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08-18-2009, 12:13 PM
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Radical Centrist
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Spanking
I believe there will come a time in the future when people will read history, learn that we had a practice of beating children systematically on their bare buttocks, and they will cringe in the horror of such a bizarrely cruel and ineffective parenting approach to misbehavior.
What say you? Study: Spanking may lead to sexual problems later Quote:
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08-18-2009, 12:22 PM
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Come on, cat.
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It's the duct tape of parenting. Ugly but quick and effective enough in the short term to make it popular - but the problem will still have to be addresses for real at some point.
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08-18-2009, 12:22 PM
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Your Bartender
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08-18-2009, 12:25 PM
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The future is unwritten
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Spare the rod, spoil the child.
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08-18-2009, 12:38 PM
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I hear them call the tide
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maybe it's not the parental spanking but the being studied by Murray Straus that leads to sexual deviance?
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08-18-2009, 12:46 PM
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Radical Centrist
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The Hawthorne effect can lead to S&M?
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08-18-2009, 12:49 PM
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Are you knock-kneed?
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OK. So how many of us here were brought up by parents who spanked us? I was and I dont fall into the 'physically or verbally coercing a sexual partner, engaging in risky sexual behavior or engaging in masochistic sex, including sexual arousal by spanking' category.
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08-18-2009, 01:02 PM
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I was spanked by my parents.
My children have never been spanked. |
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08-18-2009, 01:11 PM
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I hear them call the tide
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but has your wife?  (j/k  )
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08-18-2009, 02:33 PM
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I don't have a problem with spanking kids, with the hand in a reasonable manner and not in anger, for egregious offenses.
I DO have a problem with hitting kids with belts, wire coat hangers, and hairbrushes--all of which were used on me.
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08-18-2009, 02:52 PM
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Makes some feel uncomfortable
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08-18-2009, 02:52 PM
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yardstick, yeah, geez. Forgot about that one.
probably not metal or slotted, but with the business end of the brush toward the heiny.
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08-18-2009, 03:26 PM
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Are you knock-kneed?
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My mom used a metal slotted spatula on my bare behind a couple of times. Once was after she found out I took all the cash out of her wallet and spent it at the dime store.
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