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View Poll Results: What do you think of charitable giving in someone else's name as a gift?
Just fine, I do it for a variety of people 6 28.57%
It's fine once in awhile but not consistently 10 47.62%
Done it before but no inclined to do it again 0 0%
Tacky copout 5 23.81%
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Old 11-13-2008, 01:26 PM   #1
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Sweet - the men are for it, the women are against it (in general terms).
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Old 11-14-2008, 12:56 AM   #2
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Perry, that perspective is always curious to me.

I guess I'm coming at this with the thought that when it comes to impacting poverty, $50 in the hands of an organization like World Vision or Heifer International is going to be used in a way that's much more effective, in the long run, than anything I could do with that $50 directly. My efforts will be haphazard, decisions made emotionally, with little understanding of the actual realities of the situation. Their efforts, on the other hand, are ongoing, sustained, pragmatic, and hopefully effective.

There is an infrastructure cost to doing things well, whether that thing is building a car or impacting poverty. I consider the institutional cost to be the price of professionalism, which I place a high value on, even in charitable organizations.

What level of institutional cost is acceptable? I don't know. 10%? 15%? Charity Navigator is an organization that audits non-profits and gives you a breakdown on how they spend their money. For World Vision, a group our family has supported for a long time, they spend about 86% directly on programs, about 5% on administration, and about 8% on fundraising. That seems very reasonable to me.
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Old 11-14-2008, 04:22 AM   #3
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I think the problem is that we've grown into this culture of giving every tom, dick and harry a present because we can afford to.

I think maybe now things are more expensive for most people, we'll start becoming more selective of who we buy gifts for, and also what we give. Instead of expressing our feelings with money, maybe we'll actually get back to trying to get those we love a gift that means something even though maybe it doesn't cost so much.
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Old 11-14-2008, 10:29 AM   #4
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I think the problem is that we've grown into this culture of giving every tom, dick and harry a present because we can afford to.

I think maybe now things are more expensive for most people, we'll start becoming more selective of who we buy gifts for, and also what we give. Instead of expressing our feelings with money, maybe we'll actually get back to trying to get those we love a gift that means something even though maybe it doesn't cost so much.
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Old 11-14-2008, 09:51 AM   #5
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In 2001 my sister's MIL donated money to the families of undocumented workers who perished in the Twin Towers. My sister was not very happy about it. Her preferred charities are not really human in nature. Like me, she prefers animals to humans. That said, she felt if someone was going to donate in her name it should be a charity she cared about.
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Old 11-14-2008, 10:40 AM   #6
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Old 11-16-2008, 10:51 AM   #7
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We do it at the request of people who have died but that is about it.
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Old 11-16-2008, 12:33 PM   #8
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We do it at the request of people who have died but that is about it.
Thats about the best way, I think.
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