bipolar + PMS = can i do anything right? - Page 2

xoxoxoBruce · 12-16-2006, 01:34 PM

Break your phone. Just avoid her while the exams are going on. Blame the schools communication system....um, the students that run it are in exams, too. Yeah, that's it.

With her rabid PMS, she'll never be able to support you in a comfortable manner, so hit the books if you don't want to flip burgers.

12-16-2006, 02:28 PM

Iggy · 12-17-2006, 12:40 AM

Sounds like a bad situation to me. If she is really like that when she is about to start her period, then she should seek medical attention. Usually birth control pills really help with the hormone issues. One thing that I think you should consider is how will you handle her moodiness later on down the road? If she is this bad now, just imagine how moody she will be with a job to keep and bills to pay. The time right after high school or college when you have to really go in the real world and you are on your own is the most stressful, at least it was for me.

My SO is divorced. His ex-wife was very much like the woman you are describing, only worse. She would feign mirgranes so he wouldn't go out with his friends. The reason we know she was faking was that as soon as he said he would stay home to take care of her, she would magically feel better and want to go out, just the two of them. She did have real migraines though, so she wasn't always faking. She was very moody and manipulative. He only realized later that the main reason he married her was he felt she needed him, and he wanted to be needed. They were also high school sweethearts.

I don't much about your situation but it sounded eerily famliar to me. I would just be very careful in this relationship if I were you. And if you can't stand her moodiness then maybe you two aren't as compatable as you once thought. After all, if she has always been moody you will either have to get used to it or move on. Most people don't change that much. You can't depend on change, that's for certain.

Just my two cents. YMMV

Iggy · 12-17-2006, 12:41 AM

And welcome to the cellar fresh.

12-18-2006, 04:05 AM

Migraines?
Makes no sense... my wife wants me as far from her as possible when she has one, as do I (her) when I have one. Less noise, possibility of light, and movement.
Bad lie.
(fortunately for me, I don't get them any longer because one of the meds for my "stuff" also takes care of them... silver lining, huh?)

Iggy · 12-18-2006, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by rkzenrage

Migraines?
Makes no sense... my wife wants me as far from her as possible when she has one, as do I (her) when I have one. Less noise, possibility of light, and movement.
Bad lie.
(fortunately for me, I don't get them any longer because one of the meds for my "stuff" also takes care of them... silver lining, huh?)

That is my point. She would also "faint" so that he would "take care of her." It was obvious to everyone that she was faking because she would fall very gently to the floor. When you faint you hit the ground because you suddenly go unconcious. She was just manipulating him.

12-16-2006, 01:34 PM	#16
xoxoxoBruce The future is unwritten Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 71,105	Break your phone. Just avoid her while the exams are going on. Blame the schools communication system....um, the students that run it are in exams, too. Yeah, that's it. With her rabid PMS, she'll never be able to support you in a comfortable manner, so hit the books if you don't want to flip burgers. __________________ The descent of man ~ Nixon, Friedman, Reagan, Trump.

12-17-2006, 12:40 AM	#18
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	Sounds like a bad situation to me. If she is really like that when she is about to start her period, then she should seek medical attention. Usually birth control pills really help with the hormone issues. One thing that I think you should consider is how will you handle her moodiness later on down the road? If she is this bad now, just imagine how moody she will be with a job to keep and bills to pay. The time right after high school or college when you have to really go in the real world and you are on your own is the most stressful, at least it was for me. My SO is divorced. His ex-wife was very much like the woman you are describing, only worse. She would feign mirgranes so he wouldn't go out with his friends. The reason we know she was faking was that as soon as he said he would stay home to take care of her, she would magically feel better and want to go out, just the two of them. She did have real migraines though, so she wasn't always faking. She was very moody and manipulative. He only realized later that the main reason he married her was he felt she needed him, and he wanted to be needed. They were also high school sweethearts. I don't much about your situation but it sounded eerily famliar to me. I would just be very careful in this relationship if I were you. And if you can't stand her moodiness then maybe you two aren't as compatable as you once thought. After all, if she has always been moody you will either have to get used to it or move on. Most people don't change that much. You can't depend on change, that's for certain. Just my two cents. YMMV __________________ Chock-full of naughty goodness.

12-17-2006, 12:41 AM	#19
Iggy Back and ready to tart up the place Join Date: Jan 2005 Location: Kansas Posts: 850	And welcome to the cellar fresh. __________________ Chock-full of naughty goodness.

12-18-2006, 04:05 AM	#20
rkzenrage Guest Posts: n/a	Migraines? Makes no sense... my wife wants me as far from her as possible when she has one, as do I (her) when I have one. Less noise, possibility of light, and movement. Bad lie. (fortunately for me, I don't get them any longer because one of the meds for my "stuff" also takes care of them... silver lining, huh?)

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