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My son will not be allowed to smoke in sixth grade and will be taught that smoking cigarettes with all of their additives is stupid, smoking something with ammonia in it... you might as well drink Drain-O. The additives break down the barriers that keep you from absorbing all the nicotine. It is the difference between chewing coca leaves and mainlining cocaine.
Of course those that smoke them get addicted, that is what the additives are for. I was talking about just tobacco, not ciggarettes... he will be taught that only an idiot would smoke those and what ammonia, formaldehyde and the other additives do to your system. He will be educated, fear tactics just make them want to do it more. Edit: Just to illustrate, I went through a period when I smoked two pipes or large cigars a day for a few months and then decided to quit for a few months before going back to just smoking once a week or two. I had NO withdrawal symptoms. Asked about this... even though I suspected the no inhaling and lack of additives, at my local tobacconists, they told me it was not unusual and that many can be addicted to cigs after just three or four and that many who smoke a few cigars a day who go into the hospital never have any withdrawal symptoms. I am not saying that regular tobacco use is a good thing. I don't want mouth cancer any more than any other kind and regular use diminishes the pleasure of it. No habit is a good thing or enjoyable. When I smoke now it is a relaxing occasion, a treat an no more harmful than when I eat a large steak or drink a glass red wine. The cig companies that say they do not add nicotine to their tobacco are not lying. When I worked for the distillery we made industrial alcohol and mixed nicotine (you had to wear a has mat suit, one drop of it on your skin will kill you. Chemical nicotine is NOTHING like natural nicotine.) into it. They then spray it onto the filters and paper. The alcohol evaporates and leaves the nicotine. The ammonia and formaldehyde breaks-down the mitosis barrier and your body absorbs it directly, mainline. Natural nicotine is actually hard to absorb and takes a while to become addicted to. Before they started adding them many people smoked casually. I still don't like cigarettes, don't like the idea of smoking paper and think it contributes to the problem, MANY more carcinogens and adds to inhalation. I don't want him to smoke at all, but will do all in my power to keep him away from cigs by telling him all I know. At least I have inside info. Last edited by rkzenrage; 10-05-2007 at 01:16 PM. |
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There is a great deal of evidence to suggest that some people have a greater propensity towards nicoteine addiction. There is also evidence to suggest that women often find it much more difficult to break nicoteine addiction than men and are far more likely to restart having once stopped. As someone who became addicted very quickly, very young and after smoking very small amounts over that time, I would take issue with your definition of 'fictional' in this instance. |
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Everything they have ever said about pipe and cigar smoking has been a lie. Though this is true... and no one I know who smokes a pipe or cigar inhales. Nor did this discuss how much those who they are talking about use a pipe. Convenient. Quote:
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That isn't what's being shown in movies though, rk. I understand that you can do your best to ensure that your son grows up with a healthy respect for tobacco as a substance, in much the same way as one would hope he'd grow up with a healthy respect for alcohol.
The trouble is yours aren't the only messages your son will listen to and take on board whilst growing up. Another problem is that whilst you may think what you are teaching him is respect for tobacco...but it's possible what you are actually teaching him is that tobacco is pretty cool and something to be desired. Combine that message with a set of ther messages (from peer group as he gets older, from movies if they are still allowed to show smoking :P, etc.) |
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Out of interest rk, have you come across similar evidence regarding heart disease and deep vein thrombosis?
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If I can't teach him not to listen to morons, then I get what I get.
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Well put, and that is what I am teaching him. Choice, ALL of your actions are your choice at all times.
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Just for the record, I am not suggesting you stop smoking your pipe. Nor am I suggesting that it is inevitable that he will learn one lesson over another lesson.
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Because kids will then see them as a hypocrite in ALL things. So if they then smoke, their parents have no credibility when telling them not to... even if they do not smoke, because they drink and told their child not to and that it was bad. Once you are a hypocrite in your kid's eyes they battle is lost. |
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The thing is, the world has bad things in it and I have no intention of trying to pad his world, hide him away, pretend that they don't exist, that others think differently, that some idiots think that killing themselves and overindulging is cool... in fact I plan on showing him that side of life and the result.
See how cool he looks driving, smoking a cigarette, talking on his cell phone after leaving the bar from having four martinis? Now, let's see where this all will lead, shall we? Not scare tactics, real information. It has already started. He knows about death, the cycle of life, where meat comes from, what happens to criminals, anything he asks he gets a straight answer to. Sheltering kids is abuse. |
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I'm also not suggesting that you a) shelter your child, or b) tell him never to smoke.
My dad was a smoker. And he hated the fact he was addicted to them (something I now fully comprehend). He tried so many times to quit, or to at least change the nature of the habit to something less devastatin to his health. Used gum, used those tobacco pouches, smoked a little clay pipe for a while. When I was little he didn't really talk about it much, other than to tell me I probably wouldn't like the taste. This was the same tactic he'd used when I wanted to try drinking whiskey. I insisted with the whiskey that I might like it....he let me have a sip and I thought it was the worst thing I'd ever tasted. I didn't ask to try the cigarette. As I got a little older and he went through a stage of using those 'bandits' tobacco pouches, I got a little braver and asked if i could taste one. He repeated that he didn't think I'd like them, and at the same time explained what addiction to tobacco meant, and that the pouches were his way of trying to stop smoking cigarettes. I insisted I wanted to taste, and he let me. It was pretty disgusting to my 10 yr old palate :P At the age of 12, fully 'aware' of the health risks associated with tobacco, having seen its effects on other people and having been told stuff by mum ( a nurse) about people she was caring for (not a scare story, just incidental anecdotes of life on the ward), I started smoking. I am not, nor do I believe I ever was, a moron. What I was, was a child of 12, aware of the dangers, but unable to connect those dangers to myself. In just the same way as a 12 year old knows they will age and turn into old people, but doesn't really believe it, so I knew the dangers, but didn't really believe them. That grasp of the personal enormity of being an adult and getting older is something that comes later in life. We have what we think is a grasp as children, but then we grow up and realise...what we had was the frame of knowledge upon which that understanding would hang. Teaching your son the dangers and him understanding the message, may not be enough to stop him acting in a way that may damage him, whilst still too young to grasp those concepts fully. [eta] Dad's now dying of a serious lung disease. I am a habitual smoker who intermittently tries to stop, sometimes succeeding for days or weeks, once over a year. |
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