Celebacy or Hot Meaningless Sex - Page 2

Clodfobble · 03-23-2006, 10:08 PM

If it's definitely hot meaningless sex, then I vote for the sex. But to me, meaningless sex has almost (note I said almost) always been the exact opposite of hot.

Hubris Boy · 03-23-2006, 11:06 PM

Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated. 
Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...

thrillhouse · 03-23-2006, 11:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hubris Boy

Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...

ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here?

Kagen4o4 · 03-23-2006, 11:34 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by thrillhouse

ye gads boy!. . . . am i to be neutered as penance for posting here?

well...yes.

thrillhouse · 03-23-2006, 11:43 PM

as long as i get to keep my dog. i'm good to go.

03-24-2006, 12:13 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Hubris Boy

Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated. 
Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...

Oh, Hubris Boy! You're back! Post something nasty on my computer screen, baybee!

Gromitspapa · 03-24-2006, 12:40 AM

Opposable thumbs help make for hot, meaningless sex, though...

thrillhouse · 03-24-2006, 06:39 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gromitspapa

Opposable thumbs help make for hot, meaningless sex, though...

how YOU doin?

Kagen4o4 · 03-24-2006, 02:42 AM

yeah! this one time I.....oh wait....I better not say that

yesman065 · 03-24-2006, 07:38 AM

I'm always in for hot sex, but the meaningless part just kills it for me - I feel like I need to have that connection with someone I'm intimate with and as some of you know from my prior posts the sex just for sex thing didn't really work out so well for me.

glatt · 03-24-2006, 09:33 AM

I've never had hot meaningless sex. Never really wanted to. But who knows, maybe I would have liked it if I tried it.

On the other hand, hot meaningful sex is awesome.

Does celibacy mean no self-pleasuring? Celibacy would be the clear choice for me as long as that was still allowed. But if not, then I'm not sure what I would choose. Neither one is desirable to me.

jojo · 03-24-2006, 05:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by yesman065

I'm always in for hot sex, but the meaningless part just kills it for me - I feel like I need to have that connection with someone I'm intimate with and as some of you know from my prior posts the sex just for sex thing didn't really work out so well for me.

did you smile and feel exuberant the next day? or did you feel uneasy?

for all of us women out there-how can you ever have meaningless sex? i don't fit the needy or over-nurturing stereotypes that are sometimes associated with women and i don't think many of the women here do either, but i don't think i would be capable of "meaningless" sex. i would invariably feel a connection, or at the very least imagine that he does. while basking in the glow, i know i would take some part of it to heart. and no matter how little emotional connection i felt with the guy, i WOULD be hurt if i thought it was completely meaningless to him.
Brett's Honey, are you sure it was meaningless for your "fbuddy" (can't get myself to write it!

) cuz if it was meaningless to you, but not your partner, then it was possibly...hurtful?
methinks me overthinks everything!

Brett's Honey · 03-24-2006, 12:20 PM

Well, I see it's almost a tie so far, so no real answer for thrillhouse yet, but I cast a vote for the sex. It is good for you. When I went quite a while - almost 2 years between relationships I did have a "fuckbuddy", for good, hot, but comfortable sex. I think it may have helped keep me from jumping into a relationship that I really didn't want or need.

Kagen4o4 · 03-24-2006, 05:35 PM

who here wants some meaningless sex?

elSicomoro · 03-25-2006, 03:53 PM

I've never had meaningless sex, only meaningless makeout sessions. I thought about engaging in such activity when I broke up with my then-fiance last year, but then I became obsessed with an old friend of mine back home. And now we're getting married next year. I don't think I missed anything.

03-23-2006, 11:06 PM	#2
Hubris Boy Keymaster of Gozer Join Date: Jul 2001 Location: Patapsco Drainage Basin Posts: 471	<p>Celibacy. Without a doubt. It's not nearly as much fun, sure, but it's a lot cheaper and a LOT less complicated.<br> Did anybody notice that "celibate" is on the same page as "cellar" in the dictionary? Coincidence? Maybe. Or maybe not...</p>

03-23-2006, 11:43 PM	#5
thrillhouse spoonful of bologna Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: salvation holdout central Posts: 333	as long as i get to keep my dog. i'm good to go. __________________ i'm drinking stars

03-24-2006, 02:42 AM	#9
Kagen4o4 The Sheriff of Nothingland Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Melbourne, Aus Posts: 1,794	yeah! this one time I.....oh wait....I better not say that __________________ something we both can enjoy??

03-24-2006, 05:35 PM	#14
Kagen4o4 The Sheriff of Nothingland Join Date: Apr 2005 Location: Melbourne, Aus Posts: 1,794	who here wants some meaningless sex? __________________ something we both can enjoy??

View Poll Results: Physical Intimacy
Celibacy	10	47.62%
Hot Meaningless Sex	11	52.38%
Voters: 21. You may not vote on this poll

03-23-2006, 10:08 PM	#1
Clodfobble UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION Join Date: Mar 2004 Location: Austin, TX Posts: 20,012	If it's definitely hot meaningless sex, then I vote for the sex. But to me, meaningless sex has almost (note I said almost) always been the exact opposite of hot.

03-24-2006, 12:40 AM	#7
Gromitspapa Knight of the Oval-Shaped Conference Table Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 377	Opposable thumbs help make for hot, meaningless sex, though...

03-24-2006, 07:38 AM	#10
yesman065 Banned - Self Imposed Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 1,847	I'm always in for hot sex, but the meaningless part just kills it for me - I feel like I need to have that connection with someone I'm intimate with and as some of you know from my prior posts the sex just for sex thing didn't really work out so well for me.

03-24-2006, 09:33 AM	#11
glatt ™ Join Date: Jul 2003 Location: Arlington, VA Posts: 27,717	I've never had hot meaningless sex. Never really wanted to. But who knows, maybe I would have liked it if I tried it. On the other hand, hot meaningful sex is awesome. Does celibacy mean no self-pleasuring? Celibacy would be the clear choice for me as long as that was still allowed. But if not, then I'm not sure what I would choose. Neither one is desirable to me.

03-24-2006, 12:20 PM	#13
Brett's Honey whatever Join Date: Dec 2004 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 308	Well, I see it's almost a tie so far, so no real answer for thrillhouse yet, but I cast a vote for the sex. It is good for you. When I went quite a while - almost 2 years between relationships I did have a "fuckbuddy", for good, hot, but comfortable sex. I think it may have helped keep me from jumping into a relationship that I really didn't want or need.

03-25-2006, 03:53 PM	#15
elSicomoro Person who doesn't update the user title Join Date: Jan 2001 Posts: 12,486	I've never had meaningless sex, only meaningless makeout sessions. I thought about engaging in such activity when I broke up with my then-fiance last year, but then I became obsessed with an old friend of mine back home. And now we're getting married next year. I don't think I missed anything.

Currently Active Users Viewing This Thread: 1 (0 members and 1 guests)