Merry F'in Christmas - I want a divorce. - Page 28

Iggy · 08-12-2006, 01:22 PM

Oh man... that is awful. I have been following this from the beginning, but I just never could bring myself to post. After all, I have never been married or had kids so it is hard for me to understand. But I can see how that would hurt and make things really difficult. For the sake of you and lil lookout, I hope this isn't true. But if it is, I am so sorry for you two and I wish you all the best. Many good vibes are coming your way from here in Kansas.

yesman065 · 10-04-2006, 03:23 PM

Lookout - long time no hear/here??? Whats goin on?

Brett's Honey · 10-05-2006, 07:30 PM

I second that....been wondering here too.....hope everything's going well for you......

footfootfoot · 10-05-2006, 08:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Brett's Honey

hope everything's going well for you......

Did you just tune into this thread? :p

Brett's Honey · 10-08-2006, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by footfootfoot

Did you just tune into this thread? :p

Yeah....that was stupid! But I do hope things are going "as well as possible" under the circumstances...ok I'll shut up now....just check in with us Lookout....we do wonder about ya!

10-08-2006, 10:20 AM

I'm late in but from what I've been reading your "ex" seems to have had an affair or more to the point many affairs. It’s no slight on you but my guess is it was her guilt that brought about the divorce.

One thing regarding your divorce papers; if it’s still possible put in writing that she can't move more than 50 miles from you. This will keep here from moving across country with your boy.

Part-time fathering sucks period. Quality time isn't planed it just happens, but you'll make the best of the situation, I'm sure.

It’s always the way when one person starts to break away the other tries to hold on tighter and the conflict only intensifies. Once you "turn" and accept it and moved on she will come a knocking. They always come back, but your can never change the stripes on a Zebra. Never take her back.

Look at yourself and learn from your choices in women. I know from experience that some of what broke your marriage up existed before you where married and you saw it. But, like most people in love you become blinded.

Read up on being a divorced dad. There are lots of recourses. Try and get that 50 mile limitation.

To be totally honest, I would look outside the USA for any future bride. American women are a totally different breed of female. I think your be pleasantly surprised by some of the women you can meet in Brazil, Russia, or Asia. They tend to hold more traditional qualities and are educated and independent.

Trilby · 10-08-2006, 01:25 PM

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Originally Posted by bmwmcaw

To be totally honest, I would look outside the USA for any future bride. American women are a totally different breed of female. I think your be pleasantly surprised by some of the women you can meet in Brazil, Russia, or Asia. They tend to hold more traditional qualities and yet educated and independent.

Why does no one listen to me? I KNOW from people. I knew loverboy here was a creep from post one. Creep, creep, creepy creep-creep.

9th Engineer · 10-08-2006, 05:36 PM

If you need to hear this for the sake of fairness Bri, I completely agree with you here.

Trilby · 10-08-2006, 05:41 PM

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Originally Posted by 9th Engineer

If you need to hear this for the sake of fairness Bri, I completely agree with you here.

Thank you. Engineer's cannot be all bad!

after all, my papa was an engineer.

footfootfoot · 10-08-2006, 06:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

Why does no one listen to me? I KNOW from people. I knew loverboy here was a creep from post one. Creep, creep, creepy creep-creep.

I totally resent that Brianna. I was born a poor, asian, mail order bride...

Griff · 10-09-2006, 07:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Brianna

Why does no one listen to me? I KNOW from people. I knew loverboy here was a creep from post one. Creep, creep, creepy creep-creep.

I will never doubt you again.

lumberjim · 10-08-2006, 11:21 AM

aha. it's all suddenly very clear to me

Aliantha · 10-08-2006, 06:21 PM

Mail order brides are 'traditionally' uneducated, but that's definitely no reflection on their intelligence or ability to be as cunning as a cut snake to get what they want. These women come from third world conditions (in general) and are looking for a way out. They know what you want, so that's what you get. In return they get a lifestyle most of their family and friends will only dream about.

Oh yeah, and once you've taken them home, then you have to start sending money back for their poor mother.

yesman065 · 10-09-2006, 07:21 AM

Oh my!! to quote bmw - "your can never change the stripes on a Zebra." and this one has shown his.

10-09-2006, 08:47 AM

Again meritless retorts that’s shows your prejudices and ignorances than useful insights. Calling nearly three BILLION women in the world uneducated, poor, and desperate is stunningly ignorant and has me questioning the intelligence level of you so called "high-minded" posters. On the one hand you call me a women hater then disparage 3 billion women; you tell me how to reconcile that.

"Mail order” when has that expression ever been used in this century. They have a thing called airplanes now. Your criticism about expanding your prospects is a case of bigotry and ignorance and you have nobody to blame but yourself for your failures. I never said to go trolling through third world slums, SO DON”T PUT WORDS OR IMPLICATIONS IN MY MOUTH…PUNKS!

