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Old 06-19-2009, 06:19 PM   #31
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I can tell you... I've been that girl too... and really what it comes down to is... you can't go back... no matter how much you cared for someone 20 yrs ago... or in my case 16 yrs ago... thats a significant amount of time and a lot of life and change has occured... you aren't even the same person on a cellular level.
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Old 06-20-2009, 10:12 PM   #32
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Anon; what everyone else said.

And everybody else, stop trying to guess who anonymous is. Maybe you are very clever, but FFS, don't blow it. A-N-O-N-Y-M-O-U-S.... WITHOUT A NAME.
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Old 06-21-2009, 12:22 AM   #33
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OK, I won't guess.
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Old 06-21-2009, 04:32 AM   #34
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And everybody else, stop trying to guess who anonymous is. Maybe you are very clever, but FFS, don't blow it. A-N-O-N-Y-M-O-U-S.... WITHOUT A NAME.

You're just upset cause you can't figure it out. lol
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Old 06-21-2009, 05:44 AM   #35
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I agree Zen. We want people feeling comfortable about using this account if it helps them seek advice on tricky matters.
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Old 06-21-2009, 08:31 AM   #36
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Isn't that the whole point of having it, Dana? I totally agree - if you want to guess, that fine, but not on the public board.
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:10 PM   #37
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Nobody was guessing. Nobody posted any names, and the fact that I posted about the poster being in an unhappy marriage doesn't give anything away anyway. You'd have to assume someone was unhappy in order to be considering an old flame anyway.

anon hasn't complained about what I posted either, and if he was upset about it, I'm certain he'd let me know.
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:18 PM   #38
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you dirty bitch. i was just trying to share my dilemma. and you had to go and ruin it. I hate you. you know good and goddamnwell that when you say that you know who i am and that my marriage isnt going well, everyone knows who i am. You're not fooling anyone with your 'nobody is guessing' BULLSHIT! i don't know why you are so mean. it's not fair
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:22 PM   #39
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hardiharhar!
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Old 06-21-2009, 09:22 PM   #40
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dude...

i dont know who you are........ but look out for classic signs of smooth pieces of flint that might get into your foot.
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Old 06-22-2009, 09:04 AM   #41
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huh?
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Old 06-22-2009, 10:44 AM   #42
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classic signs of smooth pieces of flint that might get into your foot.
He was trying to be subtle and yet cover all his bases.
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Old 06-22-2009, 10:45 AM   #43
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Haggis!



is that right?
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Old 06-22-2009, 10:46 AM   #44
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NO yes I SAID i wasn't going to guess!

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but look out for classic signs of smooth pieces of flint that might get into your foot.
and you missed a couple
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Old 06-22-2009, 10:53 AM   #45
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Classic isn't married and Pie is a girl. So n'yeah.
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