Date: Jul 2008 Location: Middle Hoosierland Posts: 3,549	I have a lot of admiration for the female form as well, but I'm not bi. I will catch myself appreciating female beauty a lot of times, probably even more that I do in males, but I have never considered having sexual relations with women. I probably would or could, it the opportunity presented itself, but I still don't consider myself bi. I don't seek it out.

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