Adultery - Page 3

HungLikeJesus · 08-05-2008, 10:24 AM

When my wife first started traveling a lot for work, one of my co-workers asked how I knew she wasn't having an affair. I said, "What's the difference? Either way I have to make my own lunch."

That's my philosophy.

classicman · 08-05-2008, 01:05 PM

Good point HLJ. Being cheated on hurts in ways that are not easy to deal with. It strikes a blow to trust and once that is damaged or destroyed it is extremely difficult, if possible, to rebuild.

Shawnee123 · 08-05-2008, 02:29 PM

Especially if you went out on a limb with the trusting thing, knowing how deceitful people can be. You're like "DAMN, I should have known better, should have followed my instincts, should have realized when he/she said he/she was the king/queen of some unheard of country that they are big liars."

Live and learn.

classicman · 08-05-2008, 02:40 PM

Some of the difficulty is that after that trust is broken and in cases, even before, even the appearance of an impropriety can be very destructive - Unfortunately.

Live - remove ANOTHER knife from heart - and learn.

Tink · 08-05-2008, 03:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Shawnee123

Especially if you went out on a limb with the trusting thing, knowing how deceitful people can be. You're like "DAMN, I should have known better, should have followed my instincts, should have realized when he/she said he/she was the king/queen of some unheard of country that they are big liars."

Live and learn.

Bingo! And once you've been lied to at that level while being told how much you are loved and that there is no one else at the same time....It's worse for the one being cheated on too when pictures are exchanged. "Gee, don't my tits look okay to you"? "Gee, I'm obviously not the only one that gets to see your dick". I hope said sister comes to her senses as well as the schmuk whose cheating on his wife.

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Originally Posted by classicman

Some of the difficulty is that after that trust is broken and in cases, even before, even the appearance of an impropriety can be very destructive - Unfortunately.

Live - remove ANOTHER knife from heart - and learn.

The knives can come out?!

DanaC · 08-05-2008, 04:27 PM

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The knives can come out?!

Slowly and with great care.

binky · 08-06-2008, 12:04 AM

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Originally Posted by Cicero

Yea, like I said, people have always met at work and always will.....I think it's normal. Why wouldn't you date a peer? If you are in the same business you probably at least have a lot in common. Not everyone meets at church.

The married guy fetishists are not normal I don't think.

One of my ex's sister's was like that. Always trying to be with very married guys. I always thought that always showed a lack of character. She didn't like single guys. Only very married ones. I can understand mishaps and screw ups, but to repeatedly date the same married guy with no conscience about it is beyond me. Then they end up blaming the guy's wife for something trivial.

Maybe it's the thrill of taboo and secret meetings.

I think the company's problem in this case was that they were not peers, he was her boss

Sundae · 08-06-2008, 07:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Tink

The knives can come out?!

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Originally Posted by DanaC

Slowly and with great care.

The tip almost always breaks off though. The wounds heal around it, but it's always there. If you get another injury in exactly the same area it causes far more damage.

Shawnee123 · 08-06-2008, 07:33 AM

Hence protective devices such as shields, deflectors, fences, and moats.

classicman · 08-06-2008, 07:40 AM

...walls, attitude...

Shawnee123 · 08-06-2008, 07:44 AM

...laser guns, tarps...

TheMercenary · 08-06-2008, 10:16 AM

...condoms, lube...

Tink · 08-06-2008, 10:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Sundae Girl

The tip almost always breaks off though. The wounds heal around it, but it's always there. If you get another injury in exactly the same area it causes far more damage.

Correct. It has happened twice. Double the hurt.

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...laser guns, tarps...

Score...laser tag. You're it!

HungLikeJesus · 08-06-2008, 11:56 AM

This thread is making me want an adult-ery beverage.

skysidhe · 08-06-2008, 12:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Shawnee123

Hence protective devices such as shields, deflectors, fences, and moats.

I understand this quandary.

08-05-2008, 10:24 AM	#31
HungLikeJesus Only looks like a disaster tourist Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: above 7,000 feet Posts: 7,208	When my wife first started traveling a lot for work, one of my co-workers asked how I knew she wasn't having an affair. I said, "What's the difference? Either way I have to make my own lunch." That's my philosophy. __________________ Keep Your Bodies Off My Lawn SteveDallas's Random Thread Picker.

08-05-2008, 01:05 PM	#32
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Good point HLJ. Being cheated on hurts in ways that are not easy to deal with. It strikes a blow to trust and once that is damaged or destroyed it is extremely difficult, if possible, to rebuild. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

08-05-2008, 02:29 PM	#33
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	Especially if you went out on a limb with the trusting thing, knowing how deceitful people can be. You're like "DAMN, I should have known better, should have followed my instincts, should have realized when he/she said he/she was the king/queen of some unheard of country that they are big liars." Live and learn. __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-05-2008, 02:40 PM	#34
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	Some of the difficulty is that after that trust is broken and in cases, even before, even the appearance of an impropriety can be very destructive - Unfortunately. Live - remove ANOTHER knife from heart - and learn. __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

08-06-2008, 07:33 AM	#39
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	Hence protective devices such as shields, deflectors, fences, and moats. __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-06-2008, 07:40 AM	#40
classicman barely disguised asshole, keeper of all that is holy. Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 23,401	...walls, attitude... __________________ "like strapping a pillow on a bull in a china shop" Bullitt

08-06-2008, 07:44 AM	#41
Shawnee123 Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya? Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 21,206	...laser guns, tarps... __________________ A word to the wise ain't necessary - it's the stupid ones who need the advice. --Bill Cosby

08-06-2008, 10:16 AM	#42
TheMercenary “Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo” Join Date: Mar 2007 Location: Savannah, Georgia Posts: 21,393	...condoms, lube... __________________ Anyone but the this most fuked up President in History in 2012!

08-06-2008, 11:56 AM	#44
HungLikeJesus Only looks like a disaster tourist Join Date: Feb 2007 Location: above 7,000 feet Posts: 7,208	This thread is making me want an adult-ery beverage. __________________ Keep Your Bodies Off My Lawn SteveDallas's Random Thread Picker.

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