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Old 02-12-2013, 10:06 AM   #1
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Yes, thank you. I hope to have the chance to advise. What I mean about there being nothing I can do is that she presented us with a fait accompli, so the decision to drop out is not up for discussion. She didn't register for the spring semester last October and let the final deadlines go by before telling us in late January. (She lied to us all through winter break, telling us about the courses she was taking in the spring, how she would be on the judging team, etc.) She can always apply to return to her studies in future; however, with what she has said so far I think the chances are remote. The longer she's out of school the harder it will be to return.

I do want to keep connected, although in spite of saying how much she loves me, she has mostly dropped communication. She isn't interested in hearing anything she doesn't want to hear.

I will let her know that I am always here for her and if she ever needs a safe place, she can come here no questions asked. I see many red flags with the current bf and I believe he will quickly become abusive. I can only hope that she'll be open to listening to some advice and thoughts.
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Old 02-12-2013, 02:00 PM   #2
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deprogramming?

I'm grasping at straws here.
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Old 02-12-2013, 02:12 PM   #3
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Me too. And losing lots of sleep.
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Old 02-13-2013, 12:25 PM   #4
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She called last night, very excited, to say she landed a job selling whole-house air filters evenings and weekends. She says there's a base salary that will cover her rent and utilities, plus bonuses. Training is today through Friday so - she isn't flying home this weekend. She thinks perhaps in May. So much for the Excel chart.

She sounded excited enough that I think the job is real. Do companies pay salaries of $26,000 plus bonuses at entry-level for selling air filters at pre-booked appointments on evenings and weekends? Is this plausible?
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Old 02-13-2013, 12:49 PM   #5
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parts of it sound plausible. In bold


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say she landed [there is] a job selling whole-house air filters evenings and weekends. She says there's a base salary that will cover her rent and utilities, plus bonuses. Training is today through Friday so - she isn't flying home this weekend. She thinks perhaps in May. So much for the Excel chart.

She sounded excited enough that I [want to]think the job is real. Do companies pay [base] salaries of $26,000 plus bonuses at entry-level for selling air filters at pre-booked appointments on evenings and weekends? Is this plausible?
/buzzkill
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Old 02-13-2013, 12:53 PM   #6
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Whatever you do, don't buy a whole house air filter. Who needs that? You probably already have a filter as part of your HVAC system. In fact, it's probably dirty and in need of changing. I know ours is.
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Old 02-13-2013, 01:57 PM   #7
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Yeahhh ... I know.
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Old 02-19-2013, 01:21 PM   #8
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Hmmm...

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AmmoLand says these are both United Nations maps.
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Old 02-19-2013, 05:03 PM   #9
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The data may well be from the UN, but how they choose to group the data is up to them.

Especially, not the murder rates in the second graph. The first category is 0 to 5 per 100,000. This puts the entire OECD in one category, lime green. So (numbers from memory here) Australia's 1.2 per 100,000 and the US's 4.8 per 100,000 are made to look the same, when one is four times as much as the other.

So ... half truth. Homicide rates are a result of *many* factors - economic factors, social cohesion, effectiveness of police, cultural practices, medical facilities AND availability of means to kill. Focus on the OECD only, rejig the colour scale to give better resolution at the OECD end of the data, and you'd find the US not quite so rosy after all.
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Old 03-10-2013, 11:19 AM   #10
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Just in case we have a false vision of ourselves.
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Old 03-24-2013, 04:26 PM   #11
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...you'd find the US not quite so rosy after all.
Naaaahh...We're rosy as fuck.



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Old 03-24-2013, 04:28 PM   #12
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...you'd find the US not quite so rosy after all.
Naaaahh...We're rosy as fuck.



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from 38 Maps You Never Knew You Needed (at BuzzFeed)

The U.S. map, redrawn (and renamed) for equal population distribution:

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All these areas would have the same number of people.
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Old 03-24-2013, 05:00 PM   #13
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Judging by what used to be called the Pacific Northwest,
that map is also the equal distribution of "medical" marijuana.

(Map # 19 is the nighttime glow of all the tokes).
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Old 04-30-2013, 10:47 AM   #14
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But they totally missed San Fernando Valley and the rad beaches of Kalifornia...


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