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Relationships People who need people; or, why can't we all just get along? |
View Poll Results: How long have you been with your Significant Other? | |||
Single all the way, baby | 3 | 4.84% | |
Single at the moment | 6 | 9.68% | |
Less than 3 months | 0 | 0% | |
3-6 months | 0 | 0% | |
6 monthe - 1 year | 1 | 1.61% | |
1-3 years | 7 | 11.29% | |
3-5 years | 4 | 6.45% | |
5-10 years | 11 | 17.74% | |
10-20 years | 21 | 33.87% | |
20-30 years | 7 | 11.29% | |
>30 years | 2 | 3.23% | |
Voters: 62. You may not vote on this poll |
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04-14-2009, 01:17 AM | #61 |
erika
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Uh... around 7 months I think. Heh.
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04-14-2009, 04:24 AM | #62 |
Bitchy Little Brat
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I kept my name when I was married, my reckoning was I was born a [insert name here], I was gonna die a [insert name here]...saved time and hassle when I got divorced too, didnt need to change things back.
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04-14-2009, 09:25 AM | #63 |
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Not quite. Like all rituals, marriage changes you. You come out at the other end a different person, with part of your soul joined with another's for eternity. At least that's the idea.
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04-15-2009, 07:24 AM | #64 |
still says videotape
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I'm neutral on the name change issue but Cloud hit the mark. If we come out unchanged we're just living parallel lives.
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04-15-2009, 12:50 PM | #65 |
The future is unwritten
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With benefits.
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04-15-2009, 04:04 PM | #66 |
is fleeing the scene
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First marriage: Together for seven years, married six months. Second marriage: together for four years, married for five. Been dating current SO almost three years....not sure what the significance of that is. (Kept the second married name for Princess' sake, and don't like maiden name so much.)
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04-16-2009, 03:15 PM | #67 |
Thats "Miss Zipper Neck" to you.
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Location: little town (but not the littlest) in texas
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Single at the moment, and right now not too interested in any other state. A date or two might be nice, but no commitments. Just want some regular friskiness if I can find a decent partner. My last relationship has left me sorta apathetic about pursuing sex though.
The name change issue, completely your choice. I agree with Pie, why change your name? You are the same person, you've just agreed to share your life with someone else. They married you for the person you are. A name can be a very significant part of what makes you feel like yourself. For other people it isn't so important. For me, when I was in a relationship that was seemingly leading to marriage, I expressed that I didn't want to change my last name. This was during a family function with my family, and MY family gave me all sorts of shit for not wanting to change my name. Saying ridiculous tripe like "It means you don't really want to be attached to him...blahblahblah" Obviously I don't really remember all that was said, just the shock I felt that my family would expect me to get rid of their name when I marry because I'm the female. My SO wanted me to change my name, more bullshit about I need to take his name to show commitment or something. I told him he needed to take my name then, he came up with some excuse that his dad would get pissed off and that he needs to carry on the name. WTF? Bell? Bell, is that unique your family needs you to carry it on? Bullshit.
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04-16-2009, 10:43 PM | #68 |
Cleverly disguised as a responsible adult
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Location: Dallas, TX
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My wife and I were married on Thanksgiving (insert jokes here) 2007. In Las Vegas. I put the kibosh on Elvis marrying us.
She has yet to change her (common) Mexican surname to mine (also common). I don't really care but I chide her about it from time to time. She will need to change it, however, to collect on my two life insurance policies totaling some $360,000. HA! I get my way even after death!
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04-18-2009, 12:08 PM | #69 | |
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04-19-2009, 05:13 PM | #70 |
The Un-Tuckian
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I've been w/my significant other for 11 yrs. He is a black Bombay named Slick. I have given up relationships w/people.
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04-19-2009, 05:48 PM | #71 | |
Gone and done
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I am not becoming a possession. I am not 'joining my husband's clan'. I am not nullifying my connection to my mother and father. And I don't have a 'soul'. :p Changing my name seemed like it would have been a repudiation of my entire life up to that point. YMMV.
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04-20-2009, 01:26 AM | #72 |
Slattern of the Swail
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I'm with Gravdigr.
I hate people. I probably always have. I need to embrace my misanthropic heart and just say fuck it and have fantasy relationships for the rest of my life b/c I sucksucksuck at the real thing. I used to think I drank to make other people tolerable; and maybe I did. and BTW, way to go on creating the Valentine's Day equivalent of a thread. yeah, I feel left out. so what?
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04-20-2009, 05:47 AM | #73 |
We have to go back, Kate!
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lol.
I don't hate people. But I really don't suit the whole couple thing. Fantasy relationships are far more satisfying. Apart from anything else, you can put them away when they're inconvenient :P |
04-20-2009, 08:14 PM | #74 | |
I hear them call the tide
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04-25-2009, 08:22 AM | #75 |
Blatantly Homosapien
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I have been with my right hand literally all my life. We get along fine.
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