Deal Breakers

[SquidGirl]

I don't like the seat being left up because the cats will fall in. Seriously...they will jump up to the sink and not look first and in they go. Ohhh..I hate the cupboard doors being left open. Those I do slam shut.

Actual deal breakers: Religion, treatment (verbal and physical) of myself, daughter, belongings, family interaction is a big deal. Honestly, I'm used to being single even 1.5 years into my current relationship. Even though he now is my 2 y.o.'s dad I still act like a single mom so doing all the dishes, cleaning the house, getting up every morning with Miette doesn't really bother me. I support the household, pay all the bills (since it was my house he moved into) so I keep telling myself is it that big of an issue? There are things that bug me, like his picking on the cats, picking on Miette (she is 2, he sometimes acts 1), doors being left open, but actual deal breakers and probably standard for me.