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View Poll Results: Is Ouija suitable for 11-year olds? | |||
NO WAY, nuh-huh, absolutely NOT |
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11 | 33.33% |
Not really, but..... |
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2 | 6.06% |
Meh |
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5 | 15.15% |
It's okay, but..... |
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3 | 9.09% |
YES, it's perfect for that purpose |
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12 | 36.36% |
Voters: 33. You may not vote on this poll |
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UNDER CONDITIONAL MITIGATION
Join Date: Mar 2004
Location: Austin, TX
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*shrug* You "contact ghosts" with it, right? That's what we did with it when we were kids. I certainly would hope that my kid would have a better head on their shoulders by that age than to be scared of that sort of thing, but just earlier in this thread there were several people who mentioned being terrified of their first experiences with it.
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Adapt and Survive
Join Date: Jan 2007
Location: Ann Arbor, Mi
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I am a scientist, engineer and an atheist, I don't believe that people have a soul so logically there can't be ghosts or heaven or hell etc.
but... I have just have a gut feeling that says no, ![]() we did do it when I was a kid, and got messages. At the very least it just seems dumb as a party game. ![]() |
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We have to go back, Kate!
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Yorkshire
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My friends and I used to play with ouija boards when I was at sixth form college. We did it most lunchtimes for about two months. We revelled in it and scared the shit out of ourselves regularly. One time, I ended up half convinced that an evil spirit (named Red) had followed me home (mum was away so I was alone in the house). That was less fun :P
In terms of childhood limitations, there weren't many that I recall. I had strict limits on how far I was allowed to stray from the house, and mum was never happy with me going off to fairgrounds with my friends (she had a fear of fairground abductions). But beyond that not much at all. I suppose there were a couple of tv programmes they didn't want me watching, but none that I wanted to see. Books were pretty much ok. I only recall one time when mum didn't want me reading a book which had done the rounds of Dad my big brother and her. I was 12 at the time and the book was about a woman who'd been severely abused and developed a split personality (it was also made into a rather shocking film). Telling me that the book was too old for me and that I wasn't allowed to read it was basically a guarantee that I would :P I waited until I had the house to myself for the afternoon, stole the book from mum's room (she was half way through it at the time) and read it in one session. It was brilliant, it totally gripped me and didn't disturb me. I still recall the feeling of slightly naughty luxury as I lay on our new sofa reading a forbidden book, my bare feet touching the velvety smooth velour. Yey. Must have got through a whole box of Rice Krispies as I read ![]() I don't recall any other obvious examples. I daresay there were tv programmes that were switched over without me being aware at the time, and no doubt subjects that weren't discussed when i was there; but it was done with enough subtlety that I didn't notice. More noticable was the embarrassment factor of anything remotely sexual coming on tv when dad was in the room lol. But that was a wider family thing, rather than just me. eta: It was a true story. The film was called Cybil but I can't recal if the book was also. Last edited by DanaC; 12-13-2008 at 03:38 AM. |
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~~Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.~~
Join Date: Apr 2006
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You mean I could have been playing Apples to Apples instead of the Ouija! I feel so cheated.
j/k but The Apples game does sound fun indeed! |
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lobber of scimitars
Join Date: Jul 2001
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It is quite possibly the best group game in existence. Well, except for an orgy, but that's a whole different kind of party.
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Your Bartender
Join Date: Jan 2002
Location: Philly Burbs, PA
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It is lots of fun.
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I hear them call the tide
Join Date: Dec 2005
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Well we went for not because beest is not comfortable with it, and I can't really see the entertainment value so felt no need to object to his objection. Thanks for the interesting discussion
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Monster, it wasn't for not at at all.
I very much enjoyed this mature adult discussion in all of its many nuances. ![]() ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- ---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------- The rest of this is not directed toward anyone in particular. ![]() Quote:
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My points are twofold, one, that we when faced with a situation of which we know little should possibly lend an open ear to those who may be better informed. Secondly, simply because we don't think something is true, or real; doesn't automatically it so. Belittling something can make us feel more comfortable, safe, and secure; but are we actually? The longer I live, the more I realize there is much that exists that I know little or nothing about.
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Doctor Wtf
Join Date: Oct 2007
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We should call him to confirm this, though.
What is the number of the Beest?
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I hear them call the tide
Join Date: Dec 2005
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diameter or length?
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Join Date: Dec 2008
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Ouija for 11 year olds
Absolutely not suitable. Indeed, not suitable for anyone. Think of it's purpose. Those who use it do so with a belief, no matter how jovial they regard that belief. Once one opens oneself up to evil, evil comes into your existence, it becomes real for oneself.
Suitable entertainment for 11 year old girls is hanging out, trying makeup for the first time, having slumber parties and all that general 'developing relationships' thing. |
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We have to go back, Kate!
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Join Date: Dec 2008
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Hi DanaC,
Yes. I should have gone easy on the 'is' . No reason why boys can't potter about with cosmetics in a 'historically gender constructed' girl-like manner! But in my experience, the majority of boys left to their own devices don't tinker with make up! I have to admit though that I find it fascinating to hear girls talk about Star Wars! |
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Join Date: Feb 2007
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I know very few of you will agree with me, but:
No. Ouija boards creep me the fuck out. It's my personal belief that there are Other Things Out There--call them spirits, angels, afrits, Thebans, or whatever. Non-human, we can't ascertain their purposes or even whether they are "good" or "evil" according to our norms. Why take the risk? I don't think the average gaggle of 11 year old girls, or group of anybody, really, would be successful in contacting them through a bit of cardboard and plastic, but the tiny possibility still freaks me out. So, no.
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