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Old 07-12-2005, 11:30 PM   #1
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I used to have a neibor that was babtist preacher , he and his wife split up , i found out later this freak would be up at the pulpit giveing a sermen with his pants and under wear around his knees and he was ,, well ,,,, lets just say he was "takeing hermin to the circus"
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Old 07-13-2005, 01:21 AM   #2
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Second Cumming of Christ?

(I could say it because I'm pagan and don't believe in Hell.)
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Old 07-13-2005, 06:33 AM   #3
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Cowhead, you're dead right. The more repressed the person is the freakier he/she is about sex. Oh, and, um, most men are secret freaks no matter what. No offense.
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Old 07-13-2005, 11:18 AM   #4
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heh, Brianna.. most people regardless of gender are 'freaks' given the opportunity.. atleast that's what I've come to find out.. or atleast people I've encountered (for lack of a better word) the thing is that if you allow/encourage someone to let go of the whole inhibition (sp?) thing.. (apparently I'm good at that...) sex gets a little weird... damn there's more I wanted to say but I have to head to work... back later

and as such.. no offense taken
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Old 07-13-2005, 02:25 PM   #5
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NEW QUESTION: Does anyone else here think they may never have sex again??? It's been a long, loveless spell here in briannaLand. Sometimes I think the last time I had sex was the last time forever. It's a drag. I'm seriously annoyed. *sigh* oh, to be 19 and so carefree again..!

(wistful, wistful...)
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Old 07-13-2005, 03:12 PM   #6
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It hasn't been THAT long, Brianna, didn't you break up with that married guy just a couple of months ago?

Think about it this way: you know how food tastes so much better to you now? A future relationship will be so much better because of the changes in your life too. Each day that passes puts you in a better position to receive it when the opportunity arises.
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Old 07-13-2005, 03:18 PM   #7
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puts you in a better position to receive it when the opportunity arises.
you said "arises". huhhuh huh uh huhhuh
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Old 07-13-2005, 03:43 PM   #8
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It hasn't been THAT long, Brianna, didn't you break up with that married guy just a couple of months ago?
Yes, true, true. Maybe it just seems that long.
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Old 07-13-2005, 07:17 PM   #9
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Brianna - Yes, true, true. Maybe it just seems that long.
If you're not ready for a relationship, look around for a fuckbuddy. (Granted, I WAS barely over 19 when I had that type of "relationship" but it worked and worked verrry well!)
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Old 07-13-2005, 09:21 PM   #10
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I think I let go of the weird repressed sexuality/"god is going to send me to hell with the voice of my dad" syndrome a long time ago. Though the beliefs my family had while I was growing up included the idea that sex before marriage was bad and I had to "cover my eyes" for the sex scenes in movies, my mom was kind of open and sort of realized when I was in high school that she wasn't going to be able to stop me if I wanted to do it. Her forbidding me to even think about it would have bred even more angst and hostility within my family...we had more than enough at that age.

Dakota and I have been living together for a while now, so the actual mechanics of the relationship haven't changed much at all. Now, it's just that others recognize our relationship differently and we had that chance to make the vows to each other and make it "official". I am happy to be married to him...don't get me wrong. We might never have had the ceremony at all if it weren't for our kids and families...well, we would have had the ceremony but it might not have been accompanied by a piece of paper and a shorter last name for me. Those things weren't terribly important to us. We knew what we felt and feel and we wouldn't need those things. It has been good for the kids, though...helps them to adjust and make sense of things.

I better not never have sex again! (double negative was intentional)
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Old 07-13-2005, 05:04 PM   #11
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I thought that for a while after my divorce. Thankfully I met a girl kind enough to let me sleep with her.
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Old 07-13-2005, 05:09 PM   #12
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i thought thte same thing for a while after my divorce. then when i did start dating i realized how much better the sex was with someone who wasn't trying to make me feel low all the time.
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Old 07-13-2005, 05:21 PM   #13
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heh. i let the g/f finally go last week (long story of her drunken abuses towards me) and have already scored! er, actually, she picked ME up!! yep. older women know what they want.
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Old 07-13-2005, 09:43 PM   #14
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so Case do you have pics of your ceremony yet?

I love wedding photos and stories.. I probably have a formal ceremony personally cuz i want to invent my own "thing" for binding with my partner but its always interesting hearing about what others have done to make themselves "officially" unite.

i dont think that marriage is what kills sex, i think if you have survived living together for a long time, marraige wont chage anything. If sex is going to fail, i reckon it'll fail in the first year of living together. IMO.
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Old 07-13-2005, 09:50 PM   #15
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Don't forget in your seventh year of living together, when you both get fat. It can definitely fail then too.
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