Millions of Russian, Ukrainian and eastern european women have advanced degrees, as do women from China and other east Asian countries like India. Even Japan has been a great place to meet nice and tradtional minded women. Latin America has 10s of millions of college educated English speaking women that want to meet men from the USA. Even western european women offer far more traditional values for men than the so-called "liberated" american women.

Keep coming out to disparage me so the rest of the board can see your ignorance, bigotry, and hypocrisy.

10-08-2006, 10:20 AM	#6
bmwmcaw Guest Posts: n/a	I'm late in but from what I've been reading your "ex" seems to have had an affair or more to the point many affairs. It’s no slight on you but my guess is it was her guilt that brought about the divorce. One thing regarding your divorce papers; if it’s still possible put in writing that she can't move more than 50 miles from you. This will keep here from moving across country with your boy. Part-time fathering sucks period. Quality time isn't planed it just happens, but you'll make the best of the situation, I'm sure. It’s always the way when one person starts to break away the other tries to hold on tighter and the conflict only intensifies. Once you "turn" and accept it and moved on she will come a knocking. They always come back, but your can never change the stripes on a Zebra. Never take her back. Look at yourself and learn from your choices in women. I know from experience that some of what broke your marriage up existed before you where married and you saw it. But, like most people in love you become blinded. Read up on being a divorced dad. There are lots of recourses. Try and get that 50 mile limitation. To be totally honest, I would look outside the USA for any future bride. American women are a totally different breed of female. I think your be pleasantly surprised by some of the women you can meet in Brazil, Russia, or Asia. They tend to hold more traditional qualities and are educated and independent. Last edited by bmwmcaw; 10-08-2006 at 03:38 PM.

10-08-2006, 05:36 PM	#8
9th Engineer Bioengineer and aspiring lawer Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: Pittsburgh Posts: 872	If you need to hear this for the sake of fairness Bri, I completely agree with you here. __________________ The most valuable renewable resource is stupidity.

10-08-2006, 11:21 AM	#12
lumberjim I can hear my ears Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 25,571	aha. it's all suddenly very clear to me __________________ This body holding me reminds me of my own mortality Embrace this moment, remember We are eternal, all this pain is an illusion ~MJKeenan

10-08-2006, 06:21 PM	#13
Aliantha trying hard to be a better person Join Date: Jan 2006 Location: Brisbane, Australia Posts: 16,493	Mail order brides are 'traditionally' uneducated, but that's definitely no reflection on their intelligence or ability to be as cunning as a cut snake to get what they want. These women come from third world conditions (in general) and are looking for a way out. They know what you want, so that's what you get. In return they get a lifestyle most of their family and friends will only dream about. Oh yeah, and once you've taken them home, then you have to start sending money back for their poor mother. __________________ Kind words are the music of the world. F. W. Faber

10-09-2006, 08:47 AM	#15
bmwmcaw Guest Posts: n/a	Again meritless retorts that’s shows your prejudices and ignorances than useful insights. Calling nearly three BILLION women in the world uneducated, poor, and desperate is stunningly ignorant and has me questioning the intelligence level of you so called "high-minded" posters. On the one hand you call me a women hater then disparage 3 billion women; you tell me how to reconcile that. "Mail order” when has that expression ever been used in this century. They have a thing called airplanes now. Your criticism about expanding your prospects is a case of bigotry and ignorance and you have nobody to blame but yourself for your failures. I never said to go trolling through third world slums, SO DON”T PUT WORDS OR IMPLICATIONS IN MY MOUTH…PUNKS! Millions of Russian, Ukrainian and eastern european women have advanced degrees, as do women from China and other east Asian countries like India. Even Japan has been a great place to meet nice and tradtional minded women. Latin America has 10s of millions of college educated English speaking women that want to meet men from the USA. Even western european women offer far more traditional values for men than the so-called "liberated" american women. Keep coming out to disparage me so the rest of the board can see your ignorance, bigotry, and hypocrisy. Last edited by bmwmcaw; 10-09-2006 at 10:11 AM.

08-12-2006, 01:22 PM	#1
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	Oh man... that is awful. I have been following this from the beginning, but I just never could bring myself to post. After all, I have never been married or had kids so it is hard for me to understand. But I can see how that would hurt and make things really difficult. For the sake of you and lil lookout, I hope this isn't true. But if it is, I am so sorry for you two and I wish you all the best. Many good vibes are coming your way from here in Kansas.

10-04-2006, 03:23 PM	#2
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Lookout - long time no hear/here??? Whats goin on?

10-05-2006, 07:30 PM	#3
Brett's Honey whatever Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 308	I second that....been wondering here too.....hope everything's going well for you......

10-09-2006, 07:21 AM	#14
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	Oh my!! to quote bmw - "your can never change the stripes on a Zebra." and this one has shown his.

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