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Why, you're a regular Alfred E Einstein, ain't ya?
Join Date: Jun 2006
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So true, Sundae. As one with anger issues, everything you said hit home with me. Whether it is "just who you are" or it is the past that you don't deal with, nipping it in the bud is very good advice.
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“Hypocrisy: prejudice with a halo”
Join Date: Mar 2007
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What ever you do you need to figure out how to channel it and make it more constructive. Anger of the kind you describe can become pathologic and it will eventually affect much that goes on around you. Few things piss me off that much. Read the book, "Don't sweat the small stuff". Good luck.
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polaroid of perfection
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BTW the advice given by Ducks re taking a deep breath has a real physical benefit. Anger releases adrenaline into the system, as our anachronistic bodies get ready to fight. Deep breaths are the best way to clear adrenaline - it's a way to bypass the animal system. Your body accepts that the deep breaths mean danger has passed and stop flooding your system with "fight" instincts.
I don't have the medical know-how to explain this properly, but a qualified psychiatric nurse explained it to me.
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We have to go back, Kate!
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Yorkshire
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Lookout.....you've gone wrong mate....:P
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changed his status to single
Join Date: Apr 2004
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nope, not wrong, just loopy. the market went south today and i've had a string of unusual calls.
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Bitchy Little Brat
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trying hard to be a better person
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Brisbane, Australia
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You know there's a loopy flame warrior don't you lookout?
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We have to go back, Kate!
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Location: Yorkshire
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uh oh
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changed his status to single
Join Date: Apr 2004
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yes, but i resent any use of the word "flame" in connection with my person. not that there is anything wrong with that.
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trying hard to be a better person
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if there's nothing wrong with it, why do you resent it?
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changed his status to single
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you're kidding right?
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trying hard to be a better person
Join Date: Jan 2006
Location: Brisbane, Australia
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I kid you not!
